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To do beans on toast once a week?

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MollyAndMuck · 12/07/2024 22:39

Doing a different work pattern soon and two nights a week will be a lot of pressure to pick up DCs (infant age) from after school, feed them and not end up putting to bed too late.

I can't cook from scratch these nights and realistically don't think I'll be organised enough to batch cook for both nights.

AIBU to give my kids beans on toast every week for one evening meal? I know it's UPF but at least it's some kind of veg and very quick. They'll be having a hot lunch at school and are pretty good at eating it.

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Whatwouldnanado · 13/07/2024 17:01

Somethingontoast is a regular here. Knocked up by the kids when we all have to be in separate places. Beans, or eggs both with cheese and a bit of fruit works for us.

MollyAndMuck · 13/07/2024 17:01

MorvernBlack · 13/07/2024 09:54

Heinz have tinkered with the salt/sugar ratios, which makes all their stuff taste too sweet now. Heinz tomato soup was my comfort food for decades, now it's revolting.
Heinz do make sugar and sweetener free pasta sauce though, which is my go to for a quick meal. My other recommendation is fresh pasta in the freezer, 4 mins to cook from frozen, ready by the time the sauce is microwaved.

By fresh pasta in the freezer, do you mean the ravioli/tortellini stuff?

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MollyAndMuck · 13/07/2024 16:59

rainbowunicorn · 13/07/2024 15:01

Yep, it is definitely a mumsnet thing to gloat about. The things is though half the people banging on about it on here actually don't truly understand the difference between UPF and just processed. There was a thread a while back saying that we shouldn't used mince of any type cos according to them it was UPF and we shouldnt drink fruit juice or eat tinned tomatoes. What most of them don't get is that the odd meal of pizza, nuggets or whatever is fine as part of a good varied diet.

This is probably me as I'm not entirely sure what counts and what doesn't.

For the record, bread has to be rubbish sliced white stuff as nothing else is tolerated. Beans are not organic, usually own brand so the article about how good the Lidl ones are is interesting!

Thanks for the other ideas, soup hadn't occurred to me for some reason but is a good alternative. Sandwiches would be ok for DC but I'll be eating with them too, as will DH and I like something hot.

Baked potatoes are a good idea, especially the frozen ones, although I microwave beans rather than hob them so toast means things can be cooked simultaneously.

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greengreyblue · 13/07/2024 16:59

Beans are one of your 5 a day and a protein and a carb . No need for cucumber unless you really like it.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/07/2024 15:17

The idea of having cucumber or salad alongside beans on toast is really weird. Not new, though. Back in the early 90s I was given an NHS booklet about feeding my baby once she went onto solids which recommended serving beans on toast with peas. We didn't.

rainbowunicorn · 13/07/2024 15:01

ttcat37 · 12/07/2024 23:14

Just had to google what UPF was. FML, what a miserable existence avoiding everything that fits into that category. Is it some mumsnet thing to gloat about, avoiding UPFs? What exactly do you think might happen if your kids eat beans on toast once a week?

Yep, it is definitely a mumsnet thing to gloat about. The things is though half the people banging on about it on here actually don't truly understand the difference between UPF and just processed. There was a thread a while back saying that we shouldn't used mince of any type cos according to them it was UPF and we shouldnt drink fruit juice or eat tinned tomatoes. What most of them don't get is that the odd meal of pizza, nuggets or whatever is fine as part of a good varied diet.

LiterallyOnFire · 13/07/2024 14:59

Fiftyfiveandcounting · 13/07/2024 14:20

Beans on Toast with maybe some grated cheese or scrambled egg is a great quick meal so no problem with that. I do however have an issue with parents who think that because their children have a hot lunch at school, all their nutritional needs are taken care of. The children in our school rarely eat all the cooked meal and the amount of food thrown away daily is considerable. No one has time to police what your child is actually eating from the meal provided.

OP has been very specific it's only one day a week.

It's fine to consider nutrition over a week, rather than requiring each discrete meal to be nutritionally perfect.

Noshowlomo · 13/07/2024 14:50

@Shityshitybangbang yes!! Dominos is a very sexy food.
I’ve got my husband saying it now, if he’s out and he’s eating something nice he’ll send me a photo and say “look how sexy this is” 😂😂

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/07/2024 14:27

LiterallyOnFire · 13/07/2024 13:42

Carbs on carbs 😋

Can't beat it. Back in the 1970s when my Mum was working full-time as a primary school teacher, on the odd halcyon day our evening meal was steak pie from the butcher, chips* and beans or spaghetti hoops, followed by bread and butter and various cakes. All washed down with tea. Scottish high tea. My Mum is now 91, btw, and my Dad lived to 89. The high teas stopped at some point and she and Dad moved over to having a normal cooked meal in the evening, but always with a pudding course. She still always has cakes and biscuits in. And yet we survived!

