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To ban crossbows & Military style knives in UK?

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StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 00:15

First time poster, long term reader!

So I've been following the horrific news today about the monster who killed his ex partner, her sister and mother yesterday in Enfield (London).

Louise Hunt- (25) Hannah Hunt- (28) Carol Hunt- (61)

Reports state that he used a crossbow and other weapons (mainly knives) apparently he killed them in quick succession all at once at their home yesterday.

It shocks me how someone can obtain a weapon like a crossbow that fires arrows rapidly with immense force that can easily break through bone and kill. It's literally a gun, it loads and fires to kill if that's your intention.

Does anyone think these kind of weapons should be banned? What purpose do they serve? If it does serve a purpose then at least install a licence to own one where they can do background checks and interview the person for their reasons to owning one.

Alas! Another woman who wanted to be independent was brutally murdered along other her sister and mother for it.

Just a quick edit: killings with crossbows have happened before in the UK

In 2010, 40-year-old Stephen Griffiths killed 3 women in Bradford that he didn't know. He later admitted he was obsessed with killers and had a hatred for women. All 3 women were complete strangers to him.

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MrHarleyQuin · 11/07/2024 14:49

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TwinCheeks · 11/07/2024 14:49

No, we do and should ban things that give you no fucking chance to fight back against, like big fuck off knives, automatic weapons, handguns, and crossbows.

Amen to this. It's lovely some people have a hobby playing with these things and its a lovely community and it helps my MH blah di blah di blah. I'm sure people could have said the same about gun clubs, or fan clubs of ninja weapons paraphenalia. Find a hobby that doesnt include weapons, cant be that hard.

The more weapons are banned the better. It's a weak argument to say well a killer will find a way of killing, but what about those that are killing because the weapons are readily available. It's all about reducing the risk and if you cant understand that then there's something wrong.

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:48

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 12:51

Noone is fixating banning crossbows!! We are discussing multiple steps to try and protect women.

  • educating in schools on the signs of domestic violence etc...
  • take a life, receive a full life term in prison.
  • advertising to constantly keep awareness in society
  • easier access to domestic violence register for women to access
  • educating men in calling out other men when they encounter their friends and family doing it.

These are just a short few I can think of, obviously there are many more steps we can take. My point is this requires many steps.

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StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:47

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Sillystrumpet · 11/07/2024 14:46

MrHarleyQuin · 11/07/2024 14:43

Stupid questions, shall we ban knives, shall we ban hammers, shall we ban cricket bats?

No, we do and should ban things that give you no fucking chance to fight back against, like big fuck off knives, automatic weapons, handguns, and crossbows.

Have a look will you when someone goes made with a knife in a shopping centre - still horrible, but compare it to the carnage with a automatic weapon. Had the murderer used a crossbow or gun instead of a hammer, all the Russells would be dead.

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You have no chance to fight off someone with a kitchen knife, a baseball bat. An axe in the context these women died.

amd the argument here is not to ban cross bows as someone went mad in a shopping centre, thr argument is to ban them as a man killed three women in their home. In this context , fine ban them but it would have made no difference.

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:46

MrHarleyQuin · 11/07/2024 14:43

Stupid questions, shall we ban knives, shall we ban hammers, shall we ban cricket bats?

No, we do and should ban things that give you no fucking chance to fight back against, like big fuck off knives, automatic weapons, handguns, and crossbows.

Have a look will you when someone goes made with a knife in a shopping centre - still horrible, but compare it to the carnage with a automatic weapon. Had the murderer used a crossbow or gun instead of a hammer, all the Russells would be dead.

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So it should be divided into categories?

Weapons you stand a chance of escaping or fighting someone off who is using them. If you didn't try hard enough then it's on you

And weapons you stand no chance so let's ban them.

It sounds like the Hunger Games and still implies if you didn't try hard enough to defend yourself then tough.

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:46

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:43

I'm not lazy and I've read them but your coming across as though a ban on crossbows will solve the problem of men killing women. It won't.

So I ask, what will the outcome of banning them be?

Banning an item doesn't mean the man will no longer kill.

The real action needs to be how these men are dealt with but no one seems to want to punish them, just ban things and hope that solves it.

You clearly haven't read my comments as I've said the exact opposite. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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MrHarleyQuin · 11/07/2024 14:46

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:43

I'm not lazy and I've read them but your coming across as though a ban on crossbows will solve the problem of men killing women. It won't.

