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To let almost 10 year old DD walk to Greggs

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LiarLiarKnickersAblaze · 10/07/2024 08:36

We live in a medium sized city on a terraced street. At end & within sight of house is a Greggs. One small road to cross by our house (not a main road - small road between terraced houses). We've been trying to teach DD almost 10 some responsibility to get her ready for walking & travelling to school in Yr6 and then secondary. For context she is v tall and mature for her age. We let her pop to Greggs sometimes (about once a month) to get a sausage roll for breakfast. No issues so far however DD said this morning that they were asking questions like 'where's your Mum?'.

DD doesn't fully know this because trying to build her confidence but I still stand outside house and watch her from the porch, cross the small road and watch her walk in and then walk out then home. By this point I relocate to the window and have full line of sight of her walk.

AIBU?

Edit for context: it is 40 metres-ish away.

OP posts:
Notastalker · 10/07/2024 08:41

It's perfectly fine. Tell her to reply with "just outside" if they ask again. No one round here would bat an eyelid at a nine year old in a shop.

ZenNudist · 10/07/2024 08:39

Well walking to a corner shop at 10 is fine and to be encouraged but greggs for breakfast? 🤢