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First Labour f up

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G123456789 · 11/07/2024 19:36

The BBC are reporting that there are Labour mps calling for the new government to scrap the limit of 2 children on child benefit

I'm working class and have family members who have had, 7, 5 and several 4 kids. Neither parent worked and the fact that each child got benefit encouraged them to have more, even though they really could not afford it.

so Labour mps want to encourage people who struggle, and those who don't actually, to have more kids...with the impact on the state, housing in the future and the environment..discuss

OP posts:
Sceptical123 · 11/07/2024 23:25

NotSayingImBatman · 11/07/2024 19:43

I mean, capping benefits didn’t stop your relatives from having large families, did it? I’m not sure there’s much to be said for punishing the children who didn’t ask to be born.

Presumably they had them before it was capped?

I’m a teacher and one dad that stuck in my mind was jobless, on benefits and up in arms when the cap was introduced yet his young daughter, who was never adequately dressed etc, could describe the latest video game her dad had bought when it had just come out. So sad.

swimsong · 11/07/2024 23:22

Saranegsie · 11/07/2024 19:55

This was bound to happen in the interest of their biggest supporters. They all have 2+ kids. There will be more changes made to our laws just to please them :(

As opposed to all the Conservative policies that were implemented just to please millionaires and billionaires.

HairyToity · 11/07/2024 23:21

I'm pro two child cap, we couldn't afford three DC so didn't have three. The state shouldn't have to pay.

Beekeepingmum · 11/07/2024 23:17

Imagine a politicians calling for something that would lift a million children out of poverty. It's almost like the new governing party has some members with a heart.

BarryCantSwim · 11/07/2024 23:14

OP f’d up and won’t be back. Discuss.

JennyForeigner · 11/07/2024 23:10

We get child benefit for three kids because twins. It's £20 per week.

If you think £20 comes within a hundred miles of paying the costs to raise a child, let alone incentivising having more, you are more cracked than a cracked egg in a Japanese tea-egg factory.

Dibbydoos · 11/07/2024 23:05

@G123456789 If we'd posted like this about tory f-ups when they were in power, we wouldnt have posted anything else!

And in any case it's not a done deal so it's not a f-up is it?

Respectisnotoptional · 11/07/2024 23:01

Worried500 · 11/07/2024 20:06

Maybe we need to look at more innovative ways to help children, I know way too many parents who smoke, drink and do drugs, then use foodbanks and moan about benefits and no money, perhaps we need to look at giving some of the UC and CB to the schools to run breakfast clubs and evening child care and meals. with the savings of reducing money to parents then the schools for much less could easily provide three meals a day cheaper and even run programs to provide free child supervision for working families, you would only need a few quid removed from each child to fund a teacher in school to be available for the additional hours and the cost to introduce CB back to all kids could be easily used instead to buy the food for those three meals, then ALL kids would be getting enough food regardless of parental choice, I live in flats with three bad mums, they would not look after their kids properly even if you gave them £2000 a week.

This is the most sensible statement on this thread, well said @Worried500

Lifeomars · 11/07/2024 22:59

Teentaxidriver · 11/07/2024 21:35

The Labour dream no? Their virtuous welfare state clients can shag, smoke, drink and fritter their days away supported by the taxpayer. The poor shmucks grafting away will just have to pay more and more tax.

If life on benefits is as rosy and fun packed as you paint it, then why not give up your job and spend your days (as well as the shmucks' money) drinking, shagging and smoking your days away. I was on benefits when my child was pre-school, and guess what? it was horrible, I was skint, I was stressed, I was cold and I went hungry.

buttnut · 11/07/2024 22:55

Oh and not forgetting the ‘rape clause’ 🤢🤢

Surely that ALONE is enough for the limit to be abolished?

Just grim

buttnut · 11/07/2024 22:54

I can’t get mad about this. A lot of families who claimed ‘tax credits’ for a third child were in full-time work! Often both parents working.

Some women have been faced with the choice to either terminate an unplanned pregnancy or push their family into poverty.

I think it’s interesting that abortion rate has risen and the birth rate has gone down significantly since the policy was introduced

i only have 2 children but don’t begrudge other children not having to live in poverty

radio4everyday · 11/07/2024 22:52

This is a good thing. All the child protection families I work with have 4+ kids. Having another child just when you'll be asked to look for work after the last one is a real phenomenton, and they aren't well looked after.

