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To find the Ambani wedding distasteful

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Soonenough · 14/07/2024 21:06

I know everyone can do what they like , it's their money . But such an extravagant event in a place where a large proportion of the population live in slum conditions is rather unsettling.? Plus the bride is stunning but the groom unfortunately does not come across as an individual with a lot

of intelligence . Before I get flamed , he and his family are encouraging the public to view them and I guess are expecting admiration.

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WhataPlank · 15/07/2024 09:34

The silver lining is that a lot of money is being SPENT rather than hoarded in some bank accounts or trapped in assets somewhere - that's a lot of people being paid for services and products, a big influx of money being put into the economy in general.

I think it's all a bit grim - but all for the wealthy spending their money over hoarding it.

ViciousCurrentBun · 15/07/2024 09:34

I suppose 500 million is now in the hands of business that supplied the wedding rather than just gaining interest. I did read they paid for the weddings of if I think 100 couples and gave them a years supply of groceries or something like that. It did look over the top.

Haveyougotallnight · 15/07/2024 09:32

Whatabonkersworld · 15/07/2024 09:25

What an utterly useless statement.

What's useless about this statement? I'm baffled on behalf of the person who posted it

Gingerdancedbackwards · 15/07/2024 09:28

Treelichen · 15/07/2024 09:11

Nothing to do with their culture. Spending £500 million, which is the estimated cost, is obscene.

The principle remains

3peassuit · 15/07/2024 09:27

The kindest spin to put on it is that the wedding will bring employment to many people however tacky it looks to outsiders.

Whatabonkersworld · 15/07/2024 09:25

PasteldeNata78 · 15/07/2024 09:12

the UK doesn't need to send any aid actually. India has plenty of wealth already it's just very unequally distributed.

What an utterly useless statement.

Livingtothefull · 15/07/2024 09:23

Walkaround · 15/07/2024 08:10

They are also sharing their wealth out like sweets if they are paying the likes of Boris Johnson to go out there. He can’t even afford to pay for his own wallpaper.

Well he has a lot of children to provide for so no wonder he is hard up; we don't even know for sure how many.

Grammarnut · 15/07/2024 09:19

Certainly tasteless. Also, such disparity of wealth is obscene. Shows what sort of political convictions T. Blair had when he is prepared to show up at such a shindig.

AnnaBegins · 15/07/2024 09:15

It's not just the west thinking it's obscene, it's the same in much of India, my Indian colleagues and the drivers and shopkeepers etc I chatted to last month in Maharashtra were also totally appalled by the ostentation. My taxi driver in Mumbai drove me past their mansion so he could rant about how rubbish they were and how great more reserved rich people like Ratan Tata are!

I'm sure they're lovely people and very in love, but surely your average 7 day huge Indian wedding would show that just as well as a multi-month extravaganza.

PasteldeNata78 · 15/07/2024 09:12

Whatabonkersworld · 15/07/2024 08:26

It's pretty obscene when you consider if they donated just a small amount of the wedding budget annually, the UK would no longer need to send aid to India.

the UK doesn't need to send any aid actually. India has plenty of wealth already it's just very unequally distributed.

Treelichen · 15/07/2024 09:11

Gingerdancedbackwards · 15/07/2024 06:14

Look, people in this country get themselves into thousands of pounds of debt to have their 'fairytale' wedding. You have engagement parties, hen/stag events, bridal showers, etc.
Then you invite people unwanted, but are family so you have to, or their are friends of the parents.
You have flowers, favours, meals etc.
People even forgo property deposits to spend £10000000s on a wedding.
So what if its 20k or 2650 mill? None of anyone's fucking business. At least she looked stunning and not like a meringue

This thread is just to have a pop at another culture, isn't it?

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Nothing to do with their culture. Spending £500 million, which is the estimated cost, is obscene.

Biglovemarg · 15/07/2024 09:11

CelesteCunningham · 14/07/2024 21:21

I mean. Rich and powerful people having an extravagant wedding in an unequal society isn't a new thing, is it?

Yep, this.

marcopront · 15/07/2024 09:09

Chucklesisters · 15/07/2024 08:52

I do worry about the huge food waste though - I can’t imagine the Ambanis being thoughtful enough to distribute leftovers post each event to charity organisations that then feed the poor and homeless.

