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To feel sorry for all the teachers who are about to be inundated with shite gifts

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Butterflyfluff · 07/07/2024 18:50

My Facebook feed is full of utterly shit teacher gifts - mugs, glasses, baubles, sweet jars all with ‘Greatest Teacher’ on them.

Surely the vast majority of these end up in the bin - no one needs up to 30 odd of these every year?

What’s wrong with clubbing together for vouchers that would actually get used?

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RobinsonsOrange · 07/07/2024 19:48

Exactly. They're only taxable if they are provided as a reward for performance or over £50.
Otherwise is no different to you giving your best friend £100 as a birthday present

ILoveNigelTufnel · 07/07/2024 19:46

A card made by the child or an email saying thank you from a parent is lovely. I’ve had the most gorgeous messages over the last 20 years and those are the things I remember and appreciate the most.

If you really want to give us a gift - teach your child manners, to be a nice person and for you as a parent to not slag us off on WhatsApp.

RunningThroughMyHead · 07/07/2024 19:46

I'm not really bothered what you think. You do realise your view is just an opinion, dont you? Which means, it's no more "right" than anyone else's.

I've got individual gifts rather than class vouchers because I won't be dictated to by the the same few mums who seem to think they run the show in our class. I also wanted gifts to come from my kids and not a generic, thoughtless voucher.

My kids will be writing lovely cards to put with their gifts and if they end up in charity shops, so be it.

bravefox · 07/07/2024 19:46

Iloveshoes123 · 07/07/2024 19:42

Is this really true? They are gifts, not from an employer, why would they be taxable?

Yep agreed - I think vouchers are only taxable if they are provided by an employer eg an incentive for highest sales

Sherrystrull · 07/07/2024 19:45

My classroom is stocked with toys that my children have grown out of and books I have bought.

In addition, this year I have bought all of the equipment needed for our D and T topics, two large boxes of pritt sticks, pencils, white board pens and cleaning products.

I've also purchased a bracket to fix my classroom cupboard and my own book box.

This is pretty standard as there's no money and I don't want the children to miss out.

oakleaffy · 07/07/2024 19:45

Isitovernow123 · 07/07/2024 19:38

Give them a card like this - it means so much more than a gift. This is why I love teaching.

I loved my biology teacher...He's a friend now, 30 yrs on.

Icanttakethisanymore · 07/07/2024 19:44

combinationpadlock · 07/07/2024 18:51

well, vouchers need to be declared for tax purposes, and the paperwork is long and complicated, so please avoid this.

Why are vouchers different to other gifts which have monetary value?

Jifmicroliquid · 07/07/2024 19:44

I always gratefully received gifts off children. It’s the thought and the effort that counts. But honestly, a nice note in a card made my day, far better than any gift.

Tristar15 · 07/07/2024 19:44

RatintheCat · 07/07/2024 18:59

£200?! We do a collection and get about £20 per class. This year I've made a token gift as well but honestly how is any class managing to collect £200?! We don't get that from whole school fundraising....

Very middle class area here. Vouchers will easily get to £200. School events raise thousands.

wintersgold · 07/07/2024 19:43

How tragic.

Whinge · 07/07/2024 19:43

That’s the thing. If my kids school were to say ‘we’ve run out, here’s an Amazon wish list’ I’d just buy half the contents for next day delivery.

That would be amazing. However in my experience, for every parent / carer who would be willing to help, there would be 10 others who would complain about schools asking for more money.

Iloveshoes123 · 07/07/2024 19:42

combinationpadlock · 07/07/2024 18:51

well, vouchers need to be declared for tax purposes, and the paperwork is long and complicated, so please avoid this.

Is this really true? They are gifts, not from an employer, why would they be taxable?

FragileWookiee · 07/07/2024 19:42

4 kids in primary and each class requesting a tenner each per collection,😬 I've once again declined, and the kids are making homemade cards.

My daughter is going to miss her teacher so much that she's asked to buy a few little bits, but it's personal to the teacher what my daughter has noticed over the year, ie, her favourite biscuits that are tucked away in her drawer 🤣

We've also bought potted plants in years before and one teacher has actually showed me a photo of the plant we bought growing beautifully in her garden.

