Aibu to want to go home

What @Bettysnow says: I'd go home and wouldn't bother telling any of them anything and when your "friend "eventually realises you're gone and asks why you left give her both barrels then block her

I don't really have any advice but just wanted to say I'm so sorry it's like this for you.

I agree with the earlier poster who said they are behaving like High School kids.

It sounds like you are different to them and they are being nasty towards you. That's so impolite and nasty and it must be a horrible environment to be in.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do x

I wouldn’t even bother sitting with them.

depending on the type of holiday I’d either try and go solo and please myself etc or book an early flight home, leave without them noticing etc and block my “friend” enroute to the airport.

what a bunch of horrible cows. It’s most likely them rather than you and if it was something you’d unintentionally done, the least is they should’ve told you so it could be cleared up.

I'd just potter around doing my own thing and ignore the lot of them for the next 3 days. Ditch your friend when you get home and tell her why.

They sound like horrible people.

Really nasty and that so called friend who asked you along needs dumped for good!
I'd go home and wouldn't bother telling any of them anything and when your "friend "eventually realises you're gone and asks why you left give her both barrels then block her

Leave now and don’t say a word. They sound like a pack of bitches.

I am guessing they invited you for your share of the cost. They sound awful. I am so sorry.

You don't need their company - they are like mean school girls.
Decide what to do for the rest of the time to entirely suit yourself.
Enjoy the alone time. Meet some locals, shop, read, swim, take tours and sleep to your own liking.

No doubt in my mind that your friends been slagging you off behind your back else why are they comfortable treating you like that? please leave asap with no announcement and block her

This, OP. Don't take it on.

I'm quite confident and not shy but even I'd find that unbelievable difficult. You've stumbled into some weird dynamics and your friend is not sticking with you which is very hurtful.

Your friend probably knew these friends can be like this and asked you to come so you can be her safety blanket. But now she's been accepted by one group, she's dumped you.

I'd fly home or book myself somewhere on my own if possible. Either way, get away from them for your own sanity.

Have to say I'd get a flight home ASAP and just block the 'friend' .. what an awful way to treat someone. Hopefully there are reasonable flights to get home.
I certainly wouldn't let them know I was leaving either!

Please don’t convince yourself you deserve this treatment it’s their problem not yours

Awful for you , I'd go home and I'd tell your 'friend' why.

Horrible. I'd book a flight and go home. I'm sorry that happened. I'd be considering the future of the friendship.

Wow. What a bunch of bitches. Sorry OP. Go home immediately if you can afford it. If not just imagine you are on holiday on your own - these are strangers after all, so fuck their rejection, and your friend is no friend. As PPs have said, relax, read, make no further attempt to be a part of things, and embrace the fact you can do as you please.

I'd just ditch the lot of them and enjoy a solo holiday for the last few days. You've spent money to be there (and presumably arranged childcare) and you'll just have to fork out more to go home early.

Take the opportunity to read a book in the sunshine, swim in the pool, eat nice food. It's a real treat going to a restaurant and just having yourself to please - and just reading a book.

Do some solo sightseeing if that's an option. Try and make the most of the time you have left.

The other women are being rude and their behaviour is perplexing but I'd not try and work out what's gone on. Just enjoy your holiday.

And ditch the friend permanently.

Dump them and so your own thing for the rest of the holiday.

Then dump the friend when you're home.

What is wrong with people??? You sound lovely and these mean girls are just unbearably immature. I would try to get a flight home.

Wow. Fuck them. Adult women who behave like high school mean girls make me want to vomit.

It sounds like you’ve got a healthy perspective on it all. I think you should do whatever you would like to do and whatever would make you happy. Which might mean going home to see the DC, but also given that you have paid money for the trip and it’s only a few days left, if it was me I might find some sight-seeing that I really wanted to do and could enjoy on my own, or maybe see if the hotel is running any good group tours/trips? Or as a PP said just peace out with a good book by the pool, get some nice spa treatments. etc. Maybe try chatting to the other guests and see if they are friendlier than this lot!

I would also go home without bothering to let the others know and go NC with the “friend”.

Their behaviour says a lot more about them than it does you OP.

When are you due to fly home?

That sounds horrible & I think you should just go home & spend time with your family. They sound really immature. I don't know whether you should even say you're heading home. Are you sharing a room with anyone?

YANBU - if you can enjoy it without them and laze around reading then do otherwise come back.

Did someone drop out and that’s why you were begged to come?

I think I’d just ask what their problem was to at least find out and possibly clear the air.