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to ask what to do with my three year old for the next few days?

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Imnotticketyboo · 09/07/2024 20:15

My childminder is on holiday and I've broken a bone in my foot. I don't have any additional adult help I can call on. Epic timing!!

We usually head out during the day to a playground, a playgroup, friends house, soft play etc, but this week I don't have a vehicle and the bus service here is shockingly unreliable so I'm loath to hobble 20 minutes to the bus stop just for it to not turn up. The train is better but it's a 35 minute walk to the station and it's meant to be chucking it down all day. I do not have a buggy.

We've got a bit of colouring we can do...been saving a new colouring sheet for an emergency and think this is the moment! Also we'll sit and read together for a little while so I can elevate my foot, but usually if I sit down she wants to be clambering all over me and this has been quite painful as she's not very aware so will bump and knock my leg quite a bit. So trying to think of some other bits we can do which might entertain her.

Have this fab book called '5 minute mum' but previously have done a multitude of activities from it and I look at the clock to realise it's only been an hour and a half 😂 and I'm left exhausted from doing 10+ activities! My oldest will at least want to do the activities for a little while so it's worth the effort, but the little one still has a very short attention span. It doesn't matter how much I try to stick with the current activity, she's done.

We don't have a TV. She's dropped all her naps. I think this is the first time I've actually felt anxious about parenting. I'm usually super confident and get on with it, but right now I'm stuck trying imagine what we're going to do for the day, let alone Thursday as well. Friday I reckon I can team up with some friends as quite a few of them are off work on Fridays. It'll be alright when big brother is home, the evening seems to fly by when there's two of them. They entertain each other and me!

Any ideas? Or just some words of strength and positivity. I'm getting myself into a worry!!

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GoneFishingToday · 09/07/2024 20:41

Make your own paper chains. Plain paper cut into similar size strips, get her to colour them, and then glue or tape them together to make the chain. Plain flour and water will make glue if you don't have tape or glue to hand.

Let her make up your face / use face paints if you have them.

Ossoduro2 · 09/07/2024 20:36

Have a look at busy toddler on Instagram, she has loads of ideas. A bit like 5 minute mum. Also, screen time!

Cantgetausername87 · 09/07/2024 20:35

Build a fort (blankets draped over sofa or clothes airer will do) with extra cushions and blankets and then read some books by torchlight and practise shadow puppets (always a hit with my 3yo, and you can lie down!)
Make a bit of salt dough and you can paint them the next day.

NuffSaidSam · 09/07/2024 20:35

Also, see if she'll be up for pretending you're the Queen and she has to run around fetching things for you. I find this weirdly popular with kids. Particularly, if you're a horrible Queen who keeps moaning, they think it's hilarious!

NuffSaidSam · 09/07/2024 20:33

Tell her to mind your foot/not climb on you, she's old enough to understand that.

Fill an old backpack with various interesting items from around the house and let her open all the pockets and discover everything. If you got small boxes/bags/purses then you can put stuff inside something and the inside the bad to slow her down!

Playdoh (you can make your own if you don't have any).

Daytime bath is perfect for a rainy day (add dolls/Duplo/dinosaurs/tea set for extra fun).

Stickers. Or if you don't have stickers, tape to stick on something. Maybe draw loads of pictures and stick them up to form an art gallery.

Screen time - this is the time to use it!

JemOfAWoman · 09/07/2024 20:32

Build a den inside. cushions off the sofa and on the floor, upright chairs around them and blankets/throws draped over. Give them a torch and music and serve drinks and snacks in the den. Entry by password only!

user2037272727273 · 09/07/2024 20:29

Taxi to the nearest softplay!

Imnotticketyboo · 09/07/2024 20:27

Fireangels · 09/07/2024 20:25

Baking or Decorating biscuits. You could sit down at the table to do these so rest your foot.
Dressing up
Toys tea party
Jigsaw
Games on your phone

oh i love the toys tea party idea, could do the baking first and then invite the dolls to tea!! 😍

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Imnotticketyboo · 09/07/2024 20:26

Elderflower2016 · 09/07/2024 20:20

Send some invites out for a friend to pop over for a cup of tea with their child

have you got a computer or phone they could watch the odd hour of a tv programme or film?

old magazine and a pair of kids scissors can use up some time

Then your normal household jobs but involving them?

do you have a garden they can potter in and you can sit in a chair?

don’t feel you have to entertain her as such all day- she’ll be occupied to some extent with toys too. Sometimes moving into different rooms is enough to provide variety. You can often do jobs like de cluttering with kids around too

Thanks for this! Sadly we don't have any friends around on Wednesdays and Thursdays, they're all at work/nursery. We love the garden but it's looking pretty torrential tomorrow to be outside.

I don't have magazines or newspapers in the house, but we pass a shop en route to/from school so I could pick one up. That'll be entertaining! Pro tip I discovered recently, is letting them go to town on the lawn with scissors. They get to chop to their hearts content and you don't end up with a million scraps of paper. Less ideal in the rain though.

She does love helping with the housework, so that's a great shout. Will just potter about and she can help. DH was amazed recently that she could sort the laundry by herself as she recognises which clothes belong to who. DS is clueless about these things in spite me doing the laundry with him the same as I do with her! Gender stereotyping is starting off strong 😅

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Fireangels · 09/07/2024 20:25

Baking or Decorating biscuits. You could sit down at the table to do these so rest your foot.
Dressing up
Toys tea party
Jigsaw
Games on your phone

Imnotticketyboo · 09/07/2024 20:21

@Sprig1 good shout! that is something she'll play for a while!!! Though she won't entertain the idea of using dolls and teddies, has to be a living patient. Send gin!!! 😂

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Elderflower2016 · 09/07/2024 20:20

Send some invites out for a friend to pop over for a cup of tea with their child

have you got a computer or phone they could watch the odd hour of a tv programme or film?

old magazine and a pair of kids scissors can use up some time

Then your normal household jobs but involving them?

do you have a garden they can potter in and you can sit in a chair?

don’t feel you have to entertain her as such all day- she’ll be occupied to some extent with toys too. Sometimes moving into different rooms is enough to provide variety. You can often do jobs like de cluttering with kids around too

Sprig1 · 09/07/2024 20:18

I think you need a game of doctors and nurses!

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