Rich ‘friend’ harassing me

Which bits were made up? To my mind, anyone who cannot afford 60p or so for sanitary protection should not be in charge of an animal. Maybe I prefer animals to people.

I'm not being patronising..
I've been in your situation.
Deciding if to buy a loaf of bread or tampax until pay day..
Please let me have your PayPal and let me send you the £40 then you can pay him back or buy sanitary wear.
Then tell him to fuck off.

making shit up then not happy your getting pulled up on it so leaving a snarky retort.

shows exactly what type of person you are.

Would there be anyone else you could borrow the £40 from until Friday so that you can get this arsehole off your back?

I get you, @m00rfarm . You can get a pack of 10 sanpro for 59p. I think I would have stocked up on a 2/3 packs before spending money elsewhere.

Yes sir.

You put this beautifully.

Yes you should say nothing if you can’t even be bothered to get the facts correct before commenting and passing judgement.

you are making facts up.

Yes, and people who live on the fringes, who have it rough month to month, year to year, decade to decade should never, ever, spend even a penny on anything except what the middle/upper class deems allowable. They should be able to materialize a savings account out of thin air, according to you.

Does your halo ever get tarnished? Does the pedestal you have put yourself upon ever get a crack? Do you ever get vertigo looking down upon the people not living life the way you think they should?

I can only yearn to be as perfect as some of you here. 👌

Actually, I would rather jump into a bed of 🐍 than to pretend to be as perfect as some of you pretend to be. 💔

Again? Have you actually read what he’s been stated.

when she went out her sanitary protection was covered by the wages she told this person she can’t and wouldn’t use then completely separately an unforeseen event caused her to have to use said money on a vet bill.

so yet again SHE DID NOT GO OUT DRINKING LEAVING HER NO MONEY FOR SANITARY PROTECTION.

She explained time and time again and you're too daft to understand this was an unusual situation she had not planned for, or do you struggle with putting a few letters together and understanding what they say?
So no, your opinion is sadly invalid.

Where did I tell you what to post or that you couldn't?

That's right, I did not. You spent FIVE pages berating the OP, and when you saw how many were being supportive, you changed your tune and tried to post something almost supportive, or had an attack of the guilts. Good for you, though too little, too late in my book.

So I should say nothing? I cannot see how ANYone would allow themselves insufficient funds to pay for sanitary protection to go out with a friend who is clearly not a friend. I have an opinion and it is as valid as yours. Why should people reading this post think that this is normal behaviour when it clearly is not. Subsequently, it was stated that the vet bills were unknown at the time, but (to be fair) anyone with a pet needs a contingency fund.

Once you get paid, have a look at reusable period pads. You can get a starter set for around a tenner on Amazon if you avoid the more expensive brand ones. I know it won't save you loads, but will mean they are there when you need them.

I would also agree with previous posters that he was probably hoping you would pay him back in a non-monetary way amd is now passed off. Avoid him at all costs in future. Hopefully we will get some better weather soon, so you can spend a sunny afternoon with a picnic blanket and cheap fizz with a better friend instead.

Well then, bully for you! Here is your medal,🏅; wear it proudly!

But yet, you couldn't resist doing just that. Interesting. 🙄

Why don’t you follow your own advice? I’ve replied to op after this one. But, you don’t get to decide what I post on an open forum.

Sorry your friend ended up being such an arse op. You're an awesome pet mom and your right, everyone deserves a night out with friends once in a while.

She has answered that question a dozen times!

Why don't you read the whole thread, or at least the OP's posts? Then you wouldn't have to keep kicking her while she's down. Unless you enjoy that.....

When you next get paid have a look on Amazon at period cups. You can get a pack of 2 for not very much money at all and they in pretty much infinitely reusable! They do take some time to get used to, but might be a good option for you!

Op, I volunteer for a charity that runs a food club and when people walk in and tell us they can't afford food or sanitary products before payday we give them some for free.

Are you a bit thick or you dont understand a week has 7 days, and you usually get paid on one of the five from Mon-Friday, and that it may not necessarily be the first day of that week?
If it was me my payday was 14th, I could pay back on the 14th but not on the 13th?
Jesus wept to have to explain such basuc stuff to supposed adults.

Some absolute dickheads on this thread in their fucking perfect world. God forbid someone dared have a night out and enjoyed themselves. So what if all of you perfect people wouldn't do it, that's NOT WHAT THIS POST IS ABOUT!!

Good God there are some smug gobshites on here, so busy lecturing they can’t read what the OP has v clearly stated, repeatedly.

Perhaps instead of getting your jollies scolding, you could all take a breath and read all the posts so you look less like hectoring arseholes?

@Brunchclub sadly you’ve learned the hard way about this friend but sounds like you have his number. A bit like PPs on this thread, seems he’s using this as a stick to beat you with to make himself feel better. Leave him to rot once you’ve paid him back.

I, too, hope a new Labour gov will start to fight back the crippling levels of poverty and associated stigma that grew under the tories. Not enough to be poor, you should be punished for it and miserable every second of the day too. Far too many people are in denial about how close they are to being poor themselves. I hope those thinking they would be ‘better’ at being poor never get to test their certainty.