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Fucking hell am I disturbed...

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disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 16:29

DS13 likes to play this game named Fnaf, usually with his friend from online school who lives like 3 streets away.

Today I didn't have anything better to do so I read up a bit on it.

Fucking hell I need to bleach my brain after reading the backstory.

Basically there was a pizzeria chain with these moving characters as mascots, and the co owner was a murderer, who abducted 5 kids, murdered them in very gruesome methods, and put them into the moving characters, which crushed their bodies, and then he went on to display (!!!) the mascots and let them run loose in the pizzeria.

One of the sentient mascots bit a child visiting the pizzeria, and cut away his skull and frontal lobe.

When the now-sentient mascots turned on him and tried to kill him, he tried to jump into one of the non-sentient mascot's robot suit, but something happened and it crushed him into pieces, he then became a sentient mascot (?)

Another pizzeria was open at the same time, and he used it as a front to kidnap and torture, and crush more children...
until his child visited it and one of the sentient mascots murdered her...

I haven't been so disturbed since watching A clockwork orange.

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XenoBitch · 08/07/2024 20:07

I have the VR version of the game, and tbh it was a total waste of money as I am too scared to play it!
No idea of the backstory, as it is not explained in the game.

Devilsmommy · 08/07/2024 19:56

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 16:36

DS is able to crack any filters and will play it regardless unfortunately...

DS's friend's parents are really lax and won't do anything about it.

Try not letting him see the film version then aswell. It's pretty gory

Countrygirlxo · 08/07/2024 19:52

At 13 I was playing crash bandicoot, kula world, Tekken and rayman. God help the kids of today

Scorchio84 · 08/07/2024 19:50

Yep the kids in school are crazy about it.. it's a film too now iirc

Edit to say I'm in primary school so a lot younger that you child & in all fairness at his age I was watching ALL the usual horrors, not saying that that's okay or that you should be blasé about his gaming but I suppose that's his age & what his peer group are into

CascaChan · 08/07/2024 19:47

LaLaLouella · 08/07/2024 16:47

DS's friend's parents are really lax and won't do anything about it.

And so are you.... you are doing exactly the same thing the other parents are doing. Turning a blind eye to the things your children are consuming and adding to your child's increasing desensitisation to extreme horror content.

FNAF is not extreme horror lol. It’s made for kids.

ZombieBoob · 08/07/2024 19:43

To be fair ypu don't really know much when playing the game it's just a jump scare game really. The back story's are mainly in the books.

SundayTulips · 08/07/2024 19:40

Bananalanacake · 08/07/2024 16:35

Surely it's based on fiction, but yes it does sound disturbing.

Nope. Definitely based on fact

Branleuse · 08/07/2024 19:40

Fnaf has been out years. It was a big thing in my kids primary school. Theyve all left school now.

Quacking4it · 08/07/2024 19:28

tiddletiddleboomboom · 08/07/2024 19:02

I find it quite bemusing that people get upset about fnaf when cartoons are incredibly violent and we show them to kids much younger than 12!

Cartoon characters getting squashed by weights, electrocuted, set on fire, punched, smashed with mallets and huge rocks, having their skin all burnt off etc
Fairytales are just as crazy- you can only be a "good" character if you are attractive and slim, anyone who is disfigured or not conventionally attractive is automatically evil and "bad" etc etc

Obv I am not saying those things should be banned, but when you actually examine the messages contained within its really quite disturbing.

Asachild I hated cartoons for that reason. Used to upset me. Now I love a good horror😄. Still won't watch cartoons though!!

Wizardcalledoz · 08/07/2024 19:26

Fairy stories are also pretty dark when you read the original stories. Bendy and the ink machine, piggy, fnaf, granny etc etc. Unfortunatly its just the way things are and so long as you check things before they go on them (and appropriate consequences when they find work arounds for things they know they shouldnt be watching) then I dont see the harm

oatmilk4breakfast · 08/07/2024 19:25

It’s horrible. Horror is horror. Why would we expose our children to it?

DoIWantTo · 08/07/2024 19:21

You can’t call another child’s parting lax for allowing their child to play that game when you allow your son to play it Hmm

LordSnot · 08/07/2024 19:16

NotAlexa · 08/07/2024 16:59

I used to like gruesome things when I was a kid. My mum bought me surgery atlas (it's like encyclopedia of anatomy with surgical terms), I basically grew up with it! And I ended up getting my first degree in Medical Science.

Point I'm making - refocus a weird and potentially dangerous fetish into a professional educating material. Might end up being a talented surgeon, pathologist or a criminal attorney!

Playing horror games is neither weird or a "fetish" 🙄

Noseybookworm · 08/07/2024 19:11

I think kids that age love gruesome horror to be honest - I was about his age when I used to watch horror movies with my friends - Evil Dead, Halloween, Nightmare on Elm Street etc and we enjoyed scaring ourselves silly!

momtoboys · 08/07/2024 19:02

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 16:35

They know. They're really lax with parenting.

