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To feel really gutted for England tonight?

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Acapulco12 · 15/07/2024 01:28

This Euros tournament has been quite a crazy ride for England and it’s a tournament I’d rather forget (partly because of the way that Gareth Southgate and the team have been treated by the British press and their own fans).

I think that whilst the team has loads of fantastic world-class players, they haven’t consistently played well as a team, either in the run-up (e.g. in the Iceland or Bosnia games) or in the tournament itself.

I really feel that the team only managed to get through to the final because of moments of individual brilliance (Jude Bellingham’s goal, Ollie Watkins’ goal, Pickford’s absolutely top-notch goalkeeping).

I’m also quite disappointed with elements of Gareth Southgate’s management even though I still really admire his leadership style, his achievements as England manager and his attitude. Southgate has - undeniably - produced consistently excellent results with this team, but they haven’t yet won anything with him, and ultimately they will be judged on winning. They have got close to winning on two occasions now with him, and he and they obviously care for and respect each other, but I don’t think that’s enough anymore (feels harsh to write that).

I think it’s time for the team to find a new manager and go in a new direction, but equally I think it will take time for a new manager to find their feet with England and I worry that the new manager will not be able to create the same sort of culture that Southgate did, which I think really helped to shape this current team and make them so successful.

I know that there can only be one winner in the Euros - just like in any sports competition - but I just really feel for the England players. I’ve followed them for a few years now, they come across as a really nice team and I feel really sorry that it didn’t work out for them tonight.

Focussing on the final tonight, Spain were clearly the better team tonight - and throughout the Euros. Having said that, I do feel quite sad that the England players couldn’t achieve the win they wanted. They obviously really really wanted to win, and I think the team’s performance has overshadowed the individual achievements and excellence of the England players that I mentioned earlier in the post.

I know there will be many more tournaments to come, probably for most players in the team as most of them are still very young and are full of potential, but they had so much expectation riding on them and they came pretty close to winning, having got to the final.

They should feel really proud of themselves for getting to the final and coming close to winning, but I know that they would rather have won than been runners up.

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DanielGault · 15/07/2024 09:52

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 15/07/2024 09:44

😂Glad I don't seem to be the only one who thinks so!

I don't want Southgate to go, but I want the team to play more attacking football and Kane to be dropped when he's not fit!

You are totally him, he says the exact same!

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 15/07/2024 09:44

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 08:01

Are you my husband 😂😂😂

😂Glad I don't seem to be the only one who thinks so!

I don't want Southgate to go, but I want the team to play more attacking football and Kane to be dropped when he's not fit!

WillimNot · 15/07/2024 09:40

They played like crap, in fact they got lucky the rest of the tournament and the one decent match we had was against the Netherlands.

There was little to no defending last night, Walker needs to put the same effort into chasing a ball as he does into two timing his wife and spawning illegitimate children, Foden needs his eyes testing, Kane is past it and Southgate needs to go. Stones I fail to see why he was there, same as Alexander Arnold at the start. Grealish not being called on because Maguire was injured was a huge error. Watkins and Palmer should not have come on so late.

Southgate but he's done what every other manager does, in that he has a pet fave who he carries on playing once their international glory days are over. It was the same with Shearer, Beckham, Owen, and Rooney before. All got crap but carried on being called up.

Spain had good young players who didn't bother with set pieces, they played decisive football and went for it.

We didn't deserve to be there last night and they outplayed us with ease.

And yes, I support England but as a supporter, we have to admit we were crap.

SerafinasGoose · 15/07/2024 09:40

The disappointing truth is that England simply don't measure up on the international stage against teams like Spain (and in general, not this particular tournament) Germany and Italy.

When you think of the obscene sums of money sunk into this sport, mostly to the exclusion of others, you do have to wonder if our national preoccupation is worth the cost. Thousands of £s a week for kicking a bag of air around?

I feel for Southgate and the England squad, but not a particular complement of their fans who 'celebrated' the Lionesses' success by making repulsively misogynistic comments about the team and women in general. And this says a great deal about the culture surrounding men's football, IMO.

Now, the Lionesses are an international football team I can really get behind.

Thepartnersdesk · 15/07/2024 09:37

Southgate won't be sacked. But he's been doing the job a long time and it is likely he'll step away after this one so it felt like his last chance.

There's been remarkably little talk of him being sacked over his tenure. His track record speaks for itself and consistency has reaped rewards (just not the big one unfortunately).

Acapulco12 · 15/07/2024 09:33

Cheeseandpickleroll · 15/07/2024 07:08

It's not a new manager we need it's a new captain. Why was Harry Kane in the squad he contributed very little and didn't play a full game the entire tournament did he? That said 2nd place in the Euros is a wonderful achievement we should be proud of the squad for getting this far twice on the trot. I hate the British media who will no doubt go to town laying into them all.

