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Voting in an hour - tell me why I shouldn’t vote reform

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Wentie · 04/07/2024 08:43

This isn’t a wind up. I’ve done countless different quiz type things and the policies I most align to come out strongly reform. I would previously have been a Tory voter. I don’t like farage and I do feel prejudiced against reform from what is portrayed in the media - but their policies appeal to me. Anyone have any actual facts or glaring holes that I might have missed?

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IItisymoi · 04/07/2024 12:23

TwigletsAndRadishes
Well done for repeating UK tabloid bunkum. yes there is a bit of 'interest' in EU countries but the EU as an institution is NOT falling apart, it is grappling with worsening weather trends and is hindered by the war in Ukraine where the usual sopurces of gas and oil have been disrupted The 'distinctlt Right' leaning parties in France and elsewhere have no real, costed and WORKABLE plans other than populist rhetoric as I saw when Reading Bardella's 'manifesto' last week. Different groups of farmers are protesting because implementing a 'more green agenda' will cost them money in some cases so needs their own governments to assist with either funds or legislation to smooth the transition. This is reported by the trash papers in the UK as serious issues but is simply a 'bedding in' period for necessary change.

Melisha · 04/07/2024 12:21

Tinylittleunicorn · 04/07/2024 12:20

It's funny to me how Farage is all about "telling it how it is" except for when other people call him a racist misogynist disaster capitalist proto-fascist twat. Then out come the supporters to say "that's simplistic and lazy and doesn't tell the whole truth" 🙄

It tells enough of the truth though doesn't it? Surely? Farage holds up convicted rapists and domestic abusers as "fantastic" role models for "emasculated" young men? I think it's fair to say he's pro-rape? Is that not a problem for you as a woman?

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That is because Farage is like the racist Uncle who is a total pain, says he calls a spade a spade, and then calls everyone snowflakes if they object to what he says.

Tinylittleunicorn · 04/07/2024 12:20

It's funny to me how Farage is all about "telling it how it is" except for when other people call him a racist misogynist disaster capitalist proto-fascist twat. Then out come the supporters to say "that's simplistic and lazy and doesn't tell the whole truth" 🙄

It tells enough of the truth though doesn't it? Surely? Farage holds up convicted rapists and domestic abusers as "fantastic" role models for "emasculated" young men? I think it's fair to say he's pro-rape? Is that not a problem for you as a woman?

Melisha · 04/07/2024 12:15

Lifeomars · 04/07/2024 12:12

They can if they abolish it and start an insurance-based scheme based on the American model which is what Farge wants. No NHS, no waiting lists! like a magic trick.

I agree. He has openly said he wants an American style insurance scheme. Americans pay the most for healthcare in the world, but have the worst health outcomes. The very rich do okay, no one else does. If you get a complex cancer the treatment will bankrupt you.

Melisha · 04/07/2024 12:13

Lifeomars · 04/07/2024 12:09

He even charges the faithful to attend his rallies. The good people of Clacton had to pay £3.41p (very odd sum of money) to rock up and listen to him. No doubt this self styled "man of the people" has already made a handsome profit from his current incarnation as prospective parliamentary candidate for one of the most deprived towns in the country.

Yep. And Russia is supporting the party and Farage. This is not speculation. There is credible research to show this. A vote for Reform is a vote against Britain.

Lifeomars · 04/07/2024 12:12

LuckySantangelo35 · 04/07/2024 12:06

Do you really think they can make it so the NHS has no waiting lists?! 🤣

They can if they abolish it and start an insurance-based scheme based on the American model which is what Farge wants. No NHS, no waiting lists! like a magic trick.

Melisha · 04/07/2024 12:12

HebburnPokemon · 04/07/2024 11:56

Yesterday Reform UK candidate Darren Ingrouille described autistic people as ‘vegetables’

This is the kind of people you are voting for. Go ahead if those are your views.

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 12:11

Who did you vote for op?

periodiclabel · 04/07/2024 12:10

Just seen OP, didn't vote Reform. Thank you OP and for being gracious and measured in your responses to some pretty rude and nasty replies. I understand your frustrations with many things about this country but I'd strongly argue Reform is not the solution to them ...

Lifeomars · 04/07/2024 12:09

krustykittens · 04/07/2024 11:22

I wouldn't vote Reform because it is a private company, set up to profit Nigel Farage. As PP have pointed out, the man has made a living from being a disrupter. I don't think he believes in anything, he just says whatever wins over rich bigots to line his pockets and poor ones to give him social media standing. I was completely opposed to Maggie Thatcher's politics but at least she genuinely believed that what she was doing was for the good of the country. Farage doesn't give a shit about the country as long as he gets rich. I cannot believe people actually think he will stand up for women's rights when he doesn't even think women should have maternity leave. Do you remember how the fishermen of Cornwall thought he was their hero during Brexit? He hung them out to dry as well. Nigel doesn't want to be in power, because then he would be held accountable for everything he does. He just wants the money.

