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Anyone with over 18s who haven’t voted yet - tell them to get to the polling station now!

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Whenwillitgetwarm · 04/07/2024 21:16

The young are easily dismissed and dissed by political parties because they don’t vote in numbers. They will only be taken seriously if they make their voices heard.

I saw an interview with the tennis player Emma Radanacu earlier and she said she didn’t even know the election was today!

They must go and be heard! If any of my kids were over 18 at home and hadn’t gone yet, I’d go with them because I suspect some youngsters are nervous about a first vote and what to do which is why they don’t go.

Anyway 45 mins to go!

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Longma · 05/07/2024 07:59

Like others we do postal votes, as did dd.
A lot of her friends also did postal votes as they, quite sensibly knowing themselves, knew they'd be more likely to get it sorted and dropped into a local post box than relying on turning up in the day.

We always do postal as it makes sure it's done. We don't have to worry about getting to the right place at the right times on a specific day, when we aren't sure what we will be doing or if they'll be any issues.

Longma · 05/07/2024 07:55

I do think it's important that parents talk to, and involved children, about voting from a young age.

We did a mini voting booth experience at school with my year 2 class yesterday. We did talk about political parties and the fact that they make policies, etc but didn't base our voting on people/parties in any way. We just wanted to show the process and how everyone is entitled to their vote and that they should use their vote carefully to indicate what they want. Our 6 and 7 year olds took it very seriously!

Longma · 05/07/2024 07:52

This is DD's first GE and she completed her postal vote,a week or two ago, along with me and dh. We haven't asked one another who we voted for but have discussed various policies and viewpoints. We deliberately don't ask one another for specifics as we've always taught dd that it's her vote and it shouldn't be influenced by others.

She takes it all quite seriously and I've been impressed by her decision to read the manifesto headlines, seek out information and use comparison sites to make her decisions. She has increasingly encouraged her friends to do the same and I know that all of her local friends have been out to vote, these are all aged 18-24.

None are overly political or even that politically interested the rest of the time tbh, but have taken their first (for most) GE seriously.

ElatedShark · 05/07/2024 07:32

edwinbear · 04/07/2024 22:00

Emma Radanacu presumably has other things on her mind at the moment, which I can understand. It’s a perfectly valid choice not to vote - DH hasn’t for his own reasons.

I actually would think someone like her would vote. If the results went the way I'd hoped, she likely in future would not be eligible to represent our country or even possibly live here.
I guess she was one of those relying on everyone else to vote for her needs.

Snugglemonkey · 05/07/2024 00:00

Happyearlyretirement · 04/07/2024 23:38

our children have been brought up knowing how important it is to vote. Daughter living in Europe arranged her proxy vote, son, who is the more sensible one has decided to visit his girlfriend at the last minute and has missed his vote. We will discuss it with him when he comes home, we are both astonished knowing that he has been brought up aware of politics but at the same time he is in love and that likely feels more important.

I wouldn't. His vote is not any of your business!

Snugglemonkey · 04/07/2024 23:59

Pigeonqueen · 04/07/2024 22:49

Dd aged 21 and all her friends at university haven’t voted 😳🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m so disappointed as they’re all very “woke” and very quick to judge everyone and everything and yet none of them can be bothered to get off their arses and vote (none of them working, all between finishing their degrees and doing their masters). I think it’s so important for everyone that has the right to vote, to vote!

I’ve just been up with Ds aged 12 watching the news and trying to get him interested and excited about it all, which he is. I am hoping he will want to vote when he’s old enough.

Is it that they can't be bothered? Or that they don't see anyone worth voting for?

Happyearlyretirement · 04/07/2024 23:38

our children have been brought up knowing how important it is to vote. Daughter living in Europe arranged her proxy vote, son, who is the more sensible one has decided to visit his girlfriend at the last minute and has missed his vote. We will discuss it with him when he comes home, we are both astonished knowing that he has been brought up aware of politics but at the same time he is in love and that likely feels more important.

TheOriginalEmu · 04/07/2024 23:29

All my kids and their mates seem to have done postal voting. It’s interesting that it seems popular among the younger crowd, but I suppose it makes sense in a lot of ways.

mummysherlock · 04/07/2024 23:29

I was a poll clerk today… the overall turnout was high and we had lots of young people vote

ScarletWitchM · 04/07/2024 23:28

Why does everyone feel they have to tell others to go and vote. We are adults and know what to do

Lara333 · 04/07/2024 23:26

Proud of mine. Away on holiday but postal organised before they went.

They are very keen to have a say, respect that they have the right to vote and have very clear views in supporting the vulnerable and equality of opportunity.

Heatherbell1978 · 04/07/2024 23:24

Going to vote in person is something I like to do and plan to keep on doing unless I'm not in the country on polling day. I was surprised this year to find most of my friends did a postal vote but I like the whole 'ceremony' of it. Took my 7 and 9 yr old and they were fascinated. I really want them to exercise their right to vote when they're of age. I'd be disappointed in them if they didn't.

