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Dogs on tables in Cafes !!

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Bride2Be25 · 06/07/2024 20:30

I was in a cafe today (part of a very well known chain) and not only saw several dogs sitting up on the chairs & sofas but one delightful family had their dog up on the table!!! Staff didn’t been bat an eyelid.

I am honestly flabbergasted that people think this is acceptable. Not only do we have to put up with dogs barking at each other in restaurants and cafes & being covered in dog hair but we now risk eating our food off tables that have had an animal walking all over.

No point to this thread really but just giving people a heads up to be extremely mindful of where you eat - I will be avoiding any food establishments that allow dogs from now on and encourage others to do the same.

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Mamtorr · 07/07/2024 23:02

Mamtorr · 07/07/2024 23:02

Went to a cage yesterday and the family next to us changed their babies pooey nappy on the table and left the nappy on the table when they were asked to leave

Cafe not cage Hmm

Mamtorr · 07/07/2024 23:02

Went to a cage yesterday and the family next to us changed their babies pooey nappy on the table and left the nappy on the table when they were asked to leave

BarryCantSwim · 07/07/2024 20:44

I’m a dog lover although don’t have one.

I’m finding the trend of bringing dogs everywhere v odd. Yes they shouldn’t be on the table but more broadly I see so many in busy shops being weaved through crowds, in noisy restaurants squeezing into tiny spaces to sit, and expected to just sit there.

Awful for them and I judge the owners.

Tutorpuzzle · 07/07/2024 20:31

@HighHeelsOnCobblestones of course there should be dog free places. That’s not what I’m saying.

I’m just a bit confused by dog haters getting grumpy about dogs being in dog-friendly cafes. (And I repeat, I have never seen a dog on a table.)

HighHeelsOnCobblestones · 07/07/2024 20:27

Tutorpuzzle · 07/07/2024 19:41

@Anonym00se you are absolutely right, dog unfriendly places are very few and far between because we dog lovers are more sociable, spend more money and don’t leave grumpy reviews on Trip Advisor!

You all need to get a dog and let a little joy into your hygienic, anti-septic lives!

I only go to dog-friendly places and I have NEVER seen a dog on a table..

Last time DS2 was in a room with a dog, he ended up wheezing, blue and needing an ambulance for severe breathing difficulties.

Dog free places mean my son gets to enjoy life without risking death by asthma attack. Nothing grumpy, unsociable and joyless about such places for us. Quite the opposite, in fact.

cherry2727 · 07/07/2024 20:25

I'd rather unknowingly sit in a baby's paddle of urine than a dog's! I really don't understand the obsession with dogs being in eateries ! Why? Just why?

henlake7 · 07/07/2024 20:19

sounds like a very weird cafe. The only dog I've ever seen on a table is my own, at home (and he was a chihuahua....I have no idea how he managed it!).

I did once see somebody put their baby on a supermarket conveyor belt with a wet nappy.......if we are talking gross things people do with non verbal family members.

Tutorpuzzle · 07/07/2024 20:15

@FoundNecklace oh I quite like humans too, but only if they’ve got a dog with them!

FoundNecklace · 07/07/2024 20:11

Tutorpuzzle · 07/07/2024 19:41

@Anonym00se you are absolutely right, dog unfriendly places are very few and far between because we dog lovers are more sociable, spend more money and don’t leave grumpy reviews on Trip Advisor!

You all need to get a dog and let a little joy into your hygienic, anti-septic lives!

I only go to dog-friendly places and I have NEVER seen a dog on a table..

Dog-lovers are more sociable? I am not sure about the social skills of people who can’t leave the house without an animal in tow! I love going out. Just with humans ;-)

Tutorpuzzle · 07/07/2024 19:51

Anonym00se · 07/07/2024 19:45

No thank you. After being attacked, having my entire scalp ripped off and surgically reattached as a child, I’m understandably somewhat wary of them.

Yes, obviously. But that’s a little more extreme than a dog drinking a cappuccino at the table…

Ylvamoon · 07/07/2024 19:48

@Tutorpuzzle I agree, if you can't beat us dog lovers, you clearly need to join join us with acquiring a pooch or 2....

Anonym00se · 07/07/2024 19:45

Tutorpuzzle · 07/07/2024 19:41

@Anonym00se you are absolutely right, dog unfriendly places are very few and far between because we dog lovers are more sociable, spend more money and don’t leave grumpy reviews on Trip Advisor!

You all need to get a dog and let a little joy into your hygienic, anti-septic lives!

I only go to dog-friendly places and I have NEVER seen a dog on a table..

No thank you. After being attacked, having my entire scalp ripped off and surgically reattached as a child, I’m understandably somewhat wary of them.

Tutorpuzzle · 07/07/2024 19:41

@Anonym00se you are absolutely right, dog unfriendly places are very few and far between because we dog lovers are more sociable, spend more money and don’t leave grumpy reviews on Trip Advisor!

You all need to get a dog and let a little joy into your hygienic, anti-septic lives!

