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To not understand the fixation on attendance?

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Gardenschmarden99 · 08/07/2024 00:02

Or at least to the level it currently is…

New education secretary and based on her speech to the association of school leaders it seems her focus is on attendance.

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m an ex teacher with two primary age children who go to school whenever they aren’t unwell. Broadly I’m in favour of children going to school!

But I don’t think I’ve met many teachers who really think the current fixation is helpful. For those with deep seated problems, they would benefit from intervention. For those families that were unlucky enough to catch covid and a sickness bug in one school year the rather officious computer says no letters just erode the seriousness of actual attendance problems.

When children are unwell, they shouldn’t be in school even if it makes the attendance dip below 97%.

SEN children without support don’t have an attendance problem, they have a support problem (and I know this is because central government don’t fund local government well enough to pay for it but the kids can’t help that!)

I also think it would be such a crowd pleaser to allow 5 days authorised holidays at the discretion of the headteacher…. And yes, I’d also be in favour of my child’s teacher being able to go to a family wedding or see their child on sports day or (God forbid) have a day out with their spouse a few times a year.

My family live in a European country (not especially known for being ‘progressive’) where all this over focus on attendance is just not a thing. They outperform us in league tables for academic and mental health of children.

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Ticktockk · 09/07/2024 20:52

I wouldn’t mind it going the other way. We moved house months ago and the new county still haven’t found a school place for my child. I’d love to fine them for each day missed. And compensate me for not being able to work.

Pllystyrene · 09/07/2024 20:45

I've worked in schools for years and would say this is the worst year for illness I've ever had, and one of the reasons is this obsession with attendance. Sending sick children to school just spreads it around and no one has time to get better before catching the next illness. Staff included. Even in the last few montts we've had Strep A, Scarlet Fever, Covid, sickness bugs and well as things like chicken pox etc... My own children have the worst attendance they've ever had because they just keep getting sick, I'll be glad when this school year is over!

spacewitch99 · 09/07/2024 20:34

These poor attenders become poor attenders all through life and are on a mission to achieve nothing. I see it in Further and Higher Education. I have evidence. When bursaries are involved, it becomes fraud.

glammymommy · 09/07/2024 20:34

Also a teacher. Students come in when they're sick and spread germs around. Or they return too soon and can't concentrate so might as well be home getting better. It sets a problematic precedent. It's a culture here in the UK now and probably comes from the USA, it's not a good work ethic, it spreads germs around and isn't good for mental health. Staff can be put under pressure to work when sick. I don't know why the current ed sec is going on about it, but the previous ones have too, it's been a thing for the last 20 years or more and fluctuates in terms of how schools respond to dips in attendance

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 09/07/2024 19:59

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 09/07/2024 19:51

The real issue is that the vast majority of reasons why children do have poor attendance can't be fixed by threatening letters, or fines or jail threats. They just add extra stressors on the family/child and breaks down relationships and trust with the school.

It's an interesting point, however, in most cases that trust already does not exist and hence the poor attendance in first place.

Many parents just dont think highly of school, for a variety reasons. Some prefer to holiday during the year only to post Angry People in Local Newspaper style photos once they get a fine, many think they could be better teachers if they had that job (they wouldnt, but hey ho), many refuse to engage with schools when initial conversations about attendance happen, many are very defensive. I had a few students who were let to stay at home with the lightest cold, some period pain (and I dont mean severe pain/bleeding but literally, the normal period most girls experience). I am exlucing from personal statistics SEN students and kids with major mental health issues. But I count kids who mostly could have come to school but had a bit of a cold, and parents were either disengaged, or didnt take the attendance seriously because they felt self-important. For some a letter was a kick in the butt to actually get a kid to school or not get another term time holiday to Disneyland.

Meltdown247 · 09/07/2024 19:58

TheaBrandt · 08/07/2024 06:04

School showed us a graph with a direct correlation between lack of attendance and low grades.

As a Chair of Govs at a state school obsessed with attendance the argument that attendance and grades are correlated really depends on cohort. Schools are usually obsessed by splitting data into cohorts when it suits them, but not for this. The reality is that the parents life and pressures has more of a correlation on the attendance and grades.
The parents that have the time (sometimes inclination) to support their child through reading at early years and supporting homework like times tables etc will mostly do better.
You can break this cohort down further to pupil premium and other similar income type groupings. No-one wants to admit that poorer families, often with single mums doing their best to put food on the table also struggle to support their kids. Add to kids with SEN to that as a cohort split and the data is depressing.
If we helped these families more their children’s outcomes would be better.
It’s also much easier for heads to bully more well off parents who go on holiday a week early in summer, although, in the days I see, those children are rarely the issue for the lower attendance = worse outcomes.

