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How often do you eat takeaways?

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Freyaaaa · 07/07/2024 00:12

I work in a pretty stressful job and often have to work overtime. Lately, I've noticed that I'm eating 4-5 takeaways a week and sticking to simple foods like sandwiches when I'm at home.

While I haven't put on weight yet (I'm still in my mid-20s). Using "Just Eat" is so easy and convenient, but I'm becoming increasingly concerned about my health.

I came to this realisation when the takeaway driver said the staff at the shop were surprised when they found out I was a female in my 20's apparently they thought I'd be a bloke in my 40's.

Now I'm too ashamed to order from them again. 😭😂

How often do you eat takeaways & how do you make time to prepare your own food?

OP posts:
Frenchie91 · 07/07/2024 07:01

There are these absolute pigs on tik tok who eat nothing but shitloads of processed crap for every single meal (it’s what gives them views) - someone kept a tally of how much one of them spent on takeaways for herself in June and it was about £550 in McDonald’s, KFC, Dominoes, chinese etc.
it’s like a Black Mirror episode - they are obsessed with gaining followers who then basically pay for them to gorge themselves to an early death.
it made me feel much better about my diet, let me tell you. We have one takeaway a month - mostly financial but also because for the price it feels like it’s not good value for money anymore

YellowDots · 07/07/2024 06:57

Bjorkdidit · 07/07/2024 06:04

There's some people with limited imaginations on here. Takeaways are a lot more than pizzas, burgers and kebabs. It could be absolutely anything and often perfectly healthy, good quality food.

That depends where you live. My family own a Chinese and fish and chip shop and that traditional takeaway food has the monopoly. Macdonalds, KFC, pizza, burgers, etc.

The healthiest food you can get round here for a takeaway is a chicken kebab.

ClockBiscuit · 07/07/2024 06:53

imgonnalooseit · 07/07/2024 05:17

I'm so shocked at how many people are saying once a month I genuinely thought it was a weekly thing. No hate or that just what I thought

I've never had a takeaway once a week during any part of my life. Probably once every three months is average.

verdantverdure · 07/07/2024 06:42

We almost never have takeaway.

Annually, possibly.

But I work from home a lot so I can use the time I would've been on a commute to cook.

The cost of takeaway several times a week would kill us. There are five of us.

I batch cook a bit so cook once, eat twice. Usually two nights running. So chilli and rice one night, chilli and baked potato the next. Or sometimes I cook curry the next night and it's chilli again after curry night, followed by curry night again. Or Spag Bol, or casserole or anything else we're happy to eat twice

On boiling hot days I've done bought in quiche with baked potato and salad,

When it's all going on it can be one metre and fruit bowl.

We all have to find our way.

If learning to book is the issue those meal boxes can teach you a repertoire.

Nutrition and exercise are important dude but you can work it out in phases.

And sandwiches aren't inherently bad. .

ThePoshUns · 07/07/2024 06:26

A few times a year. I would never use just eat or similar, the height of laziness imo.

Willmafrockfit · 07/07/2024 06:20

very rarely.
not even once a month.
perhaps twice a year fish and chips

RampantIvy · 07/07/2024 06:18

Bjorkdidit · 07/07/2024 06:04

There's some people with limited imaginations on here. Takeaways are a lot more than pizzas, burgers and kebabs. It could be absolutely anything and often perfectly healthy, good quality food.

I think it depends where you live. We don't live near a city with the choices you describe. Takeaways around here are of the pizza, curry, Chinese or kebab type.

RedRobyn2021 · 07/07/2024 06:12

Almost never, they don't deliver here.

In my early 20s maybe once a fortnight, I didn't take good care of myself then with eating tbh

You're right op you can do better

Bjorkdidit · 07/07/2024 06:04

There's some people with limited imaginations on here. Takeaways are a lot more than pizzas, burgers and kebabs. It could be absolutely anything and often perfectly healthy, good quality food.

RampantIvy · 07/07/2024 06:03

We're a bit older and know how to cook better food than takeaways.

I think that pretty much describes us. Plus, I work part time and have the time and energy to cook from scratch. We don't have many places that will deliver as we live in a village. On the rare occasion we do get food delivered we have to microwave it to reheat it.

imgonnalooseit · 07/07/2024 05:55

Tarquina · 07/07/2024 05:53

Never. I have not had a takeaway for over five years, since I took complete control of my nutritional health. I stopped eating anything made of wheat and that alone rules out 99.9% of takeaway or delivered food

Do you go out to eat at restaurants? X

Tarquina · 07/07/2024 05:53

Never. I have not had a takeaway for over five years, since I took complete control of my nutritional health. I stopped eating anything made of wheat and that alone rules out 99.9% of takeaway or delivered food

Bjorkdidit · 07/07/2024 05:51

To reduce the number of takeaways you have, you need to find practical alternatives that work for you.

Could you batch cook at the weekend then either just heat up the leftovers (depending on the dish, will be fine for 2/3 days so not a solution for the whole week) or freeze in portions so over time you build up a range of home made ready meals? Either of those could be something to aim for but it doesn't need to be 'all or nothing' nor a sudden change from mostly takeaways to all home prepared food.

A slow cooker could also work if you're able to prepare food in the morning (or do it in the evening, put the bowl in the fridge and set it off before you go out in the morning, or google 'dump bags' where you prep and freeze the ingredients ready to just dump in the slow cooker in the morning).

