Hi
incident at dinner
husband was feeding baby
husband told 5Y daughter that baby finished before her and she got slightly upset and started whining a nit
i told him not compare siblings and he stormed off and said I’m critical of him and raised his voice
I told him I only made suggestion
he wants to divorce on the gov website but I told him I want to do it via solicitor to get the right orders
he said he doesn’t want an order and wants to see the kids every 2 weeks but will help me if I need him with childcare
there’s a marac meeting next week as he raised his voice a lot and I’ve been mentally preparing to go to a refuge or rent and never tell him my address and now suddenly all we have to do is go the gov website ??
he sympathises with Hamas and said he’d disown kids if they married non Muslims so I don’t really want him in their lives at all
i even considered occupation orders /non molestation orders