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 09/07/2024 19:53

Hateam · 09/07/2024 19:17

Yes.

What's your point?

That maybe ebing in school is a better option out of the two, did you find it hard to figure out that you had to ask?

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 09/07/2024 19:51

The real issue is that the vast majority of reasons why children do have poor attendance can't be fixed by threatening letters, or fines or jail threats. They just add extra stressors on the family/child and breaks down relationships and trust with the school.

Trishthedish · 09/07/2024 19:49

TheaBrandt · 08/07/2024 06:04

School showed us a graph with a direct correlation between lack of attendance and low grades.

When I worked in school admin we had a pupils university offer withdrawn because of her dreadful attendance record. It does matter, especially in senior school. Teachers can not repeat lessons as the curriculum is so packed, so pupils missing school are disadvantaged.

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 09/07/2024 19:38

Kneidlach · 09/07/2024 19:27

Yes, but the first rule of interpreting data is that correlation does not equal causation.

As many have already said on this thread there are many interweaving reasons why there is correlation between attendance and achievement. But causation is a lot harder to disentangle.

Yes. In fact, I would argue that low attendance, rather than being a cause of low achievement, should be treated as a flag that signposts to the liklihood of low achievement. The attenance itself is a red herring. There is an underlying issue which leads to 1. low attendance and 2 low attainment. Potentially.

Kneidlach · 09/07/2024 19:27

TheaBrandt · 08/07/2024 06:04

School showed us a graph with a direct correlation between lack of attendance and low grades.

Yes, but the first rule of interpreting data is that correlation does not equal causation.

As many have already said on this thread there are many interweaving reasons why there is correlation between attendance and achievement. But causation is a lot harder to disentangle.

Hateam · 09/07/2024 19:17

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 09/07/2024 18:54

But sitting at home on their phones will also do f* all for kids who are disengaged, would you not say?

Yes.

What's your point?

fetchacloth · 09/07/2024 19:08

Ofsted requirement.

nicegirl73 · 09/07/2024 18:56

The whole school system relies on threats,punishments and rewards, it’s a flawed idea.
I’m from a Scandinavian country and we have none of that and none of that and we do better in education.

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 09/07/2024 18:54

Hateam · 08/07/2024 06:11

The issue there is disengagement.

Being dragged into school will not necessarily improve this.

But sitting at home on their phones will also do f* all for kids who are disengaged, would you not say?

AbraAbraCadabra · 09/07/2024 18:52

TheaBrandt · 08/07/2024 06:04

School showed us a graph with a direct correlation between lack of attendance and low grades.

Correlation does not equal causation.

And there will be a huge difference between children who have difficult home lives, with the wide range of issues that comes with, who ALSO don’t attend school, and the child with a generally stable home life, who has a few illnesses that year and/or whose parent wants to take them out for a week’s holiday, but who otherwise has good attendance.

Those stats will also be affected by SEN children.

The issue is that underfunding or withdrawal of support services for vulnerable families and SEND children, such as social services, Sure Start, CAMHS etc along with the push to save money by having more and more SEND children with higher and higher needs in mainstream schools which they struggle to cope with on less and less money, has led to these issues with poor attendance. But rather than deal with these issues the Tory government have done what they always do and blame and punish. I hope labour aren’t just going to follow suit and actually do something to tackle the underlying issues.

AhNowIGetIt · 09/07/2024 18:20

“SEN children without support don’t have an attendance problem, they have a support problem (and I know this is because central government don’t fund local government well enough to pay for it but the kids can’t help that!)”

THIS 100%

WasThatACorner · 09/07/2024 15:24

GoldenDoorHandles · 09/07/2024 15:11

There isn't one 'real world' is there?! It really depends on workplace, location, boss etc.. But unfortunately you get the flexibility you need by getting a good education and skills that give you options.

Kids need to do things that scare them, be punctual, follow rules they don't agree with at times etc... and a class of 30 cannot do something different for every child. My child has benefited hugely from school and from understanding things sometimes can't be negotiated or done his way.

But there's a limit. And if your child is disabled, ill or traumatised and no compromise or help is given that can't always be judged in the same way.

I agree with some of what you say here.

However, our education system has become more and more narrow in its focus. As schools rely on ratings to attract new parents, they focus on the areas that are being tested and other areas become neglected.