(We did have vegetables and salad on other days. Fruit was expensive so handed out more sparingly. My brother and I often had to share an apple or an orange. I used to spend my pocket money on fruit because I was given sweets routinely so fruit was the treat for me. Unwitting reverse psychology!)

*home-made, but god knows what sort of fat they were deep fried in - it certainly wasn't mono- or polyunsaturated oil - probably lard or hydrogenated vegetable fat

Fiftyfiveandcounting · 13/07/2024 14:20

Beans on Toast with maybe some grated cheese or scrambled egg is a great quick meal so no problem with that. I do however have an issue with parents who think that because their children have a hot lunch at school, all their nutritional needs are taken care of. The children in our school rarely eat all the cooked meal and the amount of food thrown away daily is considerable. No one has time to police what your child is actually eating from the meal provided.

Shityshitybangbang · 13/07/2024 14:15

Noshowlomo · Today 12:45
Haha ** pretty much any lovely food I describe as sexy. I don’t actually think it’s sexual, but it is sexy! 😂😂

In that case I’ll have a sexy dominos lol 😂

Kneidlach · 13/07/2024 14:00

soupfiend · 12/07/2024 23:14

I cant wait for this obsession with UPFs to be over.

Ha ha I agree. But you just know it will be replaced by some new buzzword or phrase. Otherwise how will superior people let the rest of us plebs know how awful and neglectful we are?

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/07/2024 13:52

Judges
M and S beans are much the same price, I usually put a few drops of Tabasco in to sharpen them up.

Branston beans are £1.50 for 4 big tins in home bargains. Best beans ever, don’t need to add anything at all.

BigDahliaFan · 13/07/2024 13:50

Buy a toastie maker…cheese toastie and beans to ring the changes.

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/07/2024 13:50

WarsofWimbledon · Yesterday 23:40

Ikr? I quite often just have a bagel. Perhaps I’ll die at 50”

lovely. Put some salmon or tuna in it and enjoy with a glass of milk and you’ll celebrate your 100th!

LiterallyOnFire · 13/07/2024 13:42

Needmorelego · 13/07/2024 12:20

My Iceland delivery is running late so I can't have my planned Hoops on Toast for lunch 😭

Carbs on carbs 😋

LuckySantangelo35 · 13/07/2024 13:37

MasterBeth · 13/07/2024 12:59

No, no, no.

You don't cook* a snack.

It's a light meal.

(*Making toast and heating beans and whatever adjustments you make is cooking, before anyone starts.)

@MasterBeth

its not a snack, a snack is a bag or crisps or an apple- not a full on meal!!

Differentstarts · 13/07/2024 13:31

I hope people on here thinking beans on toast is the worst thing ever and who seem obsessed with never letting a drop of upf pass their lips aren't passing their ed onto their children. Balance is key.

Opinionwontchangeluv · 13/07/2024 13:27

Nothing wrong

lowflyingtitties · 13/07/2024 13:14

You cannot beat beans on toast. We have toastie nights too. Ham, cheese, beans, it all goes in. I love those nights. That breville toastie maker was money well spent. I cook eggs in it too 👍triangle shaped eggs.

JudgeJ · 13/07/2024 13:03

Shybutrude · 12/07/2024 22:49

@MollyAndMuck Waitrose Essentials beans are lovely 4 tins for £2

M and S beans are much the same price, I usually put a few drops of Tabasco in to sharpen them up.

MasterBeth · 13/07/2024 12:59

Moonshine5 · 13/07/2024 07:45

@LuckySantangelo35 I'm just not a fan of baked beans also psychologically (😂) I see it as a snack (awaiting the MN onslaught)

No, no, no.

You don't cook* a snack.

It's a light meal.

(*Making toast and heating beans and whatever adjustments you make is cooking, before anyone starts.)

Bjorkdidit · 13/07/2024 12:46

But all meals are going to require a degree of washing up, whether it's a bowl and fork to whisk eggs or a bowl or pan to heat beans.

It's quite strange to single out an omelette as not fast based on the washing up, especially as the pan itself doesn't need washing.

Noshowlomo · 13/07/2024 12:45

Haha @Shityshitybangbang pretty much any lovely food I describe as sexy. I don’t actually think it’s sexual, but it is sexy! 😂😂

bluecomputerscreen · 13/07/2024 12:41

omlette is only a fast meal if you discount washing up the utensils...

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