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To wonder what is wrong with people who don't really drink

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OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:12

No - not alcohol

Just liquid

People who can sit down to a meal without so much as a glass of water

People who invite guests to stay but have nothing to offer them to drink oh and you'd have to boil the tapwater haha

I can't sleep from thinking about this

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thebluebeyond · 12/07/2024 07:52

OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:51

No - drinking 8 glasses of liquid a day is normal.

no, it is an invention by drinks companies, especially bottled water companies. Not necessary, or even desirable - just a bad habit and a fad.

And you can see what a bad unhealthy habit it is by the effect it is having on you right now, it is like you have a compulsion, like a child sucking a dummy.

LaMarschallin · 12/07/2024 07:52

OptimismvsRealism

I see.
I've stayed somewhere with well water and we just drank it; it may have been of a higher standard of course.
Couldn't you just boil 2 or 3 kettles of water and keep the result in a jug you could then top yourself up with?

S0livagant · 12/07/2024 07:52

OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:50

Because the water here comes off a private well and isn't safe to drink.

Then boil it then if that's what they do?

oakleaffy · 12/07/2024 07:52

I remember a person I stayed with [When young] not allowing water with food -It was very difficult to eat.

Ryeman · 12/07/2024 07:52

I think we’ve been conditioned in the last 20-30 years to think we need to be drinking all the time and it’s become a habit for some. There’s really no need. Food provides quite a lot of water. I don’t really drink a lot of water and my kids are the same. My youngest regularly comes home with a full water bottle.

MikeRafone · 12/07/2024 07:51

Because the water here comes off a private well and isn't safe to drink.

pop it in the kettle and drink it when it’s cooled down to drinking temperature

thebluebeyond · 12/07/2024 07:51

MikeRafone · 12/07/2024 07:48

Of course people will feel the sensation of thirst. If though you are constantly feeling thirsty then you may have an underlying health condition- get it checked out

or just in very bad habits

OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:51

MikeRafone · 12/07/2024 07:48

Of course people will feel the sensation of thirst. If though you are constantly feeling thirsty then you may have an underlying health condition- get it checked out

No - drinking 8 glasses of liquid a day is normal.

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Suitcasesthree · 12/07/2024 07:51

My mother said that her mother was told by the doctor never to give drinks before or with meals as the child will fill up on liquids, not eat their meal and then be hungry later.

I find my parents don't drink very much at all and then it's always tea. Unless it was my house, then any sugar taxed soft drink by the pint was preferred. When I used to go over there I made sure I took my own bottles of water, as getting a glass of water from the tap at any time would draw questions as to why it was needed.

CrunchyCarrot · 12/07/2024 07:51

I drink a fair bit throughout the day! Always have a glass of apple juice to follow my meals. Drink plenty of herbal tea throughout the day and occasionally water. I get dehydrated really easily and feel thirsty quickly. Have always had the thirst thing from childhood - no diabetes here!

familyissues12345 · 12/07/2024 07:51

I drink very little, I know it's not good for me, and I often have a headache later in the day as I haven't had enough fluid!
I've always been the same and find it hard to change..

BingoMarieHeeler · 12/07/2024 07:51

I don’t understand what you mean boil the tap water? We don’t have bottled water ready for guests. But actually have been icked out at the thought of tap water lately so maybe I should! Just, the plastic!

I drink a LOT and don’t understand my family who don’t 😄 my kids literally never ask me for a drink 😄 I get actually angry if I get thirsty. Can be hungry forever but thirst is another thing. I was tested 3x for diabetes as a small child and I’m totally fine, just thirsty 😄

I only drink teas, water and the occasional coffee really. Maybe a champagne on occasion but am allergic to alcohol so shouldnt!

AgnesX · 12/07/2024 07:51

I have Sjogrens so I need liquid all the time especially for a meal but I've always been like that, even as a child.

People do drink more liquids though, you can't go anywhere without seeing people with coffee cups or water bottles so drinking more has caught on (as a good thing).

MrsStottlemeyer · 12/07/2024 07:50

I prefer a drink when I'm eating, even soup which my mother said I shouldn't need a drink with because it's liquid already.

Mine too! "The soup is the drink" no it isn't!

My parents have a snooty idea that tiny drinking vessels are superior. So many times I've seen my Dad come in from work or gardening etc saying how thirsty he is only to knock back a thimble full of water.

