Right I need to get this out on Mumsnet as I feel it’s the only place I get fair opinions.
been with husband 8 years? Married 2. He’s ALWAYS been a heavy snorer to the point we can’t sleep in the same bed ( despite me asking him most days to go to a doctor or go private to see if anything can be done, or if there is a route cause) he if ignores me and carries on snoring.
it clearly has affected our relationship (hence the none sleeping together) yet he doesn’t see a problem, in fact - he complains at me for not wanting to sleep next to him, and then makes it a me problem.
anyway - we have moved into a new house in the last year and he (for context) has always been a video gamer so likes to stay up till all hours in the morning playing games downstairs, he then falls asleep and starts snoring - waking me up in the process at around 3am every single fucking morning, meaning I’m having to get out of bed - shout downstairs to GO TO BED!!!! I then can’t get back to sleep ( I have to be up early to do a full time job and the school run)
he still doesn’t see an issue here and continues to do it.
please help! I’m at my wits end, ready to walk out - also he’s 47 years old, and I am 35.