Nursingadvice · 04/07/2024 23:17

I’m 36 and I voted for the second time in my life today. I really wasn’t going to bother, I have no preference one way or the other. It won’t make any difference to my every day life. I voted labour just for the sake of change, but have no knowledge as to what I’m really voting for. I really don’t understand why everyone ‘must vote’. Why? If I genuinely don’t care why should I bother.

NickMarlow · 04/07/2024 23:15

MayonnaiseOnMyChips · 04/07/2024 23:13

I do this too, my kids come with me every time

Mine didn't today, but both think they should have been allowed to vote and that kids opinions matter too. At age 9 and 5 I don't actually agree (!), but I'm glad they're interested and want their voices heard.

MayonnaiseOnMyChips · 04/07/2024 23:13

Soukmyfalafel · 04/07/2024 21:25

My son is 9 and went with me today. I vote at all of the elections and bring him with me so he feels confident enough to do it when he is old enough.

Parents have to talk to their kids about politics, but a lot of people aren't interested themselves, which is why their children aren't either.

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I do this too, my kids come with me every time

LakeTiticaca · 04/07/2024 23:11

Funnily enough I turned 18 in 1979, the year Maggie got in. I was quite excited about having my first vote in my 18th year and managed perfectly well to get myself to the polling station. Mind you back then we weren't as molly coddled by our parents and were expected to think for ourselves 🤣

shams05 · 04/07/2024 23:04

I like to go and vote in person and take the younger two with me. They learn about democracy even in primary, I want them to see how it's done.
My eldest does postal vote and my 18 year old came with me to vote for her first time. She didn't get a polling card as just recently turned 18 so just a letter authorising her to vote and I.d like the rest of us.

Lampzade · 04/07/2024 22:58

Schoolchoicesucks · 04/07/2024 21:31

There's still half an hour til polls close.

IMO anyone who doesn't vote, shouldn't be allowed to complain about anything that could have been different had a different party been in power.

This

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2024 22:56

Wedoourish · 04/07/2024 21:32

Our local polling station has reported a huge turnout of younger voters and less older voters !

Yay! 😁
The power of TikTok!

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2024 22:55

My kids definitely voted! They and their friends hate the Tories!
The election has also been all over social media.

Pigeonqueen · 04/07/2024 22:53

HungryLittleCrocodile · 04/07/2024 22:52

What a shame. Sad Bit like Brexit. Loads of people (who were aged 18-25 in 2016,) didn't vote, yet have whinged about the result ever since! I expect your DD and her friends are quite happy with the Labour winning result though?

I think so. Although she did express a desire to vote Green at one point. I think there is a real feeling of apathy amongst many younger voters, they feel that Labour were going to win it anyway so what’s the point 😳🤦🏼‍♀️ - really bad attitude really.

NotMyDayJob · 04/07/2024 22:53

Globules · 04/07/2024 22:43

Sense of occasion? Really?

Job that needs doing in my book. I'll do it the easiest way possible. No time out of my day needed.

No battle getting the adult children to vote for the first time either.

Each to their own.

Well good for you, I enjoy going to vote in person. I don't mind going slightly out of my way. Lots of people I know feel the same.

HungryLittleCrocodile · 04/07/2024 22:52

Pigeonqueen · 04/07/2024 22:49

Dd aged 21 and all her friends at university haven’t voted 😳🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m so disappointed as they’re all very “woke” and very quick to judge everyone and everything and yet none of them can be bothered to get off their arses and vote (none of them working, all between finishing their degrees and doing their masters). I think it’s so important for everyone that has the right to vote, to vote!

I’ve just been up with Ds aged 12 watching the news and trying to get him interested and excited about it all, which he is. I am hoping he will want to vote when he’s old enough.

What a shame. Sad Bit like Brexit. Loads of people (who were aged 18-25 in 2016,) didn't vote, yet have whinged about the result ever since! I expect your DD and her friends are quite happy with the Labour winning result though?

Imnotarestaurant · 04/07/2024 22:50

Soukmyfalafel · 04/07/2024 21:25

My son is 9 and went with me today. I vote at all of the elections and bring him with me so he feels confident enough to do it when he is old enough.

Parents have to talk to their kids about politics, but a lot of people aren't interested themselves, which is why their children aren't either.

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My parents spoke to me about politics, and I remember going with my dad to vote when I was 9-11ish. But I’m pretty sure I didn’t vote when I was 18-23, it just wasn’t important to me at that point of life.

Pigeonqueen · 04/07/2024 22:49

Dd aged 21 and all her friends at university haven’t voted 😳🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m so disappointed as they’re all very “woke” and very quick to judge everyone and everything and yet none of them can be bothered to get off their arses and vote (none of them working, all between finishing their degrees and doing their masters). I think it’s so important for everyone that has the right to vote, to vote!

I’ve just been up with Ds aged 12 watching the news and trying to get him interested and excited about it all, which he is. I am hoping he will want to vote when he’s old enough.

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