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How do you separate laundry?

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Moonlightdancing · 12/07/2024 19:32

So.. need some honest opinions here. I posted a comment on a previous thread mentioning that washing tea towels together with knickers is gross IMO. Received quite a few comments telling me I'm uptight and bizarre. I honestly think that even if you wash them at 90 degrees, you still shouldn't mix tea towels and underwear. Am I in minority then thinking this? Genuinely curious.

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wutheringkites · 13/07/2024 16:46

My partner thinks I care too much about laundry. I'm going to show him this thread and let him see just how much more seriously it can be taken.

DappledThings · 13/07/2024 16:44

I also don't understand why bacteria on pj's is OK but not on tea towels...what's so sacred about tea towels??!!

I'll try and answer that one based on what others have said. With capitals for emphasis of course.

Because your tea towels will BE ON YOUR FORKS and that means then you are putting POO ON YOUR FORKS and that means you might as well lick the TOILET because you are a MINGER.

It doesn't matter that there is poo on your pyjamas because microscopic poo particles that have magically not been washed away will definitely transfer from tea towels to dishes in highly significant amounts but wearing clothes that are COVERED IN POO PARTICLES is not minging because wearing poo next to your skin is totally fine and not at all MINGING.

I think that's the answer. Nobody has provided a better one 😂

redalex261 · 13/07/2024 16:43

Just how dirty are these pants?? She said primly.

MNisHarshSometimes · 13/07/2024 16:42

Whites
Blacks/very dark
Reds
Mixed colours

I also put a colour catcher sheet in with them.

Wouldn't even think about separating underwear!

BriocheForBreakfast · 13/07/2024 16:35

I wash all towels including tea towels, and cloths at 60. I separate whites and coloureds (but add a colour catcher) and wash at 30. We don't wear much in the way of whites so I save them up and there's a white wash once or maybe twice a month. Then I do bedding at 40. I also do an occasional 'fluffy' wash at 30 for anything woolly or that I want to add fabric softener to as I don't add it to a normal wash.

TwistedSisters · 13/07/2024 16:28

If a 60 wash is not completely washing away bacteria, then there will still be bacteria in the drum from knickers and underwear? And then putting the teatowels in that same drum means the bacteria is then on the tea towels?

I also don't understand why bacteria on pj's is OK but not on tea towels...what's so sacred about tea towels??!!

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 16:28

Bodeganights · 13/07/2024 15:43

If you think it's not clean after a 60 wash, why aren't you washing them at 90?

Objectively it's either clean or it's not.

I don't understand why pyjamas and knickers are clean after a 60 wash, but teatowels are never clean after a 60 wash even if in separately.

Or pyjamas and knickers are not clean but it's ok to wear them?
Do you all do a drum wash after every wash too?

I will add I've not got little kids missing the potty so I wouldnt use a teatowel to clean up, I had old cloths specifically for the purpose of cleaning up spills etc.

Also wondering if napisan will keep my whites white longer. Becayse I'm all for that.

Ace bleach for whites is good at keeping them bright if that helps!

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 16:26

Moonlightdancing · 13/07/2024 16:20

If you read her comment she just answered you. Why you keep asking the same thing?

But you or the other poster haven't actually answered my question.

What you both keep doing is inventing ficticious situations and actually avoiding the question.

It's really quite bizarre.

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 16:24

Moonlightdancing · 13/07/2024 15:37

If you actually read the recommendations it says lightly soiled. Do you know what that means?

I know exactly what lightly soiled means. I also know what kills bacteria and how washing machines work, a concept lost on some here.

Finallyfree23 · 13/07/2024 16:23

I separate it by how much fits in the drum. Whatever doesn’t fit goes in a separate load. 😂

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 16:22

Mystro202 · 13/07/2024 15:32

With your logic I could mop up my toddlers pee with a tea towel (potty training) wash it at 60 then use it to dry my dishes. Does that still sound OK to you? I seriously shudder

No. You've decided to create that situation on your own logic.

Tea towels should be used for drying your washing up or drying things that are still wet after going through the dishwasher. They shouldn't be used for anything else.

If you did wipe your toddlers wee up with a tea towel and washed it at 60, why do you think it wouldn't be clean if 60 degrees kills bacteria?

Moonlightdancing · 13/07/2024 16:20

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 16:18

But your washing tea towels on a 60 and pjs and pants on a 60 but refuse to wash the two together and can't answer why. They will all come out equally clean.

If you read her comment she just answered you. Why you keep asking the same thing?

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YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 16:18

Bignanna · 13/07/2024 15:33

Bacteria remaining on pjs is not the same as bacteria remaining on a tea towel used to dry cutlery and crockery- it’s pretty obvious. A 60 wash won’t eliminate bacteria either, and many are now using 30 or cold water, so all the more reason to wash tea towels separately.

But your washing tea towels on a 60 and pjs and pants on a 60 but refuse to wash the two together and can't answer why. They will all come out equally clean.

Createausername1970 · 13/07/2024 16:13

Very enlightening.

I separate stuff firstly into "will need ironing" and "won't need ironing"

Each is then split white/coloured.

Bedding is a separate load.

Towels, including tea towels, have their own load.

Everything gets a quick 60 degree wash, around 45 minutes.