So I ask, what will the outcome of banning them be?

Banning an item doesn't mean the man will no longer kill.

The real action needs to be how these men are dealt with but no one seems to want to punish them, just ban things and hope that solves it.

It solves that particular problem with crossbows, or at least makes them a damned sight harder to get hold of.

It's a bit infantile to think you can make a piece of legislation that should end all woes.

Just because murder is illegal and people still get murdered does not mean we should not have the law in place.

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:43

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:37

Have you even bothered to read any other comments?

We are saying this as one of many steps to help protect women.

There's no one fix solution, there are many steps we must take.

Honestly what's the point of commenting on a thread if your too lazy to read what other people have said. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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I'm not lazy and I've read them but your coming across as though a ban on crossbows will solve the problem of men killing women. It won't.

So I ask, what will the outcome of banning them be?

Banning an item doesn't mean the man will no longer kill.

The real action needs to be how these men are dealt with but no one seems to want to punish them, just ban things and hope that solves it.

MrHarleyQuin · 11/07/2024 14:43

PassingStranger · 11/07/2024 12:00

Should we ban hammers too?

Remember the Russell murders in 1996. Mum and daughter killed, and the other daughter survived the hammer attack.
Random attack. He wasn't known to the family.

Stupid questions, shall we ban knives, shall we ban hammers, shall we ban cricket bats?

No, we do and should ban things that give you no fucking chance to fight back against, like big fuck off knives, automatic weapons, handguns, and crossbows.

Have a look will you when someone goes made with a knife in a shopping centre - still horrible, but compare it to the carnage with a automatic weapon. Had the murderer used a crossbow or gun instead of a hammer, all the Russells would be dead.

WitchyBits · 11/07/2024 14:42

TwinCheeks · 11/07/2024 13:41

What purpose do they serve?

A hobby for strange men, incels, we all know the kind. They should be banned in our country as they dont serve any useful purpose at all.

I'm not an incel. I'm a 45 yo grandmother. My DH is a 60 yo man who is nothing but gentle and would never harm anybody. My daughter is 15 and wants to be a lawyer. We all own bows and shoot in this country. It's been brilliant for our mental Heath and overcoming focus problems with ADHD etc. The community spirit is wonderful and in summer we have big club bbqs at our range after we shoot. We socialise at the pub after we do their lessons and have guest speakers once a month. There are 150 members in our group and we have a Paralympic and invictus athlete. We aren't doing anything wrong.

I hope if bows are banned then cars are too. And ladders. Trains. Dog leads. Ice. Trees. Necessary ask these things are involved in many many more avoidable deaths.

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:40

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:32

So we're using the same argument as some Americans when talking about banning guns?

So what will happen after crossbows are banned?

TwinCheeks · 11/07/2024 14:37

@YellowphantGrey It wont cure all ills but it removes some of the weapons available to them so yes every little helps. As I said earlier, handguns banned in UK since 1997, and more restrictive laws on Samurai Sword and other such nonsense since 2008. UK govt just needs to keep up this trend and remove as much temptation as possible.

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:37

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:35

The only problem I can see is the problem of men killing women and there being no real consequence for them. They don't see what they've done is wrong and then get given a feeble prison sentence.

Do you think banning crossbows and knives means men won't kill again?

Have you even bothered to read any other comments?

We are saying this as one of many steps to help protect women.

There's no one fix solution, there are many steps we must take.

Honestly what's the point of commenting on a thread if your too lazy to read what other people have said. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:35

TwinCheeks · 11/07/2024 14:30

Not this nonsensical argument.

If you cant see the differece between a hammer, a rolling pin or a cricket bat, compared to bowie knives or crossbows then we have a problem.

The only problem I can see is the problem of men killing women and there being no real consequence for them. They don't see what they've done is wrong and then get given a feeble prison sentence.

Do you think banning crossbows and knives means men won't kill again?

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:34

TwinCheeks · 11/07/2024 13:56

The argument that 99.9% of crossbow owners and rambo knife enthusiasts are either harmless incels or like playing Ray Mears in the field still doesnt wash. Find a different hobby or something else to collect.
Remember we used to allow handguns in the UK, but that was outlawed in 1997 after Dunblane. Again I'm sure the vast majority of the weirdos who used to frequent gun clubs with them had no intention of killing anyone, but there comes a point when the government has to put an end to these lethal "hobbies".

