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Unauthorized dental work

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dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:11

Ds(almost 5 and ND) broke a back molar and had a SS crown put on. While the dentist had him in the back(we were not allowed to be with him) she put an additional 3 fucking crowns on without our permission. I didn't notice this until we got home, as when I saw ds after the work was done he was in a lot of pain so I was more concerned with comforting him than inspecting the work the dentist did. I did check his mouth once we got home and settled and I was furious. Gums were a bloody mess. 3 unapproved crowns(I stayed in the waiting room the entire time, she had every opportunity to come tell me if he needed additional crowns. She had specifically said beforehand he wouldnt need anything else done, as the other teeth looked great) I cleaned his teeth with wet gauze the next few days, and as the goop the dentist put on his gums cleared away, I noticed 3 out of 4 crowns have gum recession. The broken tooth is the worst, with the gum on the inside almost completely receded. I have not called the dentist, as I'm not sure if I should contact a lawyer first before talking to them. Everything I've read says that he will need a gum graft, which is a horror show in itself to think of putting him through that. I'm just at a loss that a dentist can just "decide" to do unauthorized work on your child. I do not want her to even be in the same room as my child, let alone to try to fix what she's done. I am waiting on a call back from the local(different)dentist to have him looked at to see what her opinion is.
Yabu-call the dentist that did the work
Yanbu-call the lawyer

OP posts:
MultiplaLight · 07/07/2024 12:54

Why not talk to the dentist instead of a load of random MNers?

JawJaw · 07/07/2024 12:53

OP which country are you in? you keep ignoring this question and it’s really relevant if you want helpful responses.

J0S · 07/07/2024 12:53

RantyMcRanterton · 07/07/2024 12:42

This is in America/not UK?

I’m guessing so as the Op mentions a bill for the work done on her ND child in hospital.

It might be helpful to know that the Op is not talking about the crowns that are put on adult teeth. She means hall crowns, which are used on baby molars ( back teeth ) as they are less invasive than doing traditional fillings.

The Op says SS ( stainless steel ) crowns in her first post but some people might have missed that.

They don’t cause any pain so they are good for children with dental anxiety or other issues.

So the GA was probably because the child can’t coperate with treatment, not because it was painful like an extraction of adult teeth.

dislaimer - I’m not a dentist but hopefully I’ve explained that correctly.

mummyh2016 · 07/07/2024 12:53

You've been asked a few times if you're in the UK, and if not was it private treatment, is there a reason you're not replying to these questions? People can't give appropriate advice without the full story.

guineverehadgreeneyes · 07/07/2024 12:50

dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:47

I don't want a payout, I want my child to not have to have gum grafts at the age of 4. If I'm truly honest I'm furious and want her to be held accountable for this. My dm told me not to have it done, but I didn't listen. I wanted to make sure he had no problems in the future and now here he is with more problems than he started with.

It would be helpful if you clarified which country you are in, otherwise you are going to get a lot of irrelevant advice based on the assumption the dental work was carried out in a UK NHS children's hospital.

Lollygaggle · 07/07/2024 12:50

dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:47

I don't want a payout, I want my child to not have to have gum grafts at the age of 4. If I'm truly honest I'm furious and want her to be held accountable for this. My dm told me not to have it done, but I didn't listen. I wanted to make sure he had no problems in the future and now here he is with more problems than he started with.

Gums grow naturally in a child of this age , as teeth and jaws grow. There is no circumstance in which a child of this age would need gum grafts.

Even if they had had an accident , which happens often, which tore a lot of gum off front tooth , it will , in a child , grow back.

Because of the way stainless steel crowns are fitted it may look a mess immediately afterwards but will do no long term damage.

FiveTreeHill · 07/07/2024 12:49

If a child is having a GA for dental work it's normal to do an exam under anaesthesia and do all the work needed, this is to prevent repeat GAS. I would be surprised if any community/peadiatric dentist did not consent for work as needed because if a child needs an anaesthetic for as simple a procedure as a halls crown then you would not be able to do a thorough exam before they were asleep, and also chances are they would need further GAs for every procedure.

There's no such thing as gum recession in a 4yo. He will not need grafts, he is still growing.

dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:47

Ghostgirl77 · 07/07/2024 12:34

What are you hoping to gain by instructing a solicitor?

If you’re after money I doubt you’ll get any sort of a big payout once the fees are covered, and that’s IF they are found to be negligent.

If you’re after improving care then I would suggest speaking to PALS at the hospital in the first instance. They can clarify exactly what treatment was done and why, and you can raise your concerns to the team and see what their response is.

I don't want a payout, I want my child to not have to have gum grafts at the age of 4. If I'm truly honest I'm furious and want her to be held accountable for this. My dm told me not to have it done, but I didn't listen. I wanted to make sure he had no problems in the future and now here he is with more problems than he started with.

OP posts:
Lollygaggle · 07/07/2024 12:46

If your child needed a general anaesthetic for the stainless steel crown, the normal practice in the U.K. is to warn you that more work may be needed once the child is under anaesthetic as it’s often only then you can get a good look around.

It is gold standard to get treatment done of any teeth, even if they look just a bit dubious, done in one general anaesthetic session. You would not schedule a second just to discuss treatment. Hence the treatment plan normally warns more work may have to be done.

Unfortunately that often means a lot more treatment and often extractions because in order to see decay in baby teeth you need good vision and x rays which are often not possible in children of this age when they are awake and particularly if they are nd.

You do not do gum grafts on a child of this age and stainless steel crowns are pre made and will come out when baby teeth come out and are the gold standard for treatment of decay in baby teeth. They cannot cause damage but because they are pre-made you may see tooth underneath that makes it look like gum recession.

