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To wonder why it's so controversial to talk about white behaviour throughout history?

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BeachParty · 09/07/2024 16:13

It's an interesting discussion to have, and makes you think.
Why do so many immediately go into "how dare you!" mode or "why are you being racist towards white people?!"
Instead of actually listening to what people are saying? History is whitewashed in this country, we usually learn it from a "hero" viewpoint.

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Kinshipug · 13/07/2024 12:00

Nobody said you have to hate Churchill. Dont have to worship him either. It doesn't have to be one or the other. He got us through the war and he was horribly racist etc. You don't have to choose and you don't have to end every sentence with "but xyz"

SallyWD · 13/07/2024 11:52

Lots of British people love Churchill but don't scratch beneath the surface. I do know plenty of British people who don't love him!
It's not right to say all British love him.

Champagnesocialismo · 13/07/2024 11:41

You won’t get people to hate Churchill in the UK, racist yes, he is the reason why we aren’t speaking German. He was a racist, but he’s also inextricably linked with the freedoms we all have now in the UK and Europe.

Newname205 · 13/07/2024 11:38

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But a lot of English people hated Churchill. My parents and FIL did and they would be over 100 years old now. He was voted out after the war. He was just a good orator who led the war cabinet. English people then were just like now, some Reform voters, some Jeremy Corbyn fans and various shades of middle ground. In general the way history is taught has become less Britain centric. It’s the stereotyping and phrase “white behaviour “ that’s bothering people.

coupdetonnerre · 13/07/2024 11:24

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suburburban · 13/07/2024 11:11

Yes Churchill got us through a war .Different times

Oldcroneandthreewitches · 13/07/2024 10:16

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Your never going to get British people to hate Churchill as he steered us through the war with Germany.

Yep he also did shit things. Through out history other leaders have done the same. Just look at the Middle East.

What you’re doing is instilling hate in to a small child rather than balance.

I said way up thread about a convo I had with my dd about some of the things the British did and she was shocked - but I also pointed to the rail ways, roads, canals, telegraph poles and bridges that were built under great hardship but massively benefited the country- even to this day.

How is your child going to feel taking on an adult history teacher who will basically be able to point out the transformation India went under British rule? You should be teaching them balance so they don’t embarrass themselves in front of their peers

vawodoc · 13/07/2024 09:56

What I take to be the impetus behind the OP - (roughly) that discussions of historical racist oppression tend ubiquitously to be derailed by contemporary racism-informed whataboutery - is well exemplified by this thread itself.

In response to OP's question: the reason it's apparently controversial boils down to its being another shadow of empire. In brief, the apparent controversy is caused by (mostly past) British and other western European imperialist oppression and present-day effects thereof.

Those who rail at "racism against white people" would do well to think about their own status as victims of this ineluctable shadow-of-empire mechanism. They won't, of course. They can't.

What's so bad about imperialist oppression? This is one thing. There are others.

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Windchiming · 13/07/2024 09:03

I can't believe people carry do much hate for people of a nation just because in past, some unrelated people from that country did bad things. I am Indian but I don't live with hate for British, Dutch, Portuguese and middle Eastern who colonised my country in past. People of today have nothing to do with it. People who don't like being stereotyped are stereotyping others.

ATenShun · 12/07/2024 20:41

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 12/07/2024 17:43

White is right. So predictable.

That comes across like a toddler throwing his toys out the playpen because he didn't get his own way.

orchiddottyback · 12/07/2024 18:45

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 12/07/2024 17:43

White is right. So predictable.

It must really grind your gears that people are getting sick of attitudes like this and starting to call it out for what it is.

The card your waving is becoming worthless more and more every day. 😂

FrippEnos · 12/07/2024 18:09

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 12/07/2024 17:43

White is right. So predictable.

You haven't been able to prove that these behaviours are entirely "white" behaviours.

LiterallyOnFire · 12/07/2024 17:57

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 12/07/2024 17:43

White is right. So predictable.

Who said that?

Wishihadanalgorithm · 12/07/2024 17:51

I teach Yr 8 History (so compulsory) and teach about colonialism; the slave trade; the way the English treated the Irish during the famine; treatment by the wealthy of the poor in Britain such as factories, growth of towns and mines. We also use David Olusoga “Black and British” to allow pupils to read independently about this topic.

