Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

For making use of Free Quotes

32 replies

987654321abc · 13/07/2024 16:38

Booked an appointment with a company to get a price for replacing windows and doors. Salesman came, gave us a price that we simply can’t afford right now, so we said we appreciated his time and it’s something we’ll have to save up a bit longer for.

He was polite, but clearly unhappy and pissed off. I get it, it felt like a waste of time for him. We’ve had a few tradesman quoting for various things recently and I wondered, how am I meant to find out how much things are going to cost without “wasting someone’s time?” Is there a way?

I hate upsetting people but equally I don’t like being made to feel bad for not just immediately saying yes take my money.

So, am I being unreasonable for asking for quotes from people in order to get an idea of costings, when I know that I probably won’t be able to afford it immediately?

OP posts:
BruceWillissDribble · 13/07/2024 18:22

Some tradesmen now charge for quotes to save their time being wasted on errrr timewasters like yourself.

BusyCM · 13/07/2024 18:21

I think using a bit of common sense as well..... I don't even own a house and I know that all that work you listed would cost more than £2k!

TraumaSalt · 13/07/2024 18:18

Be honest.

“We aren’t sure of the price, if I email you pictures and details could you give me a ball park figure so we know if it’s in budget and we won’t waste your time coming out to us.”

Ask for an estimate so you have a ball park figure.

username47985 · 13/07/2024 18:15

I don't think anyone has 'come for you'. They are just answering your question

987654321abc · 13/07/2024 18:12

Haha I knew the builders spouses would come for me 🤦‍♀️
I do understand how frustrating it must be. I guess what I don’t understand is how to get a ball park figure in the first place, before getting the quote, so that I don’t waste time?

As an example, one job we need done is extending our driveway, removing a sloping ground level flower bed and levelling it, removing a large crescent shaped raised bed, and fixing the steps that are on the other side of it. Other than roughly measuring the square footage of it, and googling how much paving slabs cost, am I really supposed to google things like how much sand and cement is needed for the pointing? How many tonnes of soil needs to be removed, what machinery is required, and how much the hire is? How many days this job will take, how many workers would be needed and what each of their hourly rate is? I really want this job done asap, and have saved a couple of grand. Got quoted £8 grand so had to say sorry can’t do that anytime soon. Am I just supposed to have a a five figure pot of cash ready to go? I’m genuinely puzzled.

OP posts:
rosesinmygarden · 13/07/2024 17:18

It sounds like you have no intention of having the work done in the near future, so yes YABU.

Rough prices for building work can be googled.

Do you have any idea how long it takes to visit a site, price materials and put together a quote? I do as my dh is a builder. It takes literally hours. Often after a day on site. Also, the price is very likely to change within weeks/months due to changes in prices of materials so it's pointless for everyone.

WrylyAmused · 13/07/2024 17:15

No, of course not.

If you have any sense you'll be getting at least 3 different quotes for any work done anyway, so that you can compare between tradesmen. It's perfectly normal and part of their cost of sales.

And of course they don't like it cos they want the commission (if they're sales as opposed to a small outfit where the worker himself gives the quote). But that's the job.

Quotes only tend to be valid for 3-6 months though, so if you have no intentions for a while, and literally just want a rough estimate on pricing, you can do that with a phonecall or email, and get your comparison quotes which are more personalised to your situation once you've saved up.