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G123456789 · 11/07/2024 19:36

The BBC are reporting that there are Labour mps calling for the new government to scrap the limit of 2 children on child benefit

I'm working class and have family members who have had, 7, 5 and several 4 kids. Neither parent worked and the fact that each child got benefit encouraged them to have more, even though they really could not afford it.

so Labour mps want to encourage people who struggle, and those who don't actually, to have more kids...with the impact on the state, housing in the future and the environment..discuss

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Iseeyoupekingduck · 11/07/2024 21:13

So a few mps have brought up a conversation what's the big deal?

sussexman · 11/07/2024 21:13

AquaFurball · 11/07/2024 21:09

It's not child benefit. It's the child element of universal credit that's capped.

Are you suggesting that someone called G123456789 might not be entirely on the level :)

Edit: Sorry meant to reply to the poster you were quoting :(

Demonhunter · 11/07/2024 21:12

DanielGault · 11/07/2024 19:50

There's something particularly irritating about people who end a post with 'discuss'.

I concur, it's like being back at Uni when they set you a group project with a statement and then state "discuss"

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whistleblower99 · 11/07/2024 21:09

They won’t do it. It’s just back benchers. The Labour Party don’t have the money to do it.

Houseplanter · 11/07/2024 21:09

I would prefer it to be means tested and poorer families get more

AquaFurball · 11/07/2024 21:09

orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 11/07/2024 20:04

I'm sorry - what?

You know that child benefit is £16.95 a week* *for children after the first child?

Are you saying that you had relatives that had extra kids so they could get less than 20 quid a week for them???

I am not buying that.

Edited

It's not child benefit. It's the child element of universal credit that's capped.

Isitsixoclockalready · 11/07/2024 21:09

maryanne3 · 11/07/2024 21:07

I do wish people would learn a bit about how politics and government work. Labour MPs “calling for” something is not the same as it happening. Newspapers and media outlets use it all the time to whip up a story. All it takes is a phone call to the usual suspects asking a leading question, and next MPs are “calling for” something, and people who don’t know any better then get all worked up that something is going to happen. (The same is happening on means testing pensions at the moment, watch out for that one.) Rightly or wrongly Starmer has said, even before the election, that there simply was not the funds to lift the two-child cap on benefits. That is the policy, not what a random couple of backbench MPs say.

Noticeable that the OP chucks a poorly thought out/researched post in there, invites everyone to 'discuss' and disappears.

Tumbleweed101 · 11/07/2024 21:08

I support this decision. Children are the future and we should be ensuring every child has the best start possible. Why should the children the state refuses to support now have to pay taxes as adults?

maryanne3 · 11/07/2024 21:07

I do wish people would learn a bit about how politics and government work. Labour MPs “calling for” something is not the same as it happening. Newspapers and media outlets use it all the time to whip up a story. All it takes is a phone call to the usual suspects asking a leading question, and next MPs are “calling for” something, and people who don’t know any better then get all worked up that something is going to happen. (The same is happening on means testing pensions at the moment, watch out for that one.) Rightly or wrongly Starmer has said, even before the election, that there simply was not the funds to lift the two-child cap on benefits. That is the policy, not what a random couple of backbench MPs say.

WrittenInTheSand · 11/07/2024 21:06

fieldsofbutterflies · 11/07/2024 20:01

Why should children be forced to live in poverty because of the choices made by their parents?

I agree. Until whoever is in government addresses the deeper issues in society that lead to people having children they can't afford, the children shouldn't be made to suffer.

Isitsixoclockalready · 11/07/2024 21:05

DanielGault · 11/07/2024 19:50

There's something particularly irritating about people who end a post with 'discuss'.

Agree wholeheartedly with this.

turquoisebays · 11/07/2024 21:02

We need more children. We're below the replacement rate which means there won't be enough people to pay for the pensions and care of the elderly in the future.

We also need parents who work.

Couldn't they lift the cap for parents with 2+ children, who also work (if they're able)?

parkrun500club · 11/07/2024 21:02

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 11/07/2024 20:01

Well we have a declining population. Dont we need more children?

I hope they do reintroduce it. The Tories were grinches.

Disagree. With too many people and a climate crisis, we should not be rewarding big families.

I'd do away with child benefit altogether, but introduce tax relief for childcare. However, I don't know where the money would come from for that!

I don't think the argument that you shouldn't make the child suffer for the acts of the parents really works here, because if someone is that feckless they won't spend the money on their children anyway.

Edited: I am referring to child benefit and not the general benefits cap.

bidon · 11/07/2024 20:53

It's got n'owt to do with child benefit OP. I'd suggest you have a read of this too (see below)... you might learn sommat eh.

Government must immediately abolish ‘deeply damaging’ two-child limit, says CPAG
Call from child poverty charity comes as new DWP statistics show a record 1.6 million children in 440,000 families are affected by the policy

If the government is to meet its commitment to tackle child poverty, then it must immediately abolish the 'deeply damaging' two-child limit, the Child Poverty Action Group (CPAG) has said.

