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AIBU to think my friends boyfriend is jealous of our close friendship or am I in the wrong

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AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 20:47

So… I’ll try to not make this one long.

I was out at a birthday party last Saturday night with a group of friends. Most of us were either very tipsy or straight up drunk.

Towards the end of the night me and one of my good friends (who I’ve known for 5 years) were dancing then we started to really flirty dance. Proper orange is the new black style flirty dancing. Legs were intertwined, rubbing up against one another etc. we kissed but not tongues and it was on the cheek. We were really into it and both pretty drunk but we enjoyed it. It didn’t mean anything because we both have partners and wouldn’t cheat.

Her long term boyfriend is the jealous type and cracks has shown up now and again throughout their relationship. He hovers over her on nights out and is jealous over certain things. He saw us dancing and looked like he was raging.

fast forward to today. She hasn’t replied to any of my messages but has seen them. I’m a bit concerned about whether her boyfriend has gotten involved or have I overstepped the mark? She wasn’t uncomfortable or anything so I don’t know why this is happening. Any ideas

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AloofLexanne · 07/07/2024 00:00

TheCultureHusks · 06/07/2024 13:59

How is toast bread?

😂😂😂

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TheCultureHusks · 06/07/2024 13:59

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 22:00

How is dirty dancing dry humping?

How is toast bread?

Ivyrosecrayon · 06/07/2024 01:51

Either you are deeply stupid.. or this is a reverse... or this was written by a man getting off on the concept and the replies...

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/07/2024 01:49

Incakewetrust · 06/07/2024 01:02

Who wants to take bets on how long until this gets deleted?

I'll start! £5 says it'll go at 2:28

Ummmm 6.27am

Incakewetrust · 06/07/2024 01:02

Who wants to take bets on how long until this gets deleted?

I'll start! £5 says it'll go at 2:28

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/07/2024 00:59

Faux naïf says 'what'?

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 22:00

Gugel · 05/07/2024 21:17

Are you actually generally this psychologically basic, or just about publicly dryhumping your friend?

How is dirty dancing dry humping?

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AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:21

Gugel · 05/07/2024 21:17

Don't give up the day jobs, boys.

😂😂

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Gugel · 05/07/2024 21:17

JWhipple · 05/07/2024 21:16

Presumably some teenage boys got lost on their way to Reddit and decided to share their creative writing skills here instead.

Don't give up the day jobs, boys.

Gugel · 05/07/2024 21:17

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:10

We didn’t make out. There was no tongues

Are you actually generally this psychologically basic, or just about publicly dryhumping your friend?

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:16

What crossed the line

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JWhipple · 05/07/2024 21:16

KrisAkabusi · 05/07/2024 20:54

This is the third thread about a woman dirty dancing and kissing her friend at a party while her partner watches, in two days. What's going on?

Presumably some teenage boys got lost on their way to Reddit and decided to share their creative writing skills here instead.

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:15

SpeckledJimess · 05/07/2024 21:13

Because she's embarrassed that you drunkenly acted like 14 year old idiots in public?

She should tell me she’s embarrassed. Communication is important. It’s better to be straight with someone

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Ponderingwindow · 05/07/2024 21:14

This would constitute cheating in my relationship. The sexes if the participants are irrelevant.

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:13

TheCultureHusks · 05/07/2024 21:13

I know it’s turruble

what could you possibly have done to be a better friend

we weep

😂😂

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SpeckledJimess · 05/07/2024 21:13

Because she's embarrassed that you drunkenly acted like 14 year old idiots in public?

TheCultureHusks · 05/07/2024 21:13

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:11

Why would she go all weird on me afterwards? It’s clearly her boyfriend

I know it’s turruble

what could you possibly have done to be a better friend

we weep

TheCultureHusks · 05/07/2024 21:12

OH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.

we care not

FuzzyStripes · 05/07/2024 21:11

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:11

Why would she go all weird on me afterwards? It’s clearly her boyfriend

Just from your posts I can think of several reasons to go all weird on you! Your behaviour is far more odd than his.

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:11

Why would she go all weird on me afterwards? It’s clearly her boyfriend

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AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:10

We didn’t make out. There was no tongues

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thistimelastweek · 05/07/2024 21:03

Outside of fiction blokes don't tend to.like their girlfriend making out with anyone on the dance floor

Inside fiction...

TwattyMcFuckFace · 05/07/2024 21:00

I'm mortified for the pair of you.

Stay classy though.

SpeckledJimess · 05/07/2024 20:59

If you're over 21 then this is pretty weird behaviour.

ExtraOnions · 05/07/2024 20:59

Why fo I think this had been written by the Hairy Hands Brigade ???