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Why does his Google history show he was at an industrial estate at night

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Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:00

Last night I was on Dh’s phone-not snooping…initially at least. I was turning lullaby music off that he and our dc had fallen asleep to.
It showed the travel history of where he’d been/been driving etc. I just thought it was quite interesting at first, don’t think I have it on my phone or if I do, no idea how to access it! I started looking and it was all pretty boring-travel to work, certain shops, cafes etc, a friends house. One entry from last Sunday shows him going out in the evening driving for 30 minutes, it says here no location/location not shown. Then from around 10.30-11.30 pm, it shows a location and when I looked at it, it’s an industrial estate. This is really strange isn’t it?! Making me so paranoid, what would you make of it?

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Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:13

@keylimedog Do you mean women are walking around there or taken there?

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Wtafdidido · 06/07/2024 17:12

Prostitutes

RomanRoysSearchHistory · 06/07/2024 17:12

I'd install.a dash cam asap and see if there's any resistance...

ProjectsGalore · 06/07/2024 17:12

So he thought he fancied taking in the ambience of an industrial estate and savouring a dirty burger for an hour?

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:12

@MounjaroUser Would a drug deal
take an hour? He’s not into drugs aside from occasionally smoking weed, is usually only from a friend so this would seem weird

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keylimedog · 06/07/2024 17:11

Industrial estates are prime prostitution spots tbh!

Slightly odd you didn't know where he was going (even with the whole alternating bedtimes) at that time at night.

SilenceInside · 06/07/2024 17:11

Any chance that a food van might park up there in the evening?

Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:10

Yes but you might have a clearer understanding from visiting at the same time he did. Maybe not, but it’s a start.

mnahmnah · 06/07/2024 17:10

Well industrial estates are known for dogging activity late at night, so that was my first thought. Sorry. Hope it’s innocent!

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:10

@AhBiscuits So to take a prostitute there?

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MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:10

Obviously I don't know you or your husband, OP, so have no idea what kind of guy he is, but these are the things I might suspect in general:

Prostitutes
Dogging
Drug deals
Sex with random men

Does any of that match his personality type and history?

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:09

I know it in the daytime, just a large industrial estate with offices, buildings, small factories etc

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Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:09

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:08

@Sunnydiary Please don’t find it funny, I have a young child and am obviously anxious about it

Sorry, just couldn’t help laughing at the Furries suggestion.

I hope you get to put your mind at rest.

AhBiscuits · 06/07/2024 17:09

My first thought was dogging or a prostitute. It's always sex stuff with men, they're gross.

Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:08

I would drive over myself next time he falls asleep with DC and check it out.

Don’t get out of car obviously…

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:08

@Sunnydiary Please don’t find it funny, I have a young child and am obviously anxious about it

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RandomUser82 · 06/07/2024 17:07

Dogging?

MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:07

I would have to drive there myself and see what's there.

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:07

I don’t want to mention it yet as I want to try to keep checking it somehow to see if anything else comes up

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Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:06

Well you know him better than us OP.

What is it likely to be? Drugs/gambling/women/men/
Furries 😂

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:06

No drive thru there and no other entries for this place, just really weird

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Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:06

@RomanRoysSearchHistory Hookers as in you’d take a hooker there? Drugs as in to do drugs there or meet someone?

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MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:05

Where did you think he was at that time? Can you go back and look at your messages from that day?

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:05

@AstonMartha Furries?

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Crinklycrisp · 06/07/2024 17:04

Where did you think he was?

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