This sounds like standard practice for children who are having a general anaesthetic.

guineverehadgreeneyes · 07/07/2024 12:46

"Thank you. Yes I signed the paperwork for the single crown nothing else. It shows clearly on the itemized preemptive bill I received the week before that it is for one crown only."

If OP was billed for the child's treatment, then this work was not done in the UK on the NHS, as there would have been no charge at the point of care.

So either the OP is not in the UK, or the work was done in a private hospital. Either situation - no point suggesting a complaint to PALS which is a NHS parient liaison service.

RantyMcRanterton · 07/07/2024 12:42

This is in America/not UK?

dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:40

LeroyJenkinssss · 07/07/2024 12:29

Guys pack it in with the judgement of her child’s teeth. Problematic oral hygiene is pretty common in ND children, which is due to a number of possible reasons: limited types of food due to aversions, fear of teeth brushing, medications to name but a few. The strategies/routines we have for our NT children may not be appropriate in ND children and I’m sure it’s not through parental laziness, otherwise why would she post.

@dragonmumof2 did you sign a consent form? If so, did it specify the specific tooth or include a caveat like +/- Proceed? Or additional procedures as necessary? It’s pretty common that something like that is added, although should be mentioned. It would depend on their consenting procedure. Was it done at a hospital?

Thank you. Yes I signed the paperwork for the single crown nothing else. It shows clearly on the itemized preemptive bill I received the week before that it is for one crown only. She spoke to me right before the procedure and reiterated that she's doing one crown. Spoke to me after the procedure as well before I saw ds and never said a thing about additional crowns. It was at at a children's hospital.

OP posts:
User364837 · 07/07/2024 12:36

I think it would be worth a complaint so she can improve practice for future.
I’d be surprised if the consent form you presumably signed didn’t have some sort of caveat included for extra work needing doing

PerfectTravelTote · 07/07/2024 12:36

I'm assuming that you have no dental training. If that is the case, you cannot possibly know by looking whether the work was required, if it was done properly, if there is an issue with the gums and if a graft is required.

Get a proper second opinion. You will work yourself into a state by Googling.

Ghostgirl77 · 07/07/2024 12:34

What are you hoping to gain by instructing a solicitor?

If you’re after money I doubt you’ll get any sort of a big payout once the fees are covered, and that’s IF they are found to be negligent.

If you’re after improving care then I would suggest speaking to PALS at the hospital in the first instance. They can clarify exactly what treatment was done and why, and you can raise your concerns to the team and see what their response is.

TomWambsgansSwans · 07/07/2024 12:32

Are you in the UK? Every dentist I've ever had (NHS, Bupa and independent) has explained what they are doing beforehand and how much it will cost.

Four crowns even on adults is major - I need some dentistry and have to have it on both sides but the treatment is being split because they won't numb both sides.

Did she decide to just go ahead rather than subject him to two rounds of anaesthesia? Did you sign a consent form?

LeroyJenkinssss · 07/07/2024 12:29

Guys pack it in with the judgement of her child’s teeth. Problematic oral hygiene is pretty common in ND children, which is due to a number of possible reasons: limited types of food due to aversions, fear of teeth brushing, medications to name but a few. The strategies/routines we have for our NT children may not be appropriate in ND children and I’m sure it’s not through parental laziness, otherwise why would she post.

@dragonmumof2 did you sign a consent form? If so, did it specify the specific tooth or include a caveat like +/- Proceed? Or additional procedures as necessary? It’s pretty common that something like that is added, although should be mentioned. It would depend on their consenting procedure. Was it done at a hospital?

ClockBiscuit · 07/07/2024 12:28

Did you sign something before the treatment?

dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:26

Anotherparkingthread · 07/07/2024 12:21

m receession is associated with poor oral hygiene and will not be the result of crowns just being fitted. Meaning the gums were recessed before. If the molar broke it probably had a very large cavity.

She may have realised the other teeth were also in a state and decided to do the work there and then so as not to risk anaesthetic twice. Which is very sensible.

Why are your child's teeth in this state in the first place?

His gums were perfect before the crowns so no. And his teeth were fine except for the broken molar. I had discussed this all with her prior to the procedure starting.

OP posts:
dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:24

Knittedfairies2 · 07/07/2024 12:21

I thought that a crown needed a mould making at a previous appointment, (unless it's different for first teeth), so you would have been aware that was happening.

Not the ss crowns. They do them on children as the tooth will fall out anyway so they don't worry about how they look.

OP posts:
Leafygreen84 · 07/07/2024 12:24

Why a lawyer 🙄
If he needed the work he needed it. Speak to the dentist who was almost certainly acting in your child’s best interests. YABU.

dragonmumof2 · 07/07/2024 12:22

J0S · 07/07/2024 12:16

Was this in a general dental practice, or the community dental service or an emergency clinic at a dental hospital ?

Children's hospital

OP posts:
Knittedfairies2 · 07/07/2024 12:21

I thought that a crown needed a mould making at a previous appointment, (unless it's different for first teeth), so you would have been aware that was happening.

Anotherparkingthread · 07/07/2024 12:21

m receession is associated with poor oral hygiene and will not be the result of crowns just being fitted. Meaning the gums were recessed before. If the molar broke it probably had a very large cavity.

She may have realised the other teeth were also in a state and decided to do the work there and then so as not to risk anaesthetic twice. Which is very sensible.

Why are your child's teeth in this state in the first place?

LoveToLaugh52 · 07/07/2024 12:18

The dentist should NOT have done work without parental consent. Doesn't matter if NHS or private. Speak to a lawyer, definitely unethical at the very least. Don't go back to this dentist.

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