I disagree
I think that will have been organised by someone

Based on my experience of attending lavish Indian parties.

BloodyHellKenAgain · 15/07/2024 09:04

LunaNorth · 14/07/2024 21:14

They’ve been getting married since March. As in, that’s when the wedding started.

That’s a fuckton of vol-au-vents.

A never ending social event sounds hideous to me.

Commonsense22 · 15/07/2024 08:57

It is not the inequality that gets me. Billionaires spend everyday on yachts and crazy houses and cars and jewellery and artwork etc.

What I find offensive here is the deliberate attempt to make everyone aware of it. The press must have ignored these celebrations for months but it got to the point where they couldn't anymore, probably because of the high number of high profile celebrities involved. And the fact persons of public interest such as the blairs are thinking it's acceptable to appear at this event for a fee.

The reason they have invited all these people, in drips and drabs, is to ensure the continued focus of the media over a sustained period of time. It's quite calculating.

PlanetJanette · 15/07/2024 08:56

If we focused less on whether we approve of how rich people spend their money and more on whether those rich people should be as rich as they are in the first place, we would be far better off.

I don't really care what a multibillionaire does with whatever of his money is left after he makes a fair contribution to society. What matters is whether he is making that fair contribution to society.

People obsessing about things which they have (and should have) no control over when it comes to the super rich is a very convenient way of keeping people from focusing on the things they do have control over - like the taxation that the super rich are subject to.

ll09sm · 15/07/2024 08:56

Busybeemumm · 15/07/2024 08:21

There is a video of mother of the groom walking hand in hand with KK (who was dressed so inappropriately) I felt so cringe for her! Why did they invite all these western celebs. The Bollywood actors I can understand but not Hollywood! So tacky. The worst is all these people will come and enjoy the wedding and still laugh at them. Stunning bride though.

To be honest no self respecting Hollywood celebs turned up. The Kardashians are just clowns for hire. They’ll go anywhere for money.

Nelliemellie · 15/07/2024 08:54

I hope the celebrities who got paid to attend gave large donations to Indian charities/ some got paid 5 million dollars/pounds? Probably not.

Chucklesisters · 15/07/2024 08:52

I do worry about the huge food waste though - I can’t imagine the Ambanis being thoughtful enough to distribute leftovers post each event to charity organisations that then feed the poor and homeless.

noworklifebalance · 15/07/2024 08:51

Meh, can’t get worked up about it. Whether you spend a £1000, £10 000 or millions on a wedding, there will always be someone or a charity that could have benefitted from that money.
A PP mentioned that the amount spent on the wedding was <1% of the family’s overall wealth. Who knows what they have donated to charitable causes - perhaps nothing, perhaps a little, perhaps a lot?

The Royal Family have spent a plenty of money on events, holidays, homes, castles, weddings etc and associated security over the years.

deeahgwitch · 15/07/2024 08:49

When I think of the poverty in the world I find the money spent on the wedding celebration obscene.
Utterly disgusting.

Chucklesisters · 15/07/2024 08:44

I have Indian heritage so have been following the spectacle closely. You’ll be delighted to know there’s another raft of celebrations up here in London for FOUR days next week, with Adele and Taylor Swift rumoured to be performing and the same Bollywood celebs attending along with a rash of Hollywood celebs.

Delightfully tacky.

Lentilweaver · 15/07/2024 08:42

TallulahBetty · 15/07/2024 08:39

I actually don't even know who they are! Anyone else?

The father of the groom is the ninth richest man in the world and the richest in Asia. Hence why everyone is queuing up to kiss the ring.

MikeRafone · 15/07/2024 08:41

Walkaround · 15/07/2024 08:10

They are also sharing their wealth out like sweets if they are paying the likes of Boris Johnson to go out there. He can’t even afford to pay for his own wallpaper.

well he can now

deeahgwitch · 15/07/2024 08:40

StayHomePeo · 15/07/2024 08:10

I also find it gross when a celeb graces a homeless charity with their presence wearing a dress that costs thousands but apparently they are doing so much to support the cause

I agree.