I only go to dog-friendly places and I have NEVER seen a dog on a table..

Anonym00se · 07/07/2024 19:26

I read “Dogs on tablets in cafes”. Crikey, if it’s not bad enough that parents are giving iPads to toddlers to keep them quiet, now the dogs are all screen addicts too!

I try and avoid dog friendly places but unfortunately dog-free places are few and far between these days where I live. Dogs are everywhere, cafes, pubs, even at the supermarket. It’s really weird.

LaurieFairyCake · 07/07/2024 19:18

foundnecklace

Yeah I'd notice if there was a dog on the table or a chair Hmm because that's gross

I don't assume everyone loves dogs

FluffletheMeow · 07/07/2024 19:17

DancefloorAcrobatics · 07/07/2024 17:41

... don't tell anyone, but they have moved on from cafes ...

😆😆

outdamnedspots · 07/07/2024 19:17

@FoundNecklace , that is truly disgusting.

FoundNecklace · 07/07/2024 19:09

outdamnedspots · 07/07/2024 18:18

Disgusting.

I hate seeing dogs on train seats too. 🤢

There is a poster here who lets her dog sit on train tables because he likes the view 🙄 She claims to wipe up after, as if that makes it all ok.

FoundNecklace · 07/07/2024 19:08

RedVanYellowVan · 07/07/2024 18:21

I don't go to cafes or restaurants which allow dogs inside. Neither do I stay in holiday accommodation which allows dogs. Why would I pay to go somewhere dirty?

There is a cafe in my town which is particularly dog friendly. I walk past their large windows and see dogs on the sofas and chairs. The other week there was a smallish dog, back legs on the chair, front legs on the table, drinking or eating out of a bowl. Disgusting, I don't know how they pass even a basic hygiene inspection.

Exactly.

I immediately rule out dog-friendly hotels. I want cleanliness on my holidays!

FoundNecklace · 07/07/2024 19:07

LaurieFairyCake · 07/07/2024 18:54

Lol never seen this and have a pile of dogs I take out to dog friendly places all the time

I don't even see them on the chairs, never mind the table !

I don’t think you notice it because you like dogs. It’s not on your radar. Like you probably think ‘everyone’ likes your dogs, because dog-lovers will stop and talk to you. You don’t notice the people who really hate being around your hordes of pets. It won’t register.

FoundNecklace · 07/07/2024 19:05

I avoid dog-friendly places if I can. Cafe Nero is disgusting for it. Dogs sitting on the sofas. I haven’t seen one on a table yet but believe it can happen.

Many places are dog-friendly now. The pandemic made people introverted, turn to dogs rather than people for comfort and now they can’t leave their house without their furry friends. You know the kind, ‘I prefer dogs to humans’ and inane comparisons of kids to dogs.

There is not much that hygienic folk can do these days. I have also seen dogs barking and running round pubs and one crashed into a table with jugs of water once.

I leave scathing reviews on Tripadvisor and Google. Eg when I see catering staff pat the head of a dog with its paws on the servery counter.

It really puts me off an establishment. I hope we have reached peak dog and humans can eat and drink in peace one day again. For now we just have to tolerate selfish dog-owners that give the good ones a bad name.

LaurieFairyCake · 07/07/2024 18:54

Lol never seen this and have a pile of dogs I take out to dog friendly places all the time

I don't even see them on the chairs, never mind the table !

fungipie · 07/07/2024 18:43

In accommodation, our dog sleeps in her own basket, just washed, placed on large clean towel, in the lounge. And will not go upstairs or in bedrooms. We clean paws with clean towel.

I like children too, it is not either or for me- but children who play outside are no cleaner than my dog, and often don't take shoes off (well mine did, but ...)

fungipie · 07/07/2024 18:37

ItsTheGAGGGGGGGG · 07/07/2024 16:32

So just go to places which don't allow dogs-

That’s what the poster said they’ll do and you still felt the need to write out a paragraph to respond to them. Where did I say I have such a hatred and distrust towards dogs? I just don’t want to eat my food with a dog on the floor next to me. Massive difference👍

Which is why we always ask for a corner away - and ALWAYS ask people at next table/s if they mind. People always say that they don't, and always congratulate us on our well behaved our dog is. If someone said they did mind, we would move, and sit in a side room or outside, or cancel and leave.

'Why would I pay to go somewhere dirty? ' - do you go where there are ramblers, farmers, children who have played football or in the park? We always have a towel for our dog's paws and clean them before we go in. And our dog (not a doggie, not an Erzatz child- a dog) is any more dirty than the above.

RedVanYellowVan · 07/07/2024 18:21

I don't go to cafes or restaurants which allow dogs inside. Neither do I stay in holiday accommodation which allows dogs. Why would I pay to go somewhere dirty?

There is a cafe in my town which is particularly dog friendly. I walk past their large windows and see dogs on the sofas and chairs. The other week there was a smallish dog, back legs on the chair, front legs on the table, drinking or eating out of a bowl. Disgusting, I don't know how they pass even a basic hygiene inspection.

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