In a new report, Things will only going get worse: Why the two-child limit must go, published today, CPAG highlights new DWP statistics about the impact of the policy which show that, in April 2024, there were a total of 440,000 households who were not receiving the child element for at least one child, impacting on a total of 1.6 million children.

NB - the DWP points out that the number of households affected by the policy continues to increase as more children have been born since 6 April 2017 (when the policy was introduced) into families with at least two children.

The majority of these households, CPAG says, are living in poverty even though 59 per cent have one or both parents in paid work, and the policy affects every area of children's lives -

it leaves families without the income to meet children’s basic needs such as for food, clothing and heating;
it undermines families’ ability to pay their housing costs;
it hinders families’ ability to pay for childcare costs, preventing them from working more;
it pushes vulnerable families into deep poverty, including families where somebody has a disability and single-parent families;
it negatively affects children’s learning, development and education;
it robs children of the everyday experiences of childhood and time together with their families; and
it harms the mental health of affected parents and children.
Arguing that the government cannot afford not to act if it is to meet its commitment to tackle child poverty, CPAG says -

'The two-child limit creates a deliberate gap between need and entitlement, systematically depriving children of what they need to thrive. As more children are born under the two-child limit every year, the policy will continue to drive up child poverty rates. Scrapping the two-child limit is the most urgent action the new government must take to reduce child poverty. It is also the most cost-effective. It would lift 300,000 children out of poverty and mean 700,000 children are in less deep poverty at a cost of £1.7 billion – helping to ensure that we invest properly in the future of all children.'

For more information, see Things will only going get worse: Why the two-child limit must go from cpag.org.uk

OhMaria2 · 11/07/2024 20:52

G123456789 · 11/07/2024 19:36

The BBC are reporting that there are Labour mps calling for the new government to scrap the limit of 2 children on child benefit

I'm working class and have family members who have had, 7, 5 and several 4 kids. Neither parent worked and the fact that each child got benefit encouraged them to have more, even though they really could not afford it.

so Labour mps want to encourage people who struggle, and those who don't actually, to have more kids...with the impact on the state, housing in the future and the environment..discuss

We need more workers but we don't want to pay for them! Oh no, migrants!

That's this country.

N4ish · 11/07/2024 20:51

Women in chaotic households having multiple children they can’t afford to bring up are not making rational decisions based on how much they might get in benefits. If only it was that simple to impact the choices people make.

Normalnot · 11/07/2024 20:51

The money would be better spent on carers and the pittance they get to care for children with disabilities!!

It’s about £300 per month and they aren’t allowed to earn more that £150 a week (or so) on top of that. It’s disgusting!! Having a child who can not look after themselves and needs so much extra support- to the point the parent can’t work more than a few hours each week, so relies on the carers allowance, is not a choice.

Having a disabled child is so hard emotionally and imo it’s a kick in the teeth to parents of these children that there is no mention of extra support to help them.

Absolutely disgusting.

IClaudine · 11/07/2024 20:50

bergamotorange · 11/07/2024 20:45

Child poverty costs this country more than the amount saved in benefits.

Seems weird to want your own fictional relatives to live in poverty @G123456789

Funny you have so many relatives with very large families, statistically rare.

I bet OP 's sister's neighbour's brother's son is claiming £300k a year in disability benefits for a bad back, too. Or something.

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AnneLovesGilbert · 11/07/2024 20:49

ByCupidStunt · 11/07/2024 19:58

I don't think child benefit should ever have been means tested.

I'm not sure that many women are having loads of kids because the government gives them £20 a week for them.

There’s no limit to that benefit, you can claim it for as many kids as you like. It’s the child bit of UC or old tax credits I think which is worth much more than £20 a week.

The way the issue is discussed is misleading.

EasternStandard · 11/07/2024 20:48

This was a question in the first press conference and the answer was no

Ponoka7 · 11/07/2024 20:47

MyMauveBiscuit · 11/07/2024 20:03

Erm, a more favourable environment for young, fit migrants who contribute more than they take out of the system

And generous benefits don’t equal population growth

Look at Sweden. Their birth rate is basically the same as ours for all of their family friendly policies.

We ended that with Brexit. The migrants that now come from the commonwealth are immigrants and want 2+ children themselves and often aren't healthy.

IClaudine · 11/07/2024 20:47

How is this the "first Labour f up"? Nothing has been decided yet.

Beetrootcocoa · 11/07/2024 20:45

I think the 2 child limit on UC child element should absolutely be scrapped. It’ll immediately lift families out of poverty, some LAs still give vouchers for holidays and half terms for food , this would alleviate that need as these families wouldn’t be struggling! It would be transformative for children currently in poverty and struggling

bergamotorange · 11/07/2024 20:45

Child poverty costs this country more than the amount saved in benefits.

Seems weird to want your own fictional relatives to live in poverty @G123456789

Funny you have so many relatives with very large families, statistically rare.

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