And you aren't lax with your parenting by letting him play it and/or playing it with him yourself? I'm confused.

tiddletiddleboomboom · 08/07/2024 19:02

I find it quite bemusing that people get upset about fnaf when cartoons are incredibly violent and we show them to kids much younger than 12!

Cartoon characters getting squashed by weights, electrocuted, set on fire, punched, smashed with mallets and huge rocks, having their skin all burnt off etc
Fairytales are just as crazy- you can only be a "good" character if you are attractive and slim, anyone who is disfigured or not conventionally attractive is automatically evil and "bad" etc etc

Obv I am not saying those things should be banned, but when you actually examine the messages contained within its really quite disturbing.

swayingpalmtree · 08/07/2024 18:53

shivermetimbers77 · 08/07/2024 17:01

Yes it’s pretty gruesome but it’s fairly standard for horror/fantasy..I was reading Stephen King by that age and my sisters and I would watch films like Amityville Horror with the curtains closed to scare ourselves silly on purpose . None of us have gone on to become axe murderers…

I agree. The backstory is pretty horrific. That said, my kids played it for about a week (over age 12) and then just got bored with it.

I remember watching nightmare on elm street, amityville, halloween, and one of the boys put hellraiser on in the library when we were meant to be studying and we watched that when I was about 13/14 (it was before the days of ofsted!) and we enjoyed being scared and jumping out of our skin. It didnt turn me into a serial killer and I actually went on to work in psych with vulnerable people.

Of course if you arent comfortable with it then talk to him but kids have always enjoyed horror and it doesnt mean anything sinister. If it did, then all of my school cohort would be mass murderers by now.

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 18:49

AllThePotatoesAreSinging · 08/07/2024 18:41

You said his dad would help him crack controls. That’s undermining you.

oh alright thanks Smile

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Createausername1970 · 08/07/2024 18:47

NoDishiRishi · 08/07/2024 16:49

Some of the Pokémon have pretty disturbing backstories but I can't see that being banned anything soon for kids 😂

gamerant.com/pokemon-disturbing-facts/

My favs being Cubone who wears their mothers skull as a head dress and Driffloon a cute balloon that takes children away to the land of the dead, or Duskull who chases rule breaking kids as it likes the sound of them crying..

It's not like they're watching The Boys or Saw 😂 we were all reading James Herbert and Richard Laymon at 11

Yes, agreed about the horror. I read a lot of horror aged around 11/12, especially James Herbert. My parents would not let me watch the Exorcist, but didnt seem to mind me reading it.

AllThePotatoesAreSinging · 08/07/2024 18:41

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 18:27

WDYM by undermining me?

You said his dad would help him crack controls. That’s undermining you.

AbraAbraCadabra · 08/07/2024 18:40

That is grim, but he's 14. Not 5. At 14/15 I was really really into the collectible magazine "Murder Casebook" which was all about serial killers so really life grizzly stuff.

And young children have read disturbing stories since the age of time. Read any fairy tales lately? Some really grizzly tales can be delivered in a child friendly way. If you describe the same story in a not child friendly way you've definitely wouldn't be reading them to your children!

Workoutinthepark · 08/07/2024 18:37

MyNDfamily · 08/07/2024 18:31

Her kids are probably not as smart as ours. Mine can code and build websites. He will uninstall parental controls somehow. Teens push boundaries deliberately. No teen does exactly what their mother says that's ridiculous to suggest.

That's a bit off, I'm sure everyone has clever kids.

My kids like taking apart and reinstalling tech, and stuff like that, they can also do a lot of clever online stuff, so its not about being clever as such, or interested in tech. There's just games they never play, because they aren't allowed and never were. (But no judgement from me as there's no peer pressure to in their social groups, and I wonder if I've been quite lucky there).

It's a long game isn't it, if they've been playing a long time however they want, just saying no suddenly will probably be almost impossible.

TheMarzipanDildo · 08/07/2024 18:37

I played this as a young teen. Can’t say it’s scarred me but I suppose it’s probably changed in ten years.

MyNDfamily · 08/07/2024 18:31

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 18:03

How am I meant to not let him?

You seem to think I'll snap my fingers and he'll stop cracking Parental controls.

Her kids are probably not as smart as ours. Mine can code and build websites. He will uninstall parental controls somehow. Teens push boundaries deliberately. No teen does exactly what their mother says that's ridiculous to suggest.

Workoutinthepark · 08/07/2024 18:31

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 17:33

How do you deal with a tech savvy teen who will get around it?

Do you ban stuff like Minecraft too?

They play Minecraft on their laptop, and aside from the retro gaming that's all they play. I quite like Minecraft especially creative mode which they mostly use it in. Not sure if I sound very fuddy duddy, I have it a lot easier tbh because in their friendship groups it's mostly Minecraft anyway so no one's teasing them etc on bit playing the other stuff.