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To do beans on toast once a week?

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MollyAndMuck · 12/07/2024 22:39

Doing a different work pattern soon and two nights a week will be a lot of pressure to pick up DCs (infant age) from after school, feed them and not end up putting to bed too late.

I can't cook from scratch these nights and realistically don't think I'll be organised enough to batch cook for both nights.

AIBU to give my kids beans on toast every week for one evening meal? I know it's UPF but at least it's some kind of veg and very quick. They'll be having a hot lunch at school and are pretty good at eating it.

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Girliefriendlikespuppies · 13/07/2024 22:27

soupfiend · 12/07/2024 23:14

I cant wait for this obsession with UPFs to be over.

Yeah me to 🙄

Beans on toast is a healthy, filling, quick tea. What's not to like 🤷‍♀️ do you grate a bit of cheese on top, my dd loves it with cheese!

Scrambled eggs or eggs and soldiers are another quick tea.

brunettemic · 13/07/2024 22:19

Is this a serious question?! Oh the UPF, the poor darlings…you’re hardly feeding them arsenic.

Despair1 · 13/07/2024 22:06

WineIsMyCarb · 12/07/2024 22:54

Beans on toast
Beans on bagel
Scrambled egg on toast with a side of beans
Beans on potato waffle (cooked in toaster - yes!)
Toast with lots of butter, then an extra piece with lemon curd on for 'pudding'

All different meals in this house!

Brilliant

Abracadabra12345 · 13/07/2024 21:57

Dr13Hadley · 13/07/2024 19:16

Not at all. We have beans on toast night when DS1 has footy training each week and the kids love it. Only if they can have grated cheese on top obvs.

I'm very grateful for this thread. My DH loved his beans on toast tonight (with added hot sauce) and melted cheese on top while my DS enjoyed his non-hot sauce beans and grated cheese, unmelted.

I had soup from a tin with hot buttered toast.

Food fit for kings

MollyAndMuck · 13/07/2024 20:27

Well now, slow cooker lemon curd I could get on board with!

It is the pervasive smell that definitely adds to my dislike.

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reallyworriedjobhunter · 13/07/2024 19:22

Totally normal. Or soup out of a tin, or something made on the weekend and frozen. Or over pizza and chips.

Some times we have cold bits and bobs, cold meat, sandwiches, crisps, salad, hummus etc.

Ilovecleaning · 13/07/2024 19:20

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/07/2024 15:17

The idea of having cucumber or salad alongside beans on toast is really weird. Not new, though. Back in the early 90s I was given an NHS booklet about feeding my baby once she went onto solids which recommended serving beans on toast with peas. We didn't.

Couldn’t agree more. A ‘posh’ stick-up-your-arse cafe near us used to serve sandwiches with salad and bloody strawberries on the side. WHY? So affected. Who the HELL wants strawberries with a ham and mustard sandwich??

Dr13Hadley · 13/07/2024 19:16

Not at all. We have beans on toast night when DS1 has footy training each week and the kids love it. Only if they can have grated cheese on top obvs.

Ilovecleaning · 13/07/2024 19:15

iAmBarbara · 13/07/2024 18:52

For both time and budget reasons we have one of these for 3/4 dinners a week:

beans or cheesy scrambled egg on toast
jacket potato meal (with tuna or beans/cheese- salad etc)
pesto pasta (with broccoli boiled with the pasta)
sausage or bacon sandwiches
soup with a sandwich/toastie

All sound good to me.

Werweisswohin · 13/07/2024 18:52

Absolutely fine as part of an overall varied diet - you could alternate beans with other simple things like egg. An other option is a slow cooker or making double portions another night for the busy night.

iAmBarbara · 13/07/2024 18:52

For both time and budget reasons we have one of these for 3/4 dinners a week:

beans or cheesy scrambled egg on toast
jacket potato meal (with tuna or beans/cheese- salad etc)
pesto pasta (with broccoli boiled with the pasta)
sausage or bacon sandwiches
soup with a sandwich/toastie

MrsBobtonTrent · 13/07/2024 18:51

I do get what people mean about the slow cooker food. I do use ours alot, but for things like batch cooking soup for the freezer, cooking a ham for slicing (so much cheaper than buying sliced ham), making cordial/lemon curd/chutney, cooking meat sometimes for a roast if we're out all Sunday morning. Also handy for cooking jacket potatoes. Not a fan of the sloppy-style slow cooker meals. And I'm not a fan of the smell of dinner for hours beforehand - bored of it by mealtime. The newer slow cookers have more power than the old sort, so many recipes want to you cook the food for far too long, which adds to the slop.

WeeOrcadian · 13/07/2024 18:40

Cheese on top - microwave it for a minute - extra protein AND calcium!

Ilovecleaning · 13/07/2024 18:34

MorvernBlack · 13/07/2024 12:28

Really surprised to find people saying this, thought it was just me. I've given up on mine, no matter what recipe or how much seasoning, there's always a slow cooker taste and texture especially to veg. Also I always had to put it in the garage as I hated the way it made the house smell of food.