I'm not sure the meal delivery kits (Hello Fresh, Gousto etc) will work for you because it's still cooking, often quite time consuming and involved, it's just that they send you the ingredients for the recipe, so you don't need to shop or keep a store cupboard of basics, herbs and spices etc.

You'll save money and not need to cook if you buy in healthy ready meals, either from Cook, M&S or other supermarkets. M&S do a really nice range of high protein ones - they're quite a lot for a ready meal at £5.50 but obviously far cheaper than a takeaway. Plus they do a nice stir fry kit for £8 for two where you choose the protein, noodles, veg and sauce or ramen broth so this would do you two meals. I also like the meal deal offers - There's the Gastropub one and they often do a roast that will do 2/3 portions and you get the meat, potatoes and veg all prepared so easy to cook and you then have leftovers to heat up for the next day or two. You could also have something like fresh pasta, ready made sauce and a prepared salad. Also keep a good frozen pizza in the freezer as even the fancy ones are far cheaper than takeaways. If I was only feeding myself and money was no object, that's how I would eat.

Can you get to an M&S once or twice a week? Or get an Ocado delivery? You just need to be mindful of dates if you buy things that don't freeze.

imgonnalooseit · 07/07/2024 05:17

I'm so shocked at how many people are saying once a month I genuinely thought it was a weekly thing. No hate or that just what I thought

godmum56 · 07/07/2024 04:30

Whatjemimadid · 07/07/2024 02:12

About once a month. I understand that your stressed but diet can exacerbate that. I want ti help not judge because I understand and I've been there.

Pasta sauce can be quick especially with a good quality passata like Mutti polpa.

Crush a clove of garlic in olive oil in the pan for a minute.aff the passata. A drop of vinegar and the trendiest pinch of sugar if you have it. Simmer 5-10 mins and add to tortellini or any pasta with a protein and you're done. Can be quicker than waiting for the takeaway.

Jacket potato in the microwave plus a grilled protein plus microwaved frozen peas. V quick. Frozen is fresher than you think.

Get frozen chopped onion and veg and turn it into a decent veg soup or curry in a rush. No chopping.

Make curry soup or chilli in a batch and freeze some.

Do this on busy days and use fresh when you can. You get in the routine after a while

Many supermarkets do pre chopped veg which can make cooking so quick. Add to a soup or curry or boil to add with grilled protein and new potatoes or jacket or a wrap or rice or ready rice or frozen wedges or whatever.

Sorry please don't think I'm preachy.

Edited

I saw a good tip on Tv the other day. adding a pinch of bicarb to a tomato sauce makes it less acid without adding sugar. Its from a book called Cooking With Nonna by Giuseppe Federici. I don't know what the book is like because its all plant based recipes which don't suit my digestion.

Daffyyellow · 07/07/2024 04:24

Once a month usually, twice if we’re splurging. Rural living and price being the most restrictive factors.

godmum56 · 07/07/2024 04:16

almost never. Nobody delivers round here.

AppleCream · 07/07/2024 03:49

Less often than once a month. Maybe once every 6 weeks or so.

Seaitoverthere · 07/07/2024 03:41

Once or twice a month. I struggle to cook currently soo am using Cook food ready meals a fair bit as they are pretty decent in the scheme of things.

PoopingAllTheWay · 07/07/2024 03:32

Is there a ‘Cook’ near you?

Look into it, you can get pre made healthy home made food

You just have to warm it through (follow instructions)

RogueFemale · 07/07/2024 03:25

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I bought one recently on impulse as it was on sale, Spanish grains. I stir fried red pepper, courgette and spring onion then added the grains plus a few prawns and bits of leftover chicken. A real winner and very very quick to make.
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Tristar15 · 07/07/2024 03:14

Once every couple of months. Could afford more but it’s just not a habit I have.
I use Simply Cook quite a lot, don’t have to worry about food waste the same way as other food subscriptions. I always choose things that can freeze or make enough for 2 and be put in the fridge for the next day.

imgonnalooseit · 07/07/2024 02:47

imgonnalooseit · 07/07/2024 02:44

I have a takeaway at least once a week something I look forward too and no dishes
(Sometimes)😂 life's to short eat that food it's all about balance I've seen me have 2 takeaways in 1 day after being out the night before but 2 days later I'm back at gym class / slimming world. Don't worry to much if you are meal prep is maybe a good idea

Also meant to add I take the day I'm off which happens to be a Monday and use that as meal prep so batch cook anything I can use for lunch especially or teas lasange spag Bol hunters chicken (my go to right now) I normally do 3 meals and that will do my lunches and teas if I cba that night. Pasta takes 10 minutes to boil I just chuck it in microwave some might disagree but I've always been fine

imgonnalooseit · 07/07/2024 02:44

I have a takeaway at least once a week something I look forward too and no dishes
(Sometimes)😂 life's to short eat that food it's all about balance I've seen me have 2 takeaways in 1 day after being out the night before but 2 days later I'm back at gym class / slimming world. Don't worry to much if you are meal prep is maybe a good idea

EachandEveryone · 07/07/2024 02:41

I’m having chemo so it’s just so much easier and I know it’s wrong. Sometimes I just feel like I want food there and then. I’m very fortunate to live in London so I can’t say the quality is rubbish because the choice of food is immense. Today at 230 am I’m already thinking I might order Sunday lunch. You see I wouldn’t cook to types of beef at home, I’m on my own so it works out for me. This month I have ordered loads of Cook meals for the freezer so I’m going to see how that goes.