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To do beans on toast once a week?

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MollyAndMuck · 12/07/2024 22:39

Doing a different work pattern soon and two nights a week will be a lot of pressure to pick up DCs (infant age) from after school, feed them and not end up putting to bed too late.

I can't cook from scratch these nights and realistically don't think I'll be organised enough to batch cook for both nights.

AIBU to give my kids beans on toast every week for one evening meal? I know it's UPF but at least it's some kind of veg and very quick. They'll be having a hot lunch at school and are pretty good at eating it.

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ODFOx · 14/07/2024 21:39

Beans on Toast with a fried egg on top was a weekly supper at school and a Saturday brunch in the holidays at home.
I was 23 before I admitted to myself that I'm not keen on beans and egg together. But apart from egg I don't think that there is much that beans doesn't go with: when DS was at his fussiest and would only eat things with 'dip' I served cucumber sticks and toast fingers with blitzed baked bean dip (cold) and it went down a storm!!

twoboystwodogs · 14/07/2024 20:58

Don't over think it, this is absolutely fine. My youngest won't eat toast so he has beans on plate 😋

Xmasdaft2023 · 14/07/2024 20:33

We have a night like this, likely 2 after the summer.. our go to meals are: (just incase it helps!)
soup
goujons in wraps
beans on toast/muffins
sandwiches/toasties
pizza naans (6 mins in an air fryer)
French toast
bagels
Probably loads more but those are the easy ones ☺️

Tigger1895 · 14/07/2024 19:50

Baked beans have high levels of protein and fibre and are available with low sugar. They form part of a healthy diet.

Crinklycrisp · 14/07/2024 19:04

SummerTimeIsTheBest · 14/07/2024 18:56

Won’t they be hungry?

Why would they be hungry?

kitsuneghost · 14/07/2024 18:57

Fajitas or tacos?

StopInhalingRevels · 14/07/2024 18:57

Stir a big chunk of butter into the beans. A squirt of BBQ sauce, and a sliced pepperami.

Utterly fabulous filth.

SummerTimeIsTheBest · 14/07/2024 18:56

Won’t they be hungry?

kitsuneghost · 14/07/2024 18:55

MollyAndMuck · 14/07/2024 16:43

Omelette I can see, but risotto is definitely not a quick meal for me!

40 min from scratch and most of that is just sitting simmering while you get on with other things.

Eadfrith · 14/07/2024 18:40

Sleepytiredyawn · 14/07/2024 18:39

My son had it for his tea one night and for his lunch today so more than once a week. Don’t stress over it, fed is best.

Bolognaise freezes really well and pasta is quick make for a quick tea, that’s one of my go too’s. Freezing down mash works well too for a quick tea, sausage and mash or fry off some chicken and frozen veg quick.

‘Fed is best’? It’s not like formula vs breast. They’re not babies anymore, beans on toast perfectly healthy. Healthier than sausages!

DeeDoyle · 14/07/2024 18:40

Beans arent veg.......but yes perfectly fine,throw some cheese on top to add another food group.x

Sleepytiredyawn · 14/07/2024 18:39

My son had it for his tea one night and for his lunch today so more than once a week. Don’t stress over it, fed is best.

Bolognaise freezes really well and pasta is quick make for a quick tea, that’s one of my go too’s. Freezing down mash works well too for a quick tea, sausage and mash or fry off some chicken and frozen veg quick.

Eadfrith · 14/07/2024 17:59

Beans on toast is lush, not to mention pretty healthy. What’s the problem here? It’s a ball ache to cook a hot home cooked meal every single fecking night. Beans on toast is perfect.

Projectme · 14/07/2024 17:07

Batchelors Pasta 'n' sauce or savoury rice?

Toasted sandwich and a cup-a-soup?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 14/07/2024 16:48

Real risotto, no. Savoury rice, yes. Even if you cook the rice from scratch, that's quite quick, but it becomes super quick if you use a pouch of rice or leftover home-cooked rice. Fry an onion (can keep some ready chopped in the freezer), maybe some mushrooms, ready-chopped peppers (freezer again), peas, maybe some chopped tomato, cooked chicken or prawns or a tin of tuna, some sort of seasoning or sauce, mix in the rice, heat till piping hot, done.

