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AIBU: Called out my gardener on Facebook

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WilmaFlintstone38 · 12/07/2024 23:45

I've had a gardener several times over the past few years. I wanted some work doing and messaged him twice over the last couple of months giving him my holiday dates. No reply to either message so I just presumed he didn't want to do the work and started looking around for someone else.

He did message me when I got back from holiday to say he'd come round Saturday 6 July. This is just for a recce. I messaged him that morning to check what time he was planning to arrive as I'd got shopping and things to do. He came back with "I might have to rearrange". I gave him up as a bad job.

This morning I'm looking on the local Facebook forum and he's advertising for work. I replied saying that I was still waiting for a date. It was a woman managing the page who replied asking me to call her so she could "put you on our system". Cue a series of messages, ending with me stating that I'm a long standing customer, have been communicating with Fred and I'm already on the "system" but waiting for him to respond.

Less than 20 minutes later Fred comes back with a date over the upcoming weekend. So he wasn't too busy, and they're looking for work but pissing off loyal customers!

Have I made him look stupid?

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Inlaw · 12/07/2024 23:50

Bless they just sound disorganised. I don’t think this is as deep as you think it is.

WilmaFlintstone38 · 12/07/2024 23:50

crockofshite · 12/07/2024 23:48

I'd swerve this one and find another gardener. He sounds really flakey.

The thing is he's been really good when he's done work in the past. He is flaky about times and I wonder if it's because I've only got a small garden and not Downton Abbey. The garden's small but it's work I can't do myself.

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crockofshite · 12/07/2024 23:48

I'd swerve this one and find another gardener. He sounds really flakey.