NippyCrab · 13/07/2024 16:02

NRTFT
I wash towels and tea towels together as they don't get softener and I sometimes put them in a hotter wash.
I wash underwear in a separate load because I hate doing it and save it up, I hate socks being mixed up with other clothes.
I wash whites separately.
Then jeans, leggings and dog walking clothes together.
I'm a weirdo with washing.

user1492757084 · 13/07/2024 15:51

Tend to wash one load per day (ave), in separate groups:

Hot wash sheets, towels and tea towels.
Dry in sun.

Hot wash knickers and white/light clothing.
Dry in sun.

Warm wash brights.
Dry inside out, in sun.

Warm wash darks.
Dry inside out in sun.

Warm wash dirty. (gardening, paint specks, work, or pre-soaked) Dry in sun.

Cool wash delicates and woollens.
Dry outside, flat, out of sunlight.

itispersonal · 13/07/2024 15:45

White, colours, black.

Will do towels- bath and tea and bedding together at 60c

Tea towels and clothes does feel yucky/ though have done it some times

Bodeganights · 13/07/2024 15:43

Mystro202 · 13/07/2024 15:32

With your logic I could mop up my toddlers pee with a tea towel (potty training) wash it at 60 then use it to dry my dishes. Does that still sound OK to you? I seriously shudder

If you think it's not clean after a 60 wash, why aren't you washing them at 90?

Objectively it's either clean or it's not.

I don't understand why pyjamas and knickers are clean after a 60 wash, but teatowels are never clean after a 60 wash even if in separately.

Or pyjamas and knickers are not clean but it's ok to wear them?
Do you all do a drum wash after every wash too?

I will add I've not got little kids missing the potty so I wouldnt use a teatowel to clean up, I had old cloths specifically for the purpose of cleaning up spills etc.

Also wondering if napisan will keep my whites white longer. Becayse I'm all for that.

Mystro202 · 13/07/2024 15:38

Moonlightdancing · 13/07/2024 15:34

I'm not sure if you saw a previous comment where someone said they wash tea towels in a nappy wash. I'm still thinking about it....

🤢

DappledThings · 13/07/2024 15:38

Bignanna · 13/07/2024 13:22

Pjs may be clean enough to wear, but tea towels need to be extra clean. Whereas a few bacteria on your pants may be acceptable, contaminated tea towels drying your plates aren’t. Many aren’t washing at 60, they’re washing at 30. If you don’t mind bodily fluids swirling around your tea towels, carry on!

I will ta. The bodily fluids will continue to swirl around as you say as part of them being entirely washed out and everything will continue to clean.

Mystro202 · 13/07/2024 15:37

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 15:32

If you bothered yourself to read the FSA recommendations, they base this on heavily soiled tea towels. How dirty are your tea towels? Why are you not changing them daily? Tea towels are for drying up wet dishes, pans and cutlery, nothing else.

Cloths should be used for wiping spills.

And you STILL can't answer why tea towels can't go in a wash with other things on a 60 degree wash? Why do you think 60 degrees kills bacteria on pants and pjs together. 60 degrees kills bacteria on tea towels but doesn't kill bacteria all on the same wash?

And no "because they shouldn't swirl around together because of poo" isn't an answer.

But why would you put them in with poo, pee and whatever else and mix them around with it when it can easily be avoided? They can be cleaned without the extra (disgusting) bodily excrement

Moonlightdancing · 13/07/2024 15:37

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 15:32

If you bothered yourself to read the FSA recommendations, they base this on heavily soiled tea towels. How dirty are your tea towels? Why are you not changing them daily? Tea towels are for drying up wet dishes, pans and cutlery, nothing else.

Cloths should be used for wiping spills.

And you STILL can't answer why tea towels can't go in a wash with other things on a 60 degree wash? Why do you think 60 degrees kills bacteria on pants and pjs together. 60 degrees kills bacteria on tea towels but doesn't kill bacteria all on the same wash?

And no "because they shouldn't swirl around together because of poo" isn't an answer.

If you actually read the recommendations it says lightly soiled. Do you know what that means?

OP posts:
Moonlightdancing · 13/07/2024 15:34

Mystro202 · 13/07/2024 15:32

With your logic I could mop up my toddlers pee with a tea towel (potty training) wash it at 60 then use it to dry my dishes. Does that still sound OK to you? I seriously shudder

I'm not sure if you saw a previous comment where someone said they wash tea towels in a nappy wash. I'm still thinking about it....

OP posts:
Bignanna · 13/07/2024 15:33

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 15:14

But the OP washes pants and pjs on a 60, tea towels on a 60 but refuses to put them in the same 60 degree wash.

60 either kills the bacteria or it doesn't. It's not a case of it does but it doesn't if a tea towel is placed in there.

Bacteria remaining on pjs is not the same as bacteria remaining on a tea towel used to dry cutlery and crockery- it’s pretty obvious. A 60 wash won’t eliminate bacteria either, and many are now using 30 or cold water, so all the more reason to wash tea towels separately.

Mystro202 · 13/07/2024 15:32

YellowphantGrey · 13/07/2024 15:14

But the OP washes pants and pjs on a 60, tea towels on a 60 but refuses to put them in the same 60 degree wash.

60 either kills the bacteria or it doesn't. It's not a case of it does but it doesn't if a tea towel is placed in there.

With your logic I could mop up my toddlers pee with a tea towel (potty training) wash it at 60 then use it to dry my dishes. Does that still sound OK to you? I seriously shudder