My DC in Yr 5 at the same school studied the Slave trade this year and took in a number of my books to share with her class (inc Olusoga’s picture book version of “Black and British”) and she learned about the horrors committed by the English.

I don’t think we (as a school) whitewash History. In Media we discuss the narrative of the white man being a “goody” and the native being a “baddy.” In English we teach a selection of texts that challenge stereotypes and read literature by non-white authors and explore their cultures.

I don’t think we do anything which is rocket science TBH, but we are an indie school so have freedom to teach what we like.

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 12/07/2024 17:43

White is right. So predictable.

LiterallyOnFire · 12/07/2024 17:24

Kriscross · 12/07/2024 11:16

I think some people (particularly younger people) in the west are so anti West whilst forgetting how lucky they are to actually live in the west. So they just keep slating the western countries.

Some ignore any accountability of individual nations to sort themselves out a bit. Its all poor them, its our fault. Everything is the fault of the west, ignore uncomfortable untruths that it isn't.

The problem is OP and others are confusing History with some kind of SJW team sport.

History is the study of who did what and why; cause and effect.

If you decide to categorise people purely by skin colour before you even start, you're making it impossible to really examine what happened. Because people aren't lumpen blocs of ethnicity. Different states, societies, organisations, regions, tribes, families and individuals act independently of each other and in differing ways for differing reasons.

ATenShun · 12/07/2024 14:37

Kriscross · 12/07/2024 14:11

This

How many countries have a clean and innocent history. Its just some countries get slated more for what occurred hundreds of years ago than other countries do.

I suspect it is to do with the perceived wealth this Country has in comparison to others. There are some camps that repeatedly say the UK should pay compensation to atone for wealthy Brits from hundreds of years ago making money from owning slaves.

In reality higher taxation of those making higher wages today is (or should be) paying for a health and benefit system that benefits those of lesser means today. Be they black, white, green, blue, red or anything else.

Kriscross · 12/07/2024 14:11

FrippEnos · 12/07/2024 12:24

It seems to me that you are suffering from what many are claiming that "white" people are suffering from.

Not wanting to admit that your heritage has (in some cases) a very nasty past.

Why is that?

Very few countries histories are innocent of bad behaviour.
It just seems that many people just enjoy pointing it out to white people and dislike it when the truth is spoken back to them.

For all this talk of history should be taught as the truth, there are very few people that seem to actually want that.

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How many countries have a clean and innocent history. Its just some countries get slated more for what occurred hundreds of years ago than other countries do.

ATenShun · 12/07/2024 13:44

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 12/07/2024 00:23

I love a discussion. This thread is not a discussion, unless you have a very low bar for what a discussion is. It's the usual racially motivated dross, 'racism doesn't exist', 'its not true', 'be grateful', 'ethnic countries are just as bad' different iterations of the racist's version of NAMALT.

What do you know about the development of countries and communities around the world before the colonial empires reached them? What do you know about what it is like to be an ethnic minority in this country? Closer to home what do you know about racism and unequal health outcomes. What do you know about structural and systemic racism?

Its funny women can be trusted recognise sexism and misogyny but ethnic minorities cannot be trusted to recognise racism.

I think your post is mixing up what is the subject of the thread and your personal feelings now. As previously stated, most people in the UK are happy to discuss our history, including the parts that don't reflect on Britain well.

Trying to conflate your opinions and feelings today with history from hundreds of years ago, does nobody any good.
Using health outcomes as an example, there are genetics at play for poorer health. Illness like diabetes and obesity are found higher in black women than White.
Or the oft quoted fact that black women are far more likely to die in childbirth. To give a true indication if it is a failure by medical staff, you need to look at factors like pre-existing illness, do black women have more babies than white (eg twice as many babies means double the risk), is home birthing more common in blacks. As well as a number of other factors.

