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To wonder why it's so controversial to talk about white behaviour throughout history?

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BeachParty · 09/07/2024 16:13

It's an interesting discussion to have, and makes you think.
Why do so many immediately go into "how dare you!" mode or "why are you being racist towards white people?!"
Instead of actually listening to what people are saying? History is whitewashed in this country, we usually learn it from a "hero" viewpoint.

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orangeblosssom · 11/07/2024 23:02

cupcaske123 · 09/07/2024 16:19

People of all races have committed atrocities OP. Rwanda, Indonesia, Bangladesh, Cambodia, East Timor, China, Myanmar...it's not just a "white" thing.

Do you mean these are the countries that have been occupied by white Europeans that caused atrocities?

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 11/07/2024 23:00

FrippEnos · 11/07/2024 22:54

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting

You guys are so fucking marvelous, I don't know where we would be without you. 🙄

I doubt that it would be in the Utopia that so many seem to believe that it would be.

So predictable. Facts met with fairy tales.

FrippEnos · 11/07/2024 22:54

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting

You guys are so fucking marvelous, I don't know where we would be without you. 🙄

I doubt that it would be in the Utopia that so many seem to believe that it would be.

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 11/07/2024 22:47

SallyWD · 11/07/2024 22:14

100,000s?! It was nowhere near that number!! What happened was absolutely awful but let's not tell blatant lies. The truth is bad enough.

Catholic priests anyone?

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 11/07/2024 22:46

WomensRightsRenegade · 11/07/2024 21:12

I don’t agree. Looks like ‘diversity’ and the incredible generosity and openness of the British people have been thrown back in our face. Mono-ethnic countries don’t get this shit.

Most people who came here did so voluntarily. There are many more countries on earth that are almost exclusively black or brown. They were always an option. But people flock to the UK from all over the world.

And if you choose to live somewhere it’s pretty fucking ungrateful to expect it to change to suit you. If I go and live in Japan I would expect to be in a racial minority - and I would expect to fit in with their culture. The only way societies can survive is by concentrating on what citizens have in common. By sharing a narional identity. Race essentialism
is poison. As is the bigotry of low expectations

I think you forgot to a 'White' in front of your username.

Looks like ‘diversity’ and the incredible generosity and openness of the British people have been thrown back in our face. Mono-ethnic countries don’t get this shit.
This is the equivalent of a rapist moaning about his victim being ungrateful for the generosity of his attention. We thank you for structural, overt and unconscious racism. Black mothers are especially grateful for your generosity during pregnancy, labor and beyond... I personally love how generously shop assistants give me their attention when I enter a shop...

Most people who came here did so voluntarily.
Often from lands ravaged by white brutality, privilege and entitlement. Many are from places around the globe which have been asset stripped and where God fearing men had tried to rape the colour out of its peoples, whilst murdering its men and children. The victims of the Windrush scandal were rewarded handsomely for coming here voluntarily to help rebuild the country after a war between white people.

if you choose to live somewhere it’s pretty fucking ungrateful to expect it to change to suit you.
British empire anyone? Apartheid? The Raj? Lets ask Māoris, Native Americans, First Nation peoples and Aboriginals their thoughts. Closer to home what do the Spanish think of the British people who have moved there and not bothered to learn Spanish?

You guys are so fucking marvelous, I don't know where we would be without you. 🙄

SallyWD · 11/07/2024 22:14

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 21:39

I'll never buy into white privilege!

In UK 100,000's of white girls where gang raped, drugged, some murdered and sexually trafficked around the country by men of mainly Pakistani heritage.

And the social services, council, police and government openly covered it up for decades because they didn't want to be seen as racist... So they decided it was more acceptable for white girls as young as 11 to be raped then openly prosecute and shed light to what's going on.

Note!!!! I understand white men can rape too, I'm not talking about the rapists, I'm talking about the police, council, government, media and social services all colluding with each other to hide what was happening.

100,000s?! It was nowhere near that number!! What happened was absolutely awful but let's not tell blatant lies. The truth is bad enough.

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 21:56

Matronic6 · 11/07/2024 21:44

I never said Britain should change it's values or adapt to suit other cultures.

But other cultures have contributed to and shaped Britain as it is today. Black British people are as British as white British people. Which is why schools teach about Mary Seacole, Windrush, Notting Hill Carnival and celebrate BHM and rightly so.

British already has changed it's culture to adapt to other cultures. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Matronic6 · 11/07/2024 21:44

WomensRightsRenegade · 11/07/2024 21:12

I don’t agree. Looks like ‘diversity’ and the incredible generosity and openness of the British people have been thrown back in our face. Mono-ethnic countries don’t get this shit.

Most people who came here did so voluntarily. There are many more countries on earth that are almost exclusively black or brown. They were always an option. But people flock to the UK from all over the world.

And if you choose to live somewhere it’s pretty fucking ungrateful to expect it to change to suit you. If I go and live in Japan I would expect to be in a racial minority - and I would expect to fit in with their culture. The only way societies can survive is by concentrating on what citizens have in common. By sharing a narional identity. Race essentialism
is poison. As is the bigotry of low expectations

I never said Britain should change it's values or adapt to suit other cultures.

