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To be in tears after dentist visit?

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PandaWorld · 13/07/2024 21:41

I have 2 chronic diseases, one impacts a lot on my joints. During lockdown I was in a lot of pain and had trouble brushing. The plaque build up was quite awful but I plucked up to go and I saw the hygienist as a follow up. It was pretty awful and I gagged a bit during it.
So that was a year ago and today I went back for an annual check up. Dentist knows about my conditions, asked me why I didn't floss (It's too painful and I have said this before) why have I not booked in sooner? Because I wasn't told to do so and 'The tartar build up has got really bad again on one side, you're not brushing properly and seeing us just once a year is not good enough. You need to be seeing us a lot more regularly.'
He made me feel dirty and like a naughty school girl. Also, I have been trying so hard with my teeth, spend at least 5 minutes morning and night on them so I don't understand why this is happening. What's more I had a good look in the mirror and yes there is some build up but certainly not awful or really bad as he says. I have to go back in a few weeks and really don't want to.

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ForGreyKoala · 13/07/2024 21:56

I've never been spoken to by a dentist like that in my life - and I usually visit one very 10/15 years! I would be looking for a new dentist.

Bluevelvetsofa · 13/07/2024 21:48

That’s often how they are. Every time I see the hygienist, it’s a different one and they talk about the build up of plaque and brushing and what sort of toothbrush and different interdental brushes and mouthwash etc. The next time, another one says something different. I have spent money I don’t have on buying these different things. I have done exactly as they suggest, using all these different things and they still say it’s not enough.

Just go with it, knowing that you’re doing what you can.