Windchiming · 12/07/2024 12:58

BeachParty · 09/07/2024 18:36

@Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong

I'm white and Irish. Technically as 'white' as is possible. I'm not going to explain our history here, nor do I expect anyone to apologise for their forefathers actions. I have never experienced racism but my father did as a young man

I guess I mean White English mentality (of some, not all!) to clarify
I say this as white English myself

Op, why do you have to start a thread when you are not impacted by any of it. Is it to tell us how morally superior you are by having such fair thoughts? I am Indian and what your ancestors did to mine does not worry me in my day to day life.

What annoys me is your virtue signalling and attacking people with words like whataboutry to shut a fair discussion. Because you are English, you only know what British Empire did to common wealth countries, because I am Indian I know what other nations did to India and other Asian countries and noone talks about it. You feel virtuous talking about white atrocities. Fact is any one group of people with power and resources had exploited others. You got your daily dose of showing us how much worried you are for poor us, maybe let us deal with that. Those Indians who don't stay in past have built the country and its wealth, some have left the country and able to work in so called prestigious professions. Don't worry about us, try tp fix problems of your own people. You have no empathy for those who in your own neighbourhood are suffering, have voted for shitty government's to make people poorer, old people lacking care, fix that first.

suburburban · 12/07/2024 12:54

orchiddottyback · 12/07/2024 09:37

I can see MN are allowing this goady thread continuing. Well that's not a surprise, no wonder so many are voting for reform ect.

It's just like media and film virtually every single character is either of colour or in a mixed relationship. Schools and universities' are are evaluating all they teach and as the say goes white colonial history all bad you should be ashamed.

Cut, deleted remove or edit out anything and everything that may be perceived to be triggering. Forums full of bullshit posts like "White behavior" where the reverse would be immediately banned. Quite frankly as a caucasian white country, where a majority are 83% white still, it has no reflection on the new movement trying to make every thing 50% / 50% and more.

Since the black lives matter protests (USA Induced hysteria) and taking the knee its appears there is a growing culture of divisive behaviour where particular members of society feel free to now bully harass and goad hiding behind this knowing people are to scared or afraid to speak out for being canceled.

Well I for one have had enough and I can sense resentment growing within the community where I live and you reap what you sow.

I have no white guilt and no remorse, I have reuse to accept I have privilege and live my life to support my family and friends.I dont give a shit what your colour is as long as you are qualified to your job and your the best person for it.

If you want to claim coutries are still behind the times in racial and social norms them go to Dubai, go to the east. Hell go to any other country and none and I guarantee you none would bend over quite like this country.

The UK since the dawn of time has been a melting pot of conquer, rape, pillage and slavery, all our ancestors no matter what color they are have been subject to horrific and barbaric treatment throughout the ages. No one group holds the I win button and for god sake there is far more to history than the time of just colonial slave history.

If you so damn bothered about making some change, go to the arab muslim countries and protest there about the 1500 years of arab muslim slaves from africa and how they castrated and abused them. Lets see how long you last, the UK is a welcoming tolerant society and it seems some are not content until they break that.

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Yes have to agree

suburburban · 12/07/2024 12:52

I remember a history textbook in the 00s

It stated the Arabs enslaved black people before the people from Europe began taking Slaves to America but this was ok somehow because they could buy their freedom or something along those lines

How convenient I thought

FrippEnos · 12/07/2024 12:24

Socrateswasrightaboutvoting · 12/07/2024 00:23

I love a discussion. This thread is not a discussion, unless you have a very low bar for what a discussion is. It's the usual racially motivated dross, 'racism doesn't exist', 'its not true', 'be grateful', 'ethnic countries are just as bad' different iterations of the racist's version of NAMALT.

What do you know about the development of countries and communities around the world before the colonial empires reached them? What do you know about what it is like to be an ethnic minority in this country? Closer to home what do you know about racism and unequal health outcomes. What do you know about structural and systemic racism?

Its funny women can be trusted recognise sexism and misogyny but ethnic minorities cannot be trusted to recognise racism.

It seems to me that you are suffering from what many are claiming that "white" people are suffering from.

Not wanting to admit that your heritage has (in some cases) a very nasty past.

Why is that?

Very few countries histories are innocent of bad behaviour.
It just seems that many people just enjoy pointing it out to white people and dislike it when the truth is spoken back to them.

For all this talk of history should be taught as the truth, there are very few people that seem to actually want that.