But other cultures have contributed to and shaped Britain as it is today. Black British people are as British as white British people. Which is why schools teach about Mary Seacole, Windrush, Notting Hill Carnival and celebrate BHM and rightly so.

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 21:39

I'll never buy into white privilege!

In UK 100,000's of white girls where gang raped, drugged, some murdered and sexually trafficked around the country by men of mainly Pakistani heritage.

And the social services, council, police and government openly covered it up for decades because they didn't want to be seen as racist... So they decided it was more acceptable for white girls as young as 11 to be raped then openly prosecute and shed light to what's going on.

Note!!!! I understand white men can rape too, I'm not talking about the rapists, I'm talking about the police, council, government, media and social services all colluding with each other to hide what was happening.

LiterallyOnFire · 11/07/2024 21:32

Pretending that there exists such a thing as "white behaviour" is every bit as repellent as asserting that "black behaviour" or "brown behaviour" exist.

Oldcroneandthreewitches · 11/07/2024 21:31

It’s not whitewashed as we lesrmed lots of awful stuff the English did when I was in school / that’s going back 30 odd years.

Also had a really interesting chat about it with my dd taking her to school in the car.

When we were going about the world taking over countries we did shocking stuff - barbaric things - and we were definitely not the only European countries do this. Spain, Portugal and Holland were brutal too. Portugal particularly kicking off the slave trade from Africa and taking over in the Philippines which I didn’t know about until I started working with two Philippino women.

But it was a long long time ago and weve moved on massively - to the point people from all round the world want to live here.

The problem is people want apologies for things that happened 700 - 500 hundred years ago and that’s often leading to wanting ‘reparations ’

I told my DD somethings that happened in India and she was shocked but I told her to never be embarrassed about her country as she wasn’t even born then - as neither was I.

Papyrophile · 11/07/2024 21:20

On the other hand @PTSDBarbiegirl , you've been saved from a life of harvesting seaweed in the Hebrides to feed cattle and now have the freedom and education to post on MN about how appallingly you have been abused.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 11/07/2024 21:13

My family were non English speaking white people in UK who were forcibly cleared from their land, banned from speaking their language, owing property and oppressed by other white people. The few left behind died from the common cold brought by their oppressors. Not all slavery was inflicted only on black people.

WomensRightsRenegade · 11/07/2024 21:12

Matronic6 · 11/07/2024 13:07

A country that invaded and colonised 1/4 of the planet, stole cultural artefacts and tried to instill their culture of course expects their culture to be respected. Ironic. I never said British culture shouldn't be respected btw. I said the curriculum should reflect the diversity of the country and classrooms.

Children deserve to see themselves in their leaning the same way adults deserve to see themselves in local and national government. With representation of different sexes, ethnicities and religions.

I never said the British perspective should be ignored, I said other perspectives need to be added to the narrative.

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I don’t agree. Looks like ‘diversity’ and the incredible generosity and openness of the British people have been thrown back in our face. Mono-ethnic countries don’t get this shit.

Most people who came here did so voluntarily. There are many more countries on earth that are almost exclusively black or brown. They were always an option. But people flock to the UK from all over the world.

And if you choose to live somewhere it’s pretty fucking ungrateful to expect it to change to suit you. If I go and live in Japan I would expect to be in a racial minority - and I would expect to fit in with their culture. The only way societies can survive is by concentrating on what citizens have in common. By sharing a narional identity. Race essentialism
is poison. As is the bigotry of low expectations

Papyrophile · 11/07/2024 21:06

That sounds judgy, but an anecdote (from 1990) when my sister lived in a west African capital city. We were pulled over for an imagined traffic offense on Friday afternoon, and threatened with imprisonment for the "offense". All the traffic officer wanted was a bung to fund his weekend spends. It cost about $10 "donation to police funds" in cash. Almost every public functionary in Africa is on the take for themselves.

WomensRightsRenegade · 11/07/2024 21:05

I guess it’s trendy to denigrate white people now. Not allowed to celebrate the immense achievements of many white Europeans and Americans throughout history. It has to all be negative.

Do we ever get to talk about brown or black behaviour (if we’re lumping races together as a monolith) throughout history? Or do we have to pretend non-white people have some inherent moral superiority simply because of their skin colour?

Does anyone go to Japan and demand they examine their behaviour throughout history? Nigeria? India? Does anyone demand they feel ashamed of their achievements? No, and no.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 11/07/2024 21:00

@TempestTost I agree, history is taught at local level, relevant to the country you are living in. It's a way of showcasing how we got to the here and now.

And believe it or not, its difficult to obtain accurate information for other Continents or countries... unless you speak the language of course!
My prime example is DC A-level history essay which was on China- from the mid 1800's to the mid 1900's. It's difficult to obtain information that isn't a "western source" and is able to paint an unbiased view of events.

Papyrophile · 11/07/2024 20:59

Actually, most countries in Africa are just fundamentally corrupt. So much aid has been wasted, without any visible improvement in the quality of life for most.

suburburban · 11/07/2024 20:54

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 19:47

I graduated school a few years ago, am at uni now and all we ever learnt was how evil white countries where....