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 07/07/2024 19:42

Not ours, we all contribute what we can afford and get a gift card. Last year teacher had £200- is that a shit gift? Nope.

RobinsonsOrange · 07/07/2024 19:42

@oakleaffy apologies then! Sarcasm hard to read on here!

JacksonAverysEyes · 07/07/2024 19:42

RatintheCat · 07/07/2024 18:59

£200?! We do a collection and get about £20 per class. This year I've made a token gift as well but honestly how is any class managing to collect £200?! We don't get that from whole school fundraising....

In our class, the suggested donation is £10. This happens at Christmas and the end of year! I really resent it as I think it’s too much. And I am also a teacher before anyone pounces on me saying teachers deserve it - I think it’s OTT!

CurlewKate · 07/07/2024 19:42

I always made a charity donation. Oxfam used to do a school bag voucher and I gave one on behalf of each teacher. And a letter. I think Mary's Meals do gift cards.

BG2015 · 07/07/2024 19:41

combinationpadlock · 07/07/2024 18:51

well, vouchers need to be declared for tax purposes, and the paperwork is long and complicated, so please avoid this.

I've been teaching for 28 years and never declared a voucher for tax purposes and never heard of any colleagues doing this either p.

RobinsonsOrange · 07/07/2024 19:40

@combinationpadlock very knowledgeable actually. What are your qualifications?

@Whatevershallidowithmylife Now bribery and corruption rules are another thing and some trusts will have rules around this. But there are no rules around declaring for income tax purposes

Cobbledstreets · 07/07/2024 19:40

KingscoteStaff · 07/07/2024 19:07

I am hoping for Pritt Sticks and Whiteboard pens! And tissues!

Yeah considering teachers go over and above and buy things out of their own pockets (so no it’s not must like any other job) it would seem the best gift is to either provide classroom supplies OR club together for some vouchers which will will be a nice way to reimburse them for all the money they’ve spent on your kids classroom supplies.

Maybe each school /class should have a gift list of things the class needs and ask for parents to do that instead of a best teacher mug. Then the class can send a group homemade card.

oakleaffy · 07/07/2024 19:38

RobinsonsOrange · 07/07/2024 19:34

@oakleaffy and how are they going to do that? They DON'T NEED TO

I was being sarcastic -

Isitovernow123 · 07/07/2024 19:38

Give them a card like this - it means so much more than a gift. This is why I love teaching.

To feel sorry for all the teachers who are about to be inundated with shite gifts
Lalalacrosse · 07/07/2024 19:38

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 07/07/2024 19:14

Blimey. I think if parents were aware of this they would buy these things for you, wouldn't they? Obviously before end of term so that they can be used.

It's terrible reading posts like yours and realising how things have changed so much for the worse. I would buy paper and glue sticks for you; and a cake for your morning tea break (if you get one?). Brew

That’s the thing. If my kids school were to say ‘we’ve run out, here’s an Amazon wish list’ I’d just buy half the contents for next day delivery.

but they don’t say anything and I’m not psychic!

Anyway, we bang a £15 Amazon voucher to each class teacher and TA, in a card that my kids have to write a short thank you message in.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 07/07/2024 19:37

combinationpadlock · 07/07/2024 19:31

You are not a very knowledgeable tax professional then, are you

But seriously, you are being ridiculous.

You are the one who sells all those Best Teacher mugs, aren't you Grin

Nanaof1 · 07/07/2024 19:36

combinationpadlock · 07/07/2024 18:51

well, vouchers need to be declared for tax purposes, and the paperwork is long and complicated, so please avoid this.

The Kestrel reminds me of this blog I read one day:
And that’s why you should learn to pick your battles. – The Bloggess

What teacher would not like getting this as a gift? The possibilities are endless. Though...gift cards are also nice. 😉

And that’s why you should learn to pick your battles.

This morning I had a fight with Victor about towels. I can’t tell you the details because it wasn’t interesting enough to document at the time, but it was basically me telling Victor I …

https://thebloggess.com/2011/06/21/and-thats-why-you-should-learn-to-pick-your-battles/