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After how long did he say "I love you"?

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coffeestains · 05/07/2024 15:47

That's it really! I'm just curious! Only person who has ever told me that was ex husband after 4 months...

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irisheyesaresmiling7 · 05/07/2024 18:39

A couple of weeks, we were both 18 and got engaged after two and a half months.

Together for nearly 29 years and married for 26 years.

BuyOrBake · 05/07/2024 18:12

Married 20 years and I'm still waiting!!!

He shows me but can't say it......he is autistic.

Theeternalrocksbeneath · 05/07/2024 18:12

3 weeks - and I panicked, as I couldn’t say it back! Think it took me about 3 months.

And now we’ve been married over 30 years - we tell each other multiple times a day that we love each other which is possibly a little excessive but I guess it’s better than having ended in divorce 😄

Opinionwontchangeluv · 05/07/2024 18:08

Two months but I'm one of those women that men always fall in love with quicky for some reason . Not always a good thing I have had a few stalkers

GigiAnnna · 05/07/2024 18:08

2 weeks. He probably didn't mean it but we're now happily married and he thought he meant it at the time so it doesn't matter.

HarpieDuJour · 05/07/2024 18:06

First date. I took a lot longer. Married 30 years now.

Italianita · 05/07/2024 17:39

ebts · 05/07/2024 16:12

About ten days! It took me a bit longer. We were together for 30 years until his death.

So sorry Flowers

ginasevern · 05/07/2024 16:55

25 years.

Cocolapew · 05/07/2024 16:55

Him within a week, me couple more weeks. Been married 29 years.

caringcarer · 05/07/2024 16:55

3 1/2 months at a Xmas party.

CaptainCallisto · 05/07/2024 16:52

After about a week, I think; certainly very, very early. We've been together 17 years now, married 15, with two children. He still tells me every day.

Bbq1 · 05/07/2024 16:49

Pretty much straightaway. Engaged after 6 months, married 18 months later and we've just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary.

LadyWhistled0wn · 05/07/2024 16:46

A year.

Been together 18 years.

Yiayoula · 05/07/2024 16:45

After about a month , I think !
I was 18 and he was 21.
Celebrated our Golden Wedding anniversary last year.

Berlinlover · 05/07/2024 16:42

He said it after 7 weeks, I said it after six months. We’re together nearly four years.

MissingMoominMamma · 05/07/2024 16:41

About three weeks.

We’ve been together for 27 years.

sentfrmmyiphone · 05/07/2024 16:41

10 days... been married 11 years now

user1984778379202 · 05/07/2024 16:40

Three months. Next year is our 20th anniversary.

89redballoons · 05/07/2024 16:39

About a month, which was way too early but we were only 21 and were very drunk and horny loved up.

We've been together 16 years, married 6, 2 kids, still very in love. If someone had told me when we'd just met that this would happen, though, I would have been amazed Grin

Itsallsostressful · 05/07/2024 16:32

About 4 months...we said it at the same time 🤗

NeedToChangeName · 05/07/2024 16:31

6 months

UpUpUpU · 05/07/2024 16:27

Mine still hasn’t 😂😂 he will text love hearts and shows he loves me but never said it out loud. He’ll say I love being with you etc. He is a widower though, so will never expect it. Actions speak louder than words

Alaimo · 05/07/2024 16:26

It was on our 1-year anniversary, but we were quite young (early/mid-20s). We've been together 14 years now.

CatamaranViper · 05/07/2024 16:23

I told DH after 3 months and he told me after 5.

ebts · 05/07/2024 16:12

About ten days! It took me a bit longer. We were together for 30 years until his death.

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