White privilege
Supremacy
Unconscious bias
Etc.....

What they don't teach you is most countries in Africa and Asia are just as bad.... But only white people are allowed to be vilified. 🤷🏼‍♀️

It's so tedious and causes resentment among the working classes

Papyrophile · 11/07/2024 20:54

The DfE won't need to recruit far locally. I live in Cornwall, which is more than 95% white. It's also beautiful and while it's expensive to buy a house, it's not totally impossible, so we have no significant teacher shortages (except in maths and physics). Teachers come here and stay.

ATenShun · 11/07/2024 20:41

Matronic6 · 11/07/2024 14:25

First of all, I am actually from the UK.

Second of all, the problem is actually not just with me. It is literally DFE priority is to achieve greater equality and diversity in education. They are actively aiming to recruit staff that reflect the diversity of the country. The national curriculum also requires the teaching of ethnic minority history including the consequences of the British Empire.

I was never expressing concern as a parent about what my child was being taught. I was explaining what schools are doing up and down the country because delivering a more broad and balanced curriculum is a key priority in education.

They are actively aiming to recruit staff that reflect the diversity of the country.
Which is of course racism itself. It should be the best placed candidate who gets the job. No matter what colour creed, sex or religion.

The national curriculum also requires the teaching of ethnic minority history including the consequences of the British Empire.
For the most part it is partially taught. But as has been said countless times. Both here and elsewhere. There is only so much teaching time available to cover other important historical events.

Papyrophile · 11/07/2024 20:17

@StarryIsabella , to accept a share of responsibility, from the 17th to 19th centuries, Europe developed the trump cards. Science and technology advances, tick. Applied science and technology, which means engineering skills, another tick. Ship building, mining, map making, the list is almost endless; then the industrialisation of agriculture (Jethro Tull, crop rotation) resulted in a mini population boom, to staff factories.

Capital formation started in Italy and the Netherlands, from the 14th century with risk sharing ventures common by the late 15th century, which funded the voyages of discovery. Insurance has its origins in a 16thC London coffee shop -- Lloyds, where merchants haggled and traded and did deals.

I grant you that it was a fortunate confluence of education, energy and enterprise... but it was not replicated anywhere else on the planet until the USA really started to motor in the late 19thC, and they built their commercial framework on the English-Norman system of Common Law.

History is fascinating... very many apologies if I have been boring.
Edited to remove a floating redundant "or".

StarryIsabella · 11/07/2024 19:47

I graduated school a few years ago, am at uni now and all we ever learnt was how evil white countries where....

White privilege
Supremacy
Unconscious bias
Etc.....

What they don't teach you is most countries in Africa and Asia are just as bad.... But only white people are allowed to be vilified. 🤷🏼‍♀️

turbonerd · 11/07/2024 18:43

Papyrophile · 10/07/2024 20:34

There's a lot of reading around the subject of empire, specifically the British Empire, for any one who is interested. I enjoyed Niall Ferguson's Empire. He's a Scot and an economic history prof at Harvard, who writes fluently and accessibly about the Empire. I think he's quite clear sighted about the good and the bad.

If you are in Brittany on holiday, I would recommend the Museum of the French East India Company in Lorient, which was the home port for the French East India fleet, if only to reassure yourselves that it really wasn't only England that has a colonial history.

And, as I posted last night, I firmly believe that most of the attraction for refugees and migrants is language, and English is the modern world language. It's a really easy language to get by in while you don't speak it fluently. For a final point, English civil law is the gold standard for equity and certainty, because it is based on 800 years of precedent. Magna Carta, habeus corpus are the foundation stones of legal equity and fair treatment.

Yes, the French Empire was also huge and they really did not let their colonies go quietly in the night after WW2 either.

The atrocities in Madagascar, the Vietnam war and so forth. We don’t hear much about it, but French documentary makers have made some harrowing films with real life footage for those who can stomach it.
It is the «Apocalypse» series, includes the world Wars too.

DownNative · 11/07/2024 17:48

BarryCantSwim · 11/07/2024 17:30

@DownNative

I have no wish to engage with you further except to say I take offence at some of the selective quotes and narrow definition of what is ‘intended’ genocide.

It’s laughable to suggest the most advanced nation at that time was just a bit shit in its logistics and coordination, the consequence being millions of people died over multiple years as well as unbearable suffering for those who’ve survived.

I’m very happy to agree to disagree with you since we have such very different views on humanity.

I'm sure you do not wish to engage, but understand that all opinions are not equal and the knowledge I quoted comes from the Irish Government, Irish TDs, Irish historians x2, American historian and so on.

Likewise, whatever you take offence at is irrelevant to me. All that's relevant is the facts as presented by the various historians et al I quoted.

It is not humanity we disagree on and there you sail perilously close to the Emotional Appeal Fallacy.

It is simply Irish history we're disagreeing on. Thankfully, no reputable professional historian agrees with you! 👍

Cheerio.....🤷‍♂️