I think Kane was still injured from last season, maybe, so perhaps GS didn’t want to risk him playing a full game. Because of this, I don’t think he reached his full potential in this tournament.

That said, Kane is still an excellent player and he did score 3 goals across all matches. He’s also a very good team captain, because he’s an excellent footballer, a very experienced player and he seems like a decent guy and a good role model for the other players - especially the less experienced players - to look up to.

I think that they will change the manager soon and they may make Jude Bellingham captain soon. I hope Kane stays on for a while though - at least until the next Euros.

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Acapulco12 · 15/07/2024 09:14

daisychain01 · 15/07/2024 06:45

Southgate hasn't yet made a decision as to his future as England Manager, so let's hope he doesn't quit just because of this result. Trouble is, he has been manager for 8 years so people are bound to judge him harshly just based on that time ... when will a win happen if it hasn't happened after 8 years (although having said that, COVID did disrupt play for over a year).

being National Manager is a bit of a poisoned challis - lots of talented players from different clubs having to "gel" and work as a team is very challenging.

Completely agree with this - and I think your post just underlines how hard he has worked and how much he has achieved as England manager. He’s done a fab job in getting all the England players to enjoy playing for him and with each other.

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Shoxfordian · 15/07/2024 09:00

The idea that coming second is brilliant is exactly why we never win 🙄

Alicewinn · 15/07/2024 08:59

It’s the hope it’s a killer

maudelovesharold · 15/07/2024 08:58

the cohesion wasn't there.

The cohesion never seems to be there. Why? That’s the question…It’s always down to individuals. Does the England team not train together as much as the more successful teams?

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 08:57

Caerulea · 15/07/2024 08:51

As someone who hasn't missed a Euros or WC since Italia '90 (apart from that game against Holland in' 96 when we won 4-1 & I was in a pub having dinner with my nan in a different room) I don't want Southgate to leave. Every tournament is the same & it's the Press & the pressure that causes the most problems imo.

National teams in other countries are treated like heroes from the get-go.

Another aspect is that we are truly hated by everyone else & I have never understood why cos no English team has ever been arrogant or agressive. We dive & whine FAR less than virtually every other country (Italy, Spain & Portugal I'm looking at you! Not to mention the South American teams), players rarely lash out & we generally have a good attitude. Even down to the whoever the coach is at the time.

Some of our fans... Well.. It doesn't help 😬

I think that combination of our press & others attitude towards us is too much & often our undoing 🤷🏼‍♀️.

This tournament was uninspiring for us, the cohesion wasn't there. Although the journey was theoretically easy they were all teams who play in a way we've ALWAYS struggled with, never found easy though on paper we should.

End of the day - Spain were better for the entire tournament & better on the night. We didn't get trounced, our goal was from open play & not a pen or a set-piece. Decisions went both ways, we weren't robbed & had Spain lost to the team who only had 30% possession that would have been tragic & unfair.

Well, it's that attitude right there tbh! I doubt you're truly hated by most people. Most people are more bothered with their own teams. The press is major bugbear here when it comes to England, rather than the teams. And the 'it's coming home' shite.

Caerulea · 15/07/2024 08:51

As someone who hasn't missed a Euros or WC since Italia '90 (apart from that game against Holland in' 96 when we won 4-1 & I was in a pub having dinner with my nan in a different room) I don't want Southgate to leave. Every tournament is the same & it's the Press & the pressure that causes the most problems imo.

National teams in other countries are treated like heroes from the get-go.

Another aspect is that we are truly hated by everyone else & I have never understood why cos no English team has ever been arrogant or agressive. We dive & whine FAR less than virtually every other country (Italy, Spain & Portugal I'm looking at you! Not to mention the South American teams), players rarely lash out & we generally have a good attitude. Even down to the whoever the coach is at the time.

Some of our fans... Well.. It doesn't help 😬

I think that combination of our press & others attitude towards us is too much & often our undoing 🤷🏼‍♀️.

This tournament was uninspiring for us, the cohesion wasn't there. Although the journey was theoretically easy they were all teams who play in a way we've ALWAYS struggled with, never found easy though on paper we should.

End of the day - Spain were better for the entire tournament & better on the night. We didn't get trounced, our goal was from open play & not a pen or a set-piece. Decisions went both ways, we weren't robbed & had Spain lost to the team who only had 30% possession that would have been tragic & unfair.

Acapulco12 · 15/07/2024 08:49

PianPianPiano · 15/07/2024 08:17

Someone else has already pointed out that second out of 32 hardly equates to "poor at football", but I also wanted to pick up on "large nation"! We're a small island - far smaller population than France or Germany...

We haven’t actually got a far smaller population than France or Germany (unless you’re being sarcastic?!) England has about 55 million people, whilst France has around 67 million and Germany has about 83 million.

