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Fucking hell am I disturbed...

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disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 16:29

DS13 likes to play this game named Fnaf, usually with his friend from online school who lives like 3 streets away.

Today I didn't have anything better to do so I read up a bit on it.

Fucking hell I need to bleach my brain after reading the backstory.

Basically there was a pizzeria chain with these moving characters as mascots, and the co owner was a murderer, who abducted 5 kids, murdered them in very gruesome methods, and put them into the moving characters, which crushed their bodies, and then he went on to display (!!!) the mascots and let them run loose in the pizzeria.

One of the sentient mascots bit a child visiting the pizzeria, and cut away his skull and frontal lobe.

When the now-sentient mascots turned on him and tried to kill him, he tried to jump into one of the non-sentient mascot's robot suit, but something happened and it crushed him into pieces, he then became a sentient mascot (?)

Another pizzeria was open at the same time, and he used it as a front to kidnap and torture, and crush more children...
until his child visited it and one of the sentient mascots murdered her...

I haven't been so disturbed since watching A clockwork orange.

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MrRydersParlourGame · 11/07/2024 08:24

Goodness me, OP, it sounds like you're very much bottom of the pecking order in your house!

Your DH won't control his son but he's perfectly happy to control you!

MonsteraMama · 09/07/2024 01:50

FNAF is quite tame as far as horror game back stories go, it's just silly shock horror like Slenderman or any of the old classic Creepypastas.

Advise you don't read the synopses when he starts playing proper horror games in a few years if you found FNAF disturbing!

disturbedfnafnamechange · 09/07/2024 01:43

WhiteLily1 · 08/07/2024 22:32

Firstly - why would he do that? So if a child is deliberately being sneaky and sly and rude by going against the rules and boundaries set, he would do nothing about that? No consequences for the child? No boundaries?
If that’s the case then you have far far more to worry about longer term than a computer game.
Secondly, how on Earth can you me married to someone who undermines your parenting? Are you in a partnership or dictatorship? Don’t you discuss and agree parenting principles together?

Because he doesn't believe in filters, and won't support my decisions if they go against his moral code.

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disturbedfnafnamechange · 09/07/2024 00:11

BarryCantSwim · 08/07/2024 21:36

With respect - unless he is about to work for GCHQ as the youngest professional hacker, you just have rubbish filters and passwords.

If you’re not too fussed about him playing - all good. Just dont say he can crack any filters.

But he can crack the filters! Don't be silly!

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Chucklit · 09/07/2024 00:06

We've also watched Life of Brian though I did skip through parts of it as I know the film very well. You seem opposed to that as well.
You're not able to stop your child from bypassing parental controls at this age. Trying to imagine what he's watching and deleting from his history, well, I don’t want to go there but you bloody well should. Do you forget that there's worse stuff on the internet for a teenage boy to watch than reading about horror lore? There's a whole lot of issues there that are more important than lore that's mostly detailed in the books.
But there's nothing you can do, right?

Chucklit · 08/07/2024 23:52

DD started getting into it about age 8. I read up on it and thought it was too much for her age so I kept her away from it until she was older. She's now 12 and back into it (I was reading Point Horrors back to back from the age of about 9 after devouring Goosebumps). We've got all of the FNAF books and I've read them all myself as they piqued my own interest. We both loved the film. The kids in her classes through the years have been exposed to much worse.

Funnywonder · 08/07/2024 23:40

Needmorelego · 08/07/2024 16:40

Fnaf is so 5 years ago 😂
My daughter - when age 11 - used to write complex detailed analysis reports about what actually happened that night at the pizzeria.

My son did something similar😆 At first,when he read the back story he was freaked out. But then he started to write fake newspaper reports and little investigative pieces about what might have happened. Complete with diagrams and illustrations. It really fired his imagination. He had a similar obsession with Bendy and the Ink Machine.

WhiteLily1 · 08/07/2024 22:32

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 17:58

???

DH will not let me do this - he owns these devices and being a migrant from the Balkans, he is not a helicopter parent.

If I locked his stuff up, then DH would go get the keys and unlock it.

Firstly - why would he do that? So if a child is deliberately being sneaky and sly and rude by going against the rules and boundaries set, he would do nothing about that? No consequences for the child? No boundaries?
If that’s the case then you have far far more to worry about longer term than a computer game.
Secondly, how on Earth can you me married to someone who undermines your parenting? Are you in a partnership or dictatorship? Don’t you discuss and agree parenting principles together?

BarryCantSwim · 08/07/2024 21:36

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 16:36

DS is able to crack any filters and will play it regardless unfortunately...

DS's friend's parents are really lax and won't do anything about it.

With respect - unless he is about to work for GCHQ as the youngest professional hacker, you just have rubbish filters and passwords.