Some people will need good GCSE grades in order to do well in their chosen field. Others will excel in areas that rely more on soft skills and intuition such as customer service and caring roles.

In order to progress up the ladder they may need to go on and do further training but doing a specific training course in an area that you understand and do well is very different to drowning in many subjects that you don't. People (not just choldren) will learn when when they are motivated, feel valued and see a pathway to success. Schools don't meet these requirements for many children.

GoldenDoorHandles · 09/07/2024 15:11

There isn't one 'real world' is there?! It really depends on workplace, location, boss etc.. But unfortunately you get the flexibility you need by getting a good education and skills that give you options.

Kids need to do things that scare them, be punctual, follow rules they don't agree with at times etc... and a class of 30 cannot do something different for every child. My child has benefited hugely from school and from understanding things sometimes can't be negotiated or done his way.

But there's a limit. And if your child is disabled, ill or traumatised and no compromise or help is given that can't always be judged in the same way.

lemonmeringueno3 · 08/07/2024 17:30

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 08/07/2024 12:50

Some parents ignore the letter, and some are furious to receive it, but some respond and ask for help.

That's great, but the point at which the letter is triggered needs review. Sending the letter when the child has missed a month of school and you know they've been in hospital is NOT helpful and adds to the stress. There are ways to automate this to remove the workload but still have a human cast an eye over it - eg school's system identifies children who are below. Someone casts a quick eye over the lists. Spots that Jenny is on there, but has had meningitis. Removes Jenny. List is then sent out with auto-generated letters to everyone else.

Not hard.

Ours are triggered at 95% attendances so that we can offer help before it gets worse.

We send them to everyone to avoid any perceived stigma and judgment, and so that we don't miss a family that needs help just because we think they don't.

I don't know why parents can't just apply a bit of critical thinking - an automated letter that they can ignore if their absences are genuine, short term and unavoidable.

Instead they're outraged and triggered by them, despite teachers telling you that they prompt some families to ask for help when they wouldn't otherwise.

WasThatACorner · 08/07/2024 17:21

angelcake20 · 08/07/2024 17:08

DS (now in his 20s) only had 3 days off in his entire school career. I have not been off work sick for a single day in the six years in my current job.

Congratulations 🎊

angelcake20 · 08/07/2024 17:08

IkeaMeatballGravy · 08/07/2024 06:10

A local school recently gave a student a bike for not having a single day off for the whole of primary school, even through covid. I struggle to believe a child could go two years without having a single cough cold or raised temperature, so while other parents were abiding by the Covid rules, his parents were not.

Children cannot help being poorly, being lucky enough to not get poorly for a whole year is reward enough!

DS (now in his 20s) only had 3 days off in his entire school career. I have not been off work sick for a single day in the six years in my current job.

missmollygreen · 08/07/2024 17:04

Poolstream · 08/07/2024 06:00

Attendance and sats.

You don’t fatten a pig by keep weighing it.

No, but you also wont fatten it by skipping meals..

TellerTuesday · 08/07/2024 17:00

IkeaMeatballGravy · 08/07/2024 06:10

A local school recently gave a student a bike for not having a single day off for the whole of primary school, even through covid. I struggle to believe a child could go two years without having a single cough cold or raised temperature, so while other parents were abiding by the Covid rules, his parents were not.

Children cannot help being poorly, being lucky enough to not get poorly for a whole year is reward enough!

DD will start Year 6 in September and she hasn't had a single day off sick since starting reception. Nothing but luck, she's just very rarely poorly and if she is it always seems to fall in a school holiday.

She has had time off for two family holidays in that time though so doubt we'll be getting a bike

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 08/07/2024 16:52

WasThatACorner · 08/07/2024 16:23

I understand what you're saying but I disagree that by just showing up those kids got an education.

Obviously, there are benefits to them showing up eg safeguarding concerns can be spotted and raised, less likely to be engaging in antisocial behaviour (in school hoirs) because they're bored, socialising with their peers. This doesn't equal getting an education though.

So.... was it actually any better from an education perspective than them just not showing up?

Not saying that those kids should just be left behind, I'm asking if perhaps the needs of these kids need could be met better in other ways and if the focus on attendance is clouding that issue.

Oh, couldn't agree more. I have been banging on and on, on this thread about attendance being a symptom rather than the problem in itself. And just hoping that forcing children to go to.achiol might give them an education is a pretty low bar and only a tiny but better than just not letting them attend at all.