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GPTec1 · 15/07/2024 08:48

Cheeseandpickleroll · 15/07/2024 07:31

Poor at football coming runner up twice at the Euros? Under what definition does that count as poor? When our rugby or cricket teams come second we, rightly, praise them to the hilt for doing so well!

Hence why i used the word "relative" which you appear to have missed....

Hardly anyone plays Cricket or Rugby (to a decent level) and we regularly win major trophies in these sports.

Spain has won the Euros 5x, Germany 4x times, european countries have multiple WC's between them, all in the modern era, we have none.

England is a major football nation, with one of the richest leagues in the world, we have a large population and football is our no1 sport, yet we do not win finals, this is something we should be ashamed of, not be proud of.

Professional sport is about winning, its not about coming 2nd, might as well go out in the qualifiers.

barnefri · 15/07/2024 08:47

PianPianPiano · 15/07/2024 08:17

Someone else has already pointed out that second out of 32 hardly equates to "poor at football", but I also wanted to pick up on "large nation"! We're a small island - far smaller population than France or Germany...

England has a population of 56 million… that’s not small. England may be quite small geographically, but it’s densely populated.

Of all the European countries, only Germany, France and Italy have a larger population than England (83M, 64M, 59M, respectively).

Anothershapeofapple · 15/07/2024 08:42

Zanatdy · 15/07/2024 08:13

I don’t know a lot about football but England has some top class players, they just don’t gel that well as a team, and that falls to the manager. They were bloody lucky to get to the final and Spain 100% deserved to win, best team in the tournament.

Edited

I have read / heard in the media that Harry Kane caused Tottenham to feel disconnected as a team as well. So maybe there’s some truth to that after all. Not good for a Captain!

Anyway! Here’s to next time 🥂

Acapulco12 · 15/07/2024 08:41

EmmetEmma · 15/07/2024 06:37

Who might be better at the job - Southgate has been the best England Manager in decades if we are going by results

I find this dissing of him odd and unpleasant

I’m not sure if your post was aimed at me but I don’t agree that I’m dissing him at all. I admire him so much for so many reasons and he has done an absolutely outstanding job with the England team, but he has been in the role for 8 years and I think it’s time for someone new to do the role now.

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Bloom15 · 15/07/2024 08:40

LoudSnoringDog · 15/07/2024 07:07

Agree Southgate shouldn't be sacked.

He needs to stop with the loyalty to players like Kane, Walker etc. utter dross to watch.

If putting the likes of palmer, Watkins and Toney on and the game accelerates then start those players!!

Completely agree with this - some of our plays just aren't good enough and Southgate needs to stop playing them

maudelovesharold · 15/07/2024 08:39

Also think it's time for Gary Linekar to go.

I was watching BBC coverage, but didn’t see anything amiss. What did Lineker do?

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 08:34

Miley1967 · 15/07/2024 08:31

Yes I feel terribly sorry for them especially Gareth and Harry Kane as it's likely the younger ones will get other chances.
Also think it's time for Gary Linekar to go.

I didn't see any Lineker at all, what's the story there?

Miley1967 · 15/07/2024 08:31

Yes I feel terribly sorry for them especially Gareth and Harry Kane as it's likely the younger ones will get other chances.
Also think it's time for Gary Linekar to go.

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 08:25

maudelovesharold · 15/07/2024 08:15

I don’t know a lot about it, but does anyone think Spain’s football success is anything to do with their strong ‘Academy’ structure? I was hearing last night that Yamal has been with Barcelona since the age of 7 and at their boarding training school from age 12.

Absolutely. They've had it for quite a while. I think Messi was brought over to Barcelona very young.

chocolateisavegetable · 15/07/2024 08:24

Let’s take comfort in the fact that England won the Euros in 2022

rewilded · 15/07/2024 08:22

I agree OP. We have many talented individual players but not the flair of a team. Spain's set pieces were outstanding and some of their players - Nico Williams being one looked totally unfazed by our team.

They did well but need to lighten up. Jordan Pickford is the only team member who looks like he is enjoying the match and he is probably the main reason we have got as far as we have.

If Southgate stays he needs to build a team not a collection of amazing players. The Spanish team didn't even play their best game last night.

That being said we came second which is brilliant! Well done to all our team and Palmer, Shaw and Rice were exceptional.

Rosie7475 · 15/07/2024 08:19

Far too much hype for the England team in every tournament. Every radio station playing that stupid 'it's coming home' song, living on past glories, the players have a huge amount of pressure because they're all individually good and paid X million per year so therefore that should translate to a winning team etc.

I watched every game and they just don't attack enough. Too much faffing around passing the ball back to the goalkeeper and looking for the perfect opportunity to score rather than just going for it and attempting to create chances. We have a defensive style of play in the main and it doesn't work well!

I think we were very fortunate to have got so far tbh and if we had been on the other side of the draw I doubt we would have progressed very far.

The best team won last night and that's all there is to it