MollyAndMuck · 14/07/2024 16:43

kitsuneghost · 14/07/2024 16:26

Risotto or omlette are super quick
You can use a ready chopped or frozen veg mix if no time to chop.

Omelette I can see, but risotto is definitely not a quick meal for me!

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MollyAndMuck · 14/07/2024 16:43

sashh · 14/07/2024 03:53

OP Someone already suggested a toastie maker and I think that is a good shout. I have one that you can change the plates so you can do the traditional cheap bread cut into triangles or swap the plates for a panini or make waffles.

I also use mine to cook eggs, a bit of spray oil and then put the eggs in to the triangle and leave for a couple of mins.

You can also use ready rolled pastry, although I have not done it.

Another quick meal is hotdogs, eith with bread rolls or you can just add them tot he beans (you can get tins of beans and sausages).

Great ideas, thanks!

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kitsuneghost · 14/07/2024 16:26

Risotto or omlette are super quick
You can use a ready chopped or frozen veg mix if no time to chop.

OnAndOnAndonAgain · 14/07/2024 16:03

I'm one of those weird people who Lake jacket potatoes done in the microwave, take about 5 mins

I don't like the skin when they are done in the oven

BACA · 14/07/2024 14:49

250 replies tell you it's been an interesting chat for people so ... shrug.

You asked if you were being unreasonable to feed your kids beans on toast and I answered that you don't need mumsnet approval and of course you aren't being unreasonable. I see now that you just wanted a thread of your own and your aim seems to have been to give people an 'interesting chat'. 🤪👍

Zanatdy · 14/07/2024 08:45

Of course it’s fine. Mine had jacket spud with beans and sausages (from a tin) once a week when we had swimming lessons straight from work and school. Those McCain jackets you can microwave. They survived!

Moonflowered · 14/07/2024 08:10

Fiftyfiveandcounting · 13/07/2024 14:20

Beans on Toast with maybe some grated cheese or scrambled egg is a great quick meal so no problem with that. I do however have an issue with parents who think that because their children have a hot lunch at school, all their nutritional needs are taken care of. The children in our school rarely eat all the cooked meal and the amount of food thrown away daily is considerable. No one has time to police what your child is actually eating from the meal provided.

One of my children, who won't touch peas at home, tells me to the individual pea how much she's eaten each day at school. They have excellent school meals and the menu is published in advance so we can talk about what they're eating and I can plan home food around that. If the veg is sweetcorn they're not going to eat it so we make sure there's an extra portion of fruit or veg at home.

They are "policed" at our school - they're not allowed to leave until they've checked with an adult, and the supervisors encourage them to choose other veg from the salad bar if they don't like what comes with the main meal. If they're not eating, it's discussed with parents. It also helps that the cook is excellent. So yes, I'm confident that their nutritional needs are being well supported at school, and not sure how getting home and heating up their balanced meal of carbs, protein and veg adds more to the mix than serving an uncooked but nutritionally adequate meal.

sashh · 14/07/2024 03:53

OP Someone already suggested a toastie maker and I think that is a good shout. I have one that you can change the plates so you can do the traditional cheap bread cut into triangles or swap the plates for a panini or make waffles.

I also use mine to cook eggs, a bit of spray oil and then put the eggs in to the triangle and leave for a couple of mins.

You can also use ready rolled pastry, although I have not done it.

Another quick meal is hotdogs, eith with bread rolls or you can just add them tot he beans (you can get tins of beans and sausages).

Shybutrude · 13/07/2024 22:33

@MollyAndMuck tofu might be worth checking it's high protein and quick lots of different styles (silken, firm etc).can make sauces, scrambled etc

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 13/07/2024 22:31

Op I hear you on the slow cooker thing, they gross me out as well.

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