If you’re not too fussed about him playing - all good. Just dont say he can crack any filters.

Beeinalily · 08/07/2024 21:35

Oh and didn't the ugly sisters in Cinderella cut their toes off so their feet would fit the glass slippers?

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 21:33

Thetroutofnocraic1 · 08/07/2024 21:16

That donkey scene used to really freak me out..

I'm not surprised XD

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Thetroutofnocraic1 · 08/07/2024 21:16

FastFood · 08/07/2024 20:45

Just remember that in Pinocchio, kids are lured to be transformed into donkeys and then the old man ends up being eaten by a whale and then regurgitated, so pizza-mascot-kids, why not?

That donkey scene used to really freak me out..

LondonFox · 08/07/2024 20:53

Poolstream · 08/07/2024 16:51

In the 70's I was reading Edgar Allen Poe, no way am I being buried. 😅

That and all kinds of war novels as part of normal reading list.
14y olds are not babies.

FastFood · 08/07/2024 20:45

Just remember that in Pinocchio, kids are lured to be transformed into donkeys and then the old man ends up being eaten by a whale and then regurgitated, so pizza-mascot-kids, why not?

disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 20:45

EmBear91 · 08/07/2024 20:31

I would personally be more disturbed by the fact that neither your son or husband seem to have much respect for you! I would want parental controls on devices & if my child disabled them, they would no longer be playing at all.

Not an option here.

DH is staunchly pro-privacy - and now that DS uses ubuntooth we can't really put any controls on it because you cannot put controls on ubuntooth.

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GhostFaen · 08/07/2024 20:36

I was 13/14/15 when I watched The Ring, Grudge, Jeepers Creepers, Psycho etc.
The film that really fucked me up was The talented Mr Ripley.

I’ve been more careful with my kids than my parents were with me (and they were fab, but liberal parents) but am open with most films.

Games however I’m very careful with (OH and I game (ESO/GW2) so it’s a big part of our lives as a family. The kids respect the rules about gun games and how long they can play in a go.

If one of mine fucked over rules and computer restrictions then they wouldn’t be using any device unless they were physically with me (and only for school work.) him being competent at getting past your restrictions isn’t the flex you think it is. It’s disgusting behaviour.
I’d hate a computer in my kitchen so thank fuck we have respect.

EmBear91 · 08/07/2024 20:31

I would personally be more disturbed by the fact that neither your son or husband seem to have much respect for you! I would want parental controls on devices & if my child disabled them, they would no longer be playing at all.

Thetroutofnocraic1 · 08/07/2024 20:29

OnAndOnAndonAgain · 08/07/2024 20:13

Give over, I'm 46 and we all watched Friday the 13, freddy, Halloween etc at that age and we aren't a generation of mass murderers

Fnaf has been out for 10 years now, there's already a generation of kids that played it who are now adults

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Agree with this. Give over. I loved crash bandicoot but also used to play grand theft auto as a teenager. And Blood and Duke Nukem on the pc which were horribly violent . I don’t beat up prostitutes and steal their money now in real life.

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disturbedfnafnamechange · 08/07/2024 20:24

Beeinalily · 08/07/2024 20:15

You know your own child, and you know if he's likely to be disturbed by the content - and it doesn't sound like he is. When I let DS start watching horror films ( he was a few years younger than he should have been) I banned a few -:but if I'm honest it's because they scared ME, not him!

He's not the type to be easily scared XD

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LanaL · 08/07/2024 20:16

It’s a game . They have a movie too . Pretty grim backstory , but it’s aimed at young teens and there isn’t anything really bad in the games . You can buy toys at Smyths ! My son is 10 and likes it .

Not as bad as GTA where characters go and pay prostitues !

Beeinalily · 08/07/2024 20:15

You know your own child, and you know if he's likely to be disturbed by the content - and it doesn't sound like he is. When I let DS start watching horror films ( he was a few years younger than he should have been) I banned a few -:but if I'm honest it's because they scared ME, not him!

OnAndOnAndonAgain · 08/07/2024 20:13

Countrygirlxo · 08/07/2024 19:52

At 13 I was playing crash bandicoot, kula world, Tekken and rayman. God help the kids of today

Give over, I'm 46 and we all watched Friday the 13, freddy, Halloween etc at that age and we aren't a generation of mass murderers

Fnaf has been out for 10 years now, there's already a generation of kids that played it who are now adults

nottatroll · 08/07/2024 20:13

Is Five Nights at Freddy's still around? My youngest son used to play this when he was about OP's son's age. He is 23 now.

Soubriquet · 08/07/2024 20:10

Devilsmommy · 08/07/2024 19:56

Try not letting him see the film version then aswell. It's pretty gory

I didn’t think it was gory at all! Apart from a couple of jump scares, even my 9 year old wasn’t bothered