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AIBU to expect change from a Big Issue seller

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TheBigIssues · 07/07/2024 12:35

So yesterday when out in town, and feeling the need to do something good I bought an edition of the Big Issue from a homeless woman, but asked for change.

The magazine was £4 and I paid with a £5 note. She didn't offer any change so I asked for it. She seemed a bit surprised, but quite happily handed over £1.

I mentioned this to my partner and he said it was a bit mean and unreasonable, and ultimately better to let her keep the fiver as she needs the £1 more than I do. He even said it might even be priced at £4 to encourage this behaviour.

What do you all think?

OP posts:
Lopine · 07/07/2024 14:49

Most people donate the extra £1 but £4 is still useful. And if you can only give £1 or £2, why not donate that and tell them that you would like to support but don’t need the magazine.

DinnaeFashYersel · 07/07/2024 14:45

Most people leave the change as an additional donation.

yellowsmileyface · 07/07/2024 14:39

Iffx · 07/07/2024 14:33

Doing good things often gets you a smack in the face. Hence the saying “no good deed goes unpunished”. I wouldn’t bother next time.

That's a bit dramatic. The woman happily handed over the change, she just didn't immediately offer it. No one was figuratively smacked in the face.

Iffx · 07/07/2024 14:33

Doing good things often gets you a smack in the face. Hence the saying “no good deed goes unpunished”. I wouldn’t bother next time.

yellowsmileyface · 07/07/2024 14:29

Did you honestly not feel a bit embarrassed asking a homeless woman for change?

Queenofswords88 · 07/07/2024 12:41

I think it’s fine tbh, you didn’t have to buy a Big Issue at all.

sprigatito · 07/07/2024 12:37

Most people do just let them keep the change tbh. I think it was a bit graceless to ask for the £1.