Definitely not just you 😊. Also I found it slightly insulting because I felt (even if it wasn’t intended) that it was only us so bung a few bits and pieces in the slow cooker.
I used to think why doesn’t he ever think of grilling some salmon fillets or roasting a small chicken?
In fact,I used to make a point of making something freshly cooked when he came to,us.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/07/2024 18:34

The poster who said a stirfry was an easy quick option you can turn to so as not to 'resort' to UPFs is clearly untroubled by the idea of buying ready washed (including chlorine washed) and chopped vegetables, many flown thousands of miles across the world, generating large amounts of non-biodegradable plastic waste. I'd be interested to know about the environmental credentials of the protein element, pre-cooked noodles or rice, and sauce too.

None of these choices are easy once you start thinking about them. We're all doing the best we can and beans on toast is a perfectly good quick meal for a family as often as you all fancy it.

Ihavenoclu · 13/07/2024 18:32

Totally fine OP. Mine love instant noodles so we sometimes do that once a week. Or Pita bread with fillings of whatever we want. Hummus, ham, cucumber, feta cheese, whatever.
or frozen pizza with carrots/cucumber/hummus.

It is fine OP. You are doing great

MollyAndMuck · 13/07/2024 18:26

BACA · 13/07/2024 17:09

Not all processed foods are bad. Things like beans, wholemeal bread, whole grain breakfast cereals are actually beneficial.

We often have beans on toast for breakfast or lunch, occasionally dinner if we're in a rush. It's a good source of protein, iron and lots more.

I don't understand why you need to get mumsnetters approval on what you feed your children OP. 🤨

250 replies tell you it's been an interesting chat for people so ... shrug.

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MollyAndMuck · 13/07/2024 18:25

ALovelyCupOfNameChange · 13/07/2024 17:13

Don’t buy frozen jackets.
i sling a few in the oven when im doing something else and just keep them in the fridge and blast them in the microwave or air fryer
sometimes I do extra and turn them into loaded wedges with cheese and bacon

I tried this once and the potato went a bit of a funny texture and the skins weren't crispy, but maybe user error so I'll try again.

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MollyAndMuck · 13/07/2024 18:24

HeyItsPickleRick · 13/07/2024 17:29

Baked potatoes if not smushed open stay piping a while so I think it’s a good option (could cook, whack tea towel over whilst beans cooking if worried)

Pitta, hummus, cucumber, tomato and bought falafels is popular in our house for a quick meal. Olives and pickles if feeling fancy.

Tortellini is a good shout, or pasta, could stir in tinned salmon, cream cheese, some frozen peas and cherry toms and drizzle with garlic or herb oil.

I do beans or tofu on toast once a week here. 🤷🏻‍♀️

It's more the total time, as beans and toast only take about three mins to cook, versus doing the baked potatoes then beans.

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HeyItsPickleRick · 13/07/2024 17:29

Baked potatoes if not smushed open stay piping a while so I think it’s a good option (could cook, whack tea towel over whilst beans cooking if worried)

Pitta, hummus, cucumber, tomato and bought falafels is popular in our house for a quick meal. Olives and pickles if feeling fancy.

Tortellini is a good shout, or pasta, could stir in tinned salmon, cream cheese, some frozen peas and cherry toms and drizzle with garlic or herb oil.

I do beans or tofu on toast once a week here. 🤷🏻‍♀️

MeAgainAndAgain · 13/07/2024 17:29

MollyAndMuck · 13/07/2024 17:01

By fresh pasta in the freezer, do you mean the ravioli/tortellini stuff?

Speaking of pasta, I make normal dried pasta with sauce (I used tinned toms, herbs etc) and you can freeze that. I would assume that a jar of sauce mixed with pasta would freeze really well too. Or just the pasta with oil or butter.

DistressedDamson · 13/07/2024 17:22

Comedycook · 12/07/2024 23:14

If in doubt, cut up some cucumber and stick on the side of the plate... positively virtuous

Ha! Lol, yes I do that with my son, a couple of sticks of cue or carrots with chopped cherry toms - makes any meal healthy 🤣

greengreyblue · 13/07/2024 17:15

Good idea re jackets!

ALovelyCupOfNameChange · 13/07/2024 17:13

Don’t buy frozen jackets.
i sling a few in the oven when im doing something else and just keep them in the fridge and blast them in the microwave or air fryer
sometimes I do extra and turn them into loaded wedges with cheese and bacon

BACA · 13/07/2024 17:09

Not all processed foods are bad. Things like beans, wholemeal bread, whole grain breakfast cereals are actually beneficial.

We often have beans on toast for breakfast or lunch, occasionally dinner if we're in a rush. It's a good source of protein, iron and lots more.

I don't understand why you need to get mumsnetters approval on what you feed your children OP. 🤨

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