SundayTulips · 12/07/2024 07:50

OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:50

Because the water here comes off a private well and isn't safe to drink.

Can you not boil yourself one then?

OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:50

LaMarschallin · 12/07/2024 07:47

@OptimismvsRealism

I still don't understand why you just can't get a glass of water (okay, it may not be iced).
Why would you have to boil the tap water?

Because the water here comes off a private well and isn't safe to drink.

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thebluebeyond · 12/07/2024 07:49

There is not real need to drink water in the volumes that people drink it today, it is just a fad caused by advertising from the bottled water companies.

People drink too much then need to go to the toilet all the time to rid their bodies of the excess.

I belong to the generation that did not drink during the day, and it is a better habit to be in

SundayTulips · 12/07/2024 07:49

OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:42

The reason I can't sleep is that I'm currently a guest at a no beverages household.

I saw this coming and managed to sneak one can on diet coke into my handbag on the way here but I need to make it count. Unsure when best to drink it to minimise risk of death by dehydration.

My head hurts so much. I'd have had a big iced water by now.

Why can you just get yourself a glass of water?

WhydoIcaresomuch · 12/07/2024 07:48

I never ever ever feel thirsty. I have coffee in the morning and then tend to sip a bottle of water in work but I rarely refill it and I’ll often forget to drink it. I have a glass of water with my dinner (or wine if we’re out), but it’s not cause I’m thirsty.

We don’t have beverages in the house either; we all drink tap water (or beer)!

MikeRafone · 12/07/2024 07:48

OptimismvsRealism · 12/07/2024 07:44

I guess people who don't feel thirst don't understand that it's torture for people who do.

Of course people will feel the sensation of thirst. If though you are constantly feeling thirsty then you may have an underlying health condition- get it checked out

longdistanceclaraclara · 12/07/2024 07:48

My mum and mil are always complaining about being constipated. They hardly seink anything at all. I have never seen mil drink water. Ever. It's tea or coffee.

Gingerdancedbackwards · 12/07/2024 07:47

ATribeCalledQuestion · 12/07/2024 07:36

I always think my parents must be dangerously dehydrated. My mum will have a cup of tea with lunch, she might have a glass of water with dinner but not as standard. I take my folks on holiday with me every year - UK so not roasting hot - and I'm always amazed at how they just don't drink anything! I've never seen them with a bottle of water, if we are having a picnic lunch mum will "find a cup of tea somewhere" so doesn't pack drinks. I always have a bottle of water with me, I can't stand eating without a drink, I'll order tap water alongside my wine if I'm drinking in the sun 😂

I can remember at primary school being so so thirsty all the time and the torture of that tiny plastic cup of ribena with the school lunch being the only liquid all day, and not being allowed to ask for another one.

Maybe some people just don't need hydration! I feel rubbish if I don't drink enough water.

'Dangerously dehydrated'...

Combattingthemoaners · 12/07/2024 07:47

ATribeCalledQuestion · 12/07/2024 07:36

I always think my parents must be dangerously dehydrated. My mum will have a cup of tea with lunch, she might have a glass of water with dinner but not as standard. I take my folks on holiday with me every year - UK so not roasting hot - and I'm always amazed at how they just don't drink anything! I've never seen them with a bottle of water, if we are having a picnic lunch mum will "find a cup of tea somewhere" so doesn't pack drinks. I always have a bottle of water with me, I can't stand eating without a drink, I'll order tap water alongside my wine if I'm drinking in the sun 😂

I can remember at primary school being so so thirsty all the time and the torture of that tiny plastic cup of ribena with the school lunch being the only liquid all day, and not being allowed to ask for another one.

Maybe some people just don't need hydration! I feel rubbish if I don't drink enough water.

😂 my mum is exactly the same. We once went to the Lakes and walked all day. I needed the loo several times because I drink lots of water. She didn’t go once! How do they cope??

LaMarschallin · 12/07/2024 07:47

@OptimismvsRealism

I still don't understand why you just can't get a glass of water (okay, it may not be iced).
Why would you have to boil the tap water?

MikeRafone · 12/07/2024 07:46

I find it odd that people drink all the time. People have water for driving, water with meals, water when sat at the desk, water watching tv

its an obsession that seemed to start in the late 90s and has grown. It can be dangerous to drink too much fluid.

id just have a drink of squash a couple of times a day, about a pint and 2/3 coffees.

people walk round constantly with a drink in their hand.

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