I really dislike the word incel... As if a man has to look super creepy in order to carry out such an atrocious act!

The monster in Enfield had just got out of a relationship and looked very normal!

But he wasn't normal, he was a coward who ended 3 women's lives because he couldn't accepted his ex has moved on.

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StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:32

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:21

What happens after you've banned crossbows and the next man kills a woman by using a cricket bat? Ban the cricket bat?

Anything can be used as a weapon to kill and anyone in the mind of killing will make anything work to be a weapon.

What needs to change is how these men are dealt with. Sadly, there are always people that will make an excuse for them and there isn't a deterrent to stop men from doing this. Even other men defend them.

So we're using the same argument as some Americans when talking about banning guns?

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StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 14:30

Sillystrumpet · 11/07/2024 14:23

I think the op and some posters are failing to understand banning cross bows isn’t going to save even one woman.

I think you need to read my other comments 🤷🏼‍♀️

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TwinCheeks · 11/07/2024 14:30

Sillystrumpet · 11/07/2024 14:23

I think the op and some posters are failing to understand banning cross bows isn’t going to save even one woman.

Not this nonsensical argument.

If you cant see the differece between a hammer, a rolling pin or a cricket bat, compared to bowie knives or crossbows then we have a problem.

Sillystrumpet · 11/07/2024 14:23

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:21

What happens after you've banned crossbows and the next man kills a woman by using a cricket bat? Ban the cricket bat?

Anything can be used as a weapon to kill and anyone in the mind of killing will make anything work to be a weapon.

What needs to change is how these men are dealt with. Sadly, there are always people that will make an excuse for them and there isn't a deterrent to stop men from doing this. Even other men defend them.

I think the op and some posters are failing to understand banning cross bows isn’t going to save even one woman.

YellowphantGrey · 11/07/2024 14:21

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 11:48

We all know that! But at least it makes it harder!

What happens after you've banned crossbows and the next man kills a woman by using a cricket bat? Ban the cricket bat?

Anything can be used as a weapon to kill and anyone in the mind of killing will make anything work to be a weapon.

What needs to change is how these men are dealt with. Sadly, there are always people that will make an excuse for them and there isn't a deterrent to stop men from doing this. Even other men defend them.

TwinCheeks · 11/07/2024 13:56

The argument that 99.9% of crossbow owners and rambo knife enthusiasts are either harmless incels or like playing Ray Mears in the field still doesnt wash. Find a different hobby or something else to collect.
Remember we used to allow handguns in the UK, but that was outlawed in 1997 after Dunblane. Again I'm sure the vast majority of the weirdos who used to frequent gun clubs with them had no intention of killing anyone, but there comes a point when the government has to put an end to these lethal "hobbies".

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 13:49

Feelinadequate23 · 11/07/2024 13:38

Really surprised by the responses here. This is a no-brainer ban. Who cares if the murders are rare. There shouldn't be any such murders! Also disagree that these 3 women would all have died if he'd just had a knife. Two of them could have run for help whilst he was killing one. With a crossbow, it's like a gun, so he can kill all 3 in quick succession. Killing 3 people with a knife would take quite a bit longer, so gives others the chance to escape.

The responses on here sound just like anti-gun control americans! "it's not the gun that killed, it's the murderer!" yes, but funnily enough you don't get mass gun murders in countries that don't have guns!

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Uricon2 · 11/07/2024 13:45

Sadly, I'm not sure in this case legislation around crossbows would have saved the poor women who were murdered this week. We will never know for sure and I totally agree that violence against women is not going to stop with such a ban.

I do however think it is ridiculous that a distance weapon with a multi thousand year history of effectiveness is available so freely and without more regulation.

Sillystrumpet · 11/07/2024 13:44

Feelinadequate23 · 11/07/2024 13:38

Really surprised by the responses here. This is a no-brainer ban. Who cares if the murders are rare. There shouldn't be any such murders! Also disagree that these 3 women would all have died if he'd just had a knife. Two of them could have run for help whilst he was killing one. With a crossbow, it's like a gun, so he can kill all 3 in quick succession. Killing 3 people with a knife would take quite a bit longer, so gives others the chance to escape.

The responses on here sound just like anti-gun control americans! "it's not the gun that killed, it's the murderer!" yes, but funnily enough you don't get mass gun murders in countries that don't have guns!

Well considering they were found in different rooms, that’s total nonsense. And of course a man armed with a knife could kill them.