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Losing my hair - is a headscarf cultural appropriation.

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Annielou67 · 09/07/2024 15:35

I recently had a gastric bypass and I’m affected by hair thinning which I knew could be one of the side effects. Currently I am not thinning evenly but in patches and I have gone from really thick long hair to one side being a bit straggly especially at the temple. So I got out my scarves, had a play around, and generally had problems with the scarves falling off. Meanwhile I saw suggested the use of a Tichel, a type of pre sewn, pre fitted scarf with a band to stop if moving off your hairline. The Jewish lady recommending it on Instagram said that it was ok for anyone to wear one. I bought one, it’s great. Apart from the reaction of my friends, relatives and daughter who say that wearing a headscarf ( not solely a tichel) is culturally insensitive, being that I am white and non-religious. When you Google these things some people say it is culturally insensitive and others say it isn’t.

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Chersfrozenface · 09/07/2024 15:41

Look at the wide variety of head coverings women wear after hair loss because of chemotherapy.

Pick some you like and will feel comfortable wearing. Ignore any comments.

MereDintofPandiculation · 09/07/2024 15:40

If it’s cultural appropriation, where does that put the late Queen?

CurlsnSunshinetime4tea · 09/07/2024 15:38

Many women from many cultures wear headscarves no it’s not appropriation.

mitogoshi · 09/07/2024 15:38

It's fine to wear a head scarf! Both my grandmothers wore them, was quite normal here in the uk to keep your hair in place in the wind! Also remember the plastic bonnets! Honestly this cultural appropriation has gone way too far, as long as you aren't making a joke out of another culture's clothing it's fine to wear different attire

Comedycook · 09/07/2024 15:38

It's fine. Wear what you want and what makes you feel comfortable

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