Didimum · 11/07/2024 22:52

How on earth is it a fuck up? It hasn’t yet passed, and Starmer has said it is currently unaffordable. So … ?

These posts to invent digs at Labour are getting really tiresome.

Lifeomars · 11/07/2024 22:51

Why is calling for something to change a "fuck up"? It does not mean that this policy will be scrapped. All it means is that some people in the Labour party disagree with it. This was being voiced before the election, in fact it has been a subject of controversy since it was introduced.

Opinionwontchangeluv · 11/07/2024 22:51

They want everyone to rely on the government like a slave

Hazelville · 11/07/2024 22:50

fieldsofbutterflies · 11/07/2024 20:01

Why should children be forced to live in poverty because of the choices made by their parents?

This.

DanielGault · 11/07/2024 22:48

FrangipaniBlue · 11/07/2024 22:35

I don't think removing the cap is a fuck yo because as posters have pointed out, people don't have babies "to make money".

But I also don't think it's the magical answer I ending child poverty that some posters seem to think it is.

There are children in poverty who have parents trying their best and working their hardest but due to circumstances (eg single mums, NMW being a bit shit ti name a few) they struggle to make ends meet, absolutely lifting the cap will help these parents and go a ways to raise those children out of poverty.

But there are also children in poverty because let's face it, their parents are scumbags and don't have their children's interests as priority. Giving those parents more money won't raise the children out of poverty because if you think feeding and clothing the children is what they'll spend it on then you're living in a fantasy land.

There have been, and always will be, parents who are shit. I don't think there is a way of governmenting them out of it. Without years and years of education anyway. In the interim, the children should be lifted out of that trap, insofar as is possible. I don't know what the answer is.

HonoraBridge · 11/07/2024 22:42

Have you actually looked at the voting figures? “Will of the people”. 🤣

HonoraBridge · 11/07/2024 22:40

First of many.

radio4everyday · 11/07/2024 22:40

Another one is Wes going back to Lord Darzi (known as Lord Khazi by all in the medical profession) who has a track record of failure with these big reports......

ruby1957 · 11/07/2024 22:37

As so many other posters have said - but for those who jump to the wrong conclusion - CHILD BENEFIT IS PAID FOR ALL CHILDREN UNLESS THE INCOME OF THE FAMILY IS TOO HIGH.
Going forward from 2018 - the extra money for children born after that year is subject to a cap but only for those on UC.

FrangipaniBlue · 11/07/2024 22:35

I don't think removing the cap is a fuck yo because as posters have pointed out, people don't have babies "to make money".

But I also don't think it's the magical answer I ending child poverty that some posters seem to think it is.

There are children in poverty who have parents trying their best and working their hardest but due to circumstances (eg single mums, NMW being a bit shit ti name a few) they struggle to make ends meet, absolutely lifting the cap will help these parents and go a ways to raise those children out of poverty.

But there are also children in poverty because let's face it, their parents are scumbags and don't have their children's interests as priority. Giving those parents more money won't raise the children out of poverty because if you think feeding and clothing the children is what they'll spend it on then you're living in a fantasy land.

absquatulize · 11/07/2024 22:26

Labour were indeed first up in many constituencies last week as they clearly had the most popular manifesto of all the UK political parties.

The will of the people is quite clear, and we should now all support them in implementing that.

DanielGault · 11/07/2024 22:24

FFSWherearemyglasses · 11/07/2024 22:10

It’s right up there with asking for recommendations followed by …. “And go” 😵‍💫🤦🏼‍♀️

I think that's actually slightly worse tbf.

DanielGault · 11/07/2024 22:20

retinolalcohol · 11/07/2024 22:15

People who are skint will continue to have multiple children, regardless of how benefits are calculated.

It's not some poor kid's fault that his parents had 5 kids before him and don't work. I will never take issue with my taxes being spent on keeping children out of poverty.

Not to mention, in all likelihood those parents won't be the most educated and might just make bad decisions. It's the way it goes until education can permeate. It takes generations. Certainly not the children's fault.

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