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Late School Start Monday

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PuttingDownRoots · 11/07/2024 14:40

Primary School has announced that pupils do not have to be in school on Monday until 10am on Monday due to the football. (However it is open from normal time)

DH believes this is not good, a d setting a bad example

I thinkbthe school is being pragmatic and trying to keep their Stats up... because children will be up late so will be tired and grumpy on Monday morning... so more kate marks and more absences.

However... there has been several occasions where there have been school trips getting back at 10pm... and they were expected in at normal time the next day.

So... is the school being fair here?

(We aren't football fans, but we know people are excited!)

YABU... its a big event, the late start is justified
YANBU... children should be in school at normal time

OP posts:
Bumbletown · 11/07/2024 14:48

Ooooh I hope our school does this!

Yeah YABU.

DinnaeFashYersel · 11/07/2024 14:47

That sounds really nice.

FawnFrenchieMum · 11/07/2024 14:47

I think its fine, they are open for pupils that want / need to be in school. However our primary also did the same following late night trips such as Young Voices etc.

FusilliGeri · 11/07/2024 14:46

Perhaps your husband can simply set an example to his own child rather than relying on the school to do so.

They are open, she can go and be educated which is what school is for.

TinyYellow · 11/07/2024 14:46

The country is in the final, there’s only an opportunity for this once every four years and it’s nearly the end of the school year so new learning is at a minimum. How miserly do you have to be to begrudge one measly hour so that families can enjoy a huge event which might be very important to them? It’s also a nice gesture for the staff who get nothing in the way of perks and are already overworked and underpaid.

Appreciating your staff and valuing family time when big, very infrequent events happen is a great example to set for children. Your DH needs to get over himself.

DancingPhantomsOnTheTerrace · 11/07/2024 14:45

I think they should be consistent - if they think that children who are up late should be able to stay in bed a bit longer, that should obviously also apply if a school trip doesn't get them back until 10pm.

NewName24 · 11/07/2024 14:44

HcbSS · 11/07/2024 14:41

Well very few bosses will be allowing late starts so why should schools? And who will look after the kids while having a lie in if the parents have to be at work at normal time?

Well very few bosses will be allowing late starts so why should schools?
Well adults, on the whole, don't tend to go to bed until after the match will finish anyway - so no different for them
Plus, if it meant that much, many people can either use flex time or book annual leave if they didn't want to be somewhere one Monday morning.

And who will look after the kids while having a lie in if the parents have to be at work at normal time?

OP has already said they can go in at normal time.

saoirse31 · 11/07/2024 14:43

I think your dh is being miserable, it's a big occasion for a huge number of people!! Watch it, enjoy, also surely your children are nearly on their holidays , give them a break!

AFmammaG · 11/07/2024 14:43

I’d have to take mine in because of work. I think it’s a bit unfair on those that have to go in to have the rest of the class rocking up at 10. Although I concede I may be biased.

If work did the same though, I’d be fully onboard.

60andsomething · 11/07/2024 14:43

Encouraging children to enjoy and participate in a cultural event with massive importance for the country - very educational in itself, and nourishing for those children's sense of community and identity - and encouragement to participate in team games and competitive sport! Healthy role models too. Far more important than a prompt Monday morning start in the last week of term - I hope other schools follow suit

OhmygodDont · 11/07/2024 14:43

It sounds reasonable. The parents who won’t take them till 10am anyway are the ones who will be calling in late to work or don’t have work anyway.

As long as school is open for those going in on time I see no issue it’s just pragmatic.

Lots of adults will likely be hung over if not running in by seat of pants I reckon. The men anyway.

HcbSS · 11/07/2024 14:41

Well very few bosses will be allowing late starts so why should schools? And who will look after the kids while having a lie in if the parents have to be at work at normal time?