He even charges the faithful to attend his rallies. The good people of Clacton had to pay £3.41p (very odd sum of money) to rock up and listen to him. No doubt this self styled "man of the people" has already made a handsome profit from his current incarnation as prospective parliamentary candidate for one of the most deprived towns in the country.

MissMuffetisin · 04/07/2024 12:08

OhWhenWillSummerArrive · 04/07/2024 10:59

It’s 10.55 on voting day and me, my DH and my first time voting DC are still not decided on who to vote for.

DH’s choices are Reform or Independent candidate whereas he has always voted Con before.

I am unsure. I won’t vote Con, Labour, Green or Independent so that leaves LibDem and Reform.

Reform would be a protest vote and if lots of people vote for them they will send the shitters up Labour not to be a bunch of smug b’stards who think they’ve won, but haven’t actually. The others just scored own goals and let them win. A large number of Reform votes will also make droves of Con MP’s jump ship to Reform and tone it down by having more candidates to choose from, meaning the stupid ones can be kicked out. Things need to change, and this is the only way I can see to contribute to a massive change here in the UK.

LibDem - this would be a tactical vote to kick out my Con MP who is a smug and arrogant woman who never shows her face here. Not sure if this vote will make a difference though, as Labour are our no.2 here I believe, but there is no way I am enabling Labour.

Not sure. I may have to toss a coin.

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If Labour get in with a huge majority due to the split right wing vote, it won’t send the shitters up them, they won’t care less how the rest of the vote was split, they’ll just rejoice in their mandate to rule and the ability to push through any policy they want due to the huge majorly. The odd dissenting voice in the chamber will have no effect on the parliamentary voting

LuckySantangelo35 · 04/07/2024 12:06

Do you really think they can make it so the NHS has no waiting lists?! 🤣

TwigletsAndRadishes · 04/07/2024 12:01

Realduchymarmalade · 04/07/2024 11:33

He didn’t say that, I checked.

But that won't stop people misquoting him for their own ends. These people work on the basis that if they keep misquoting or misrepresenting their adversary's words, they'll eventually get taken as fact. it happens all the time.

Lifeomars · 04/07/2024 11:57

This would put most people off:

A Reform candidate has suspended her campaign and defected to the Tories, saying the "vast majority" of others standing for Nigel Farage's party are "racist, misogynistic, and bigoted".
Georgie David, who was the candidate for West Ham and Beckton, is the second person to jump ship amid allegations of racism within the ranks of Reform UK.

And then there's this:
Reform UK candidate described autistic people as ‘vegetables’
Darren Ingrouille, the party’s prospective MP for Chelmsford, made the jibe on social media..

There are a lot more, just Google "Reform candidates who have been suspended" it makes for an eye opening read. Of course all the parties have wrong 'uns in them but what matters is how they deal with them and also why Refrom seems to attract people with such extreme views

Kandalama · 04/07/2024 11:56

I’ve done similar personality type tests to determine where I am politically.
I come out as a Left leaning Progressive but tbh when I look at all the very left policies that’s not me. I’m far more centre than left.

So I wouldn’t base your vote on these quizzes. I’d base your vote on areas that are important to you and if you like that will help grow the economy as well and not negatively affect businesses and ultimately the ability to work.

HebburnPokemon · 04/07/2024 11:56

Yesterday Reform UK candidate Darren Ingrouille described autistic people as ‘vegetables’

periodiclabel · 04/07/2024 11:55

Do you support Vladimir Putin's invasion of Ukraine and the very real threat that regime poses to our country and the rest of the west, that could culminate in a nuclear war? If so, do vote Reform

pikkumyy77 · 04/07/2024 11:55

AllesAusLiebe · 04/07/2024 11:45

Dictators, generally speaking, tend not to engage in the democratic system. Historically, they've never been particularly keen on the notion of electorcal reform which would likely result in more coalition governments.

I don't recall ever hearing Farage speak about racial purity - you've made that up.

Far right - well, that's debatable. When I think of the modern far-right, I think of neonazism. Reform are certainly right wing, but the use of 'far-right', similar to the misuse of the term 'fascist' risks devaluing the severity of actual dangerous groups.

Fascist regimes also tend to believe in the role of the big state - Reform favour a business-led, free market approach.

I'm not voting for them, by the way. I just think that language is important.

None so blind as those who will not see.

Famously Hitler got in by being elected and then became, well, der Fuhrer. So the fact that a political party may use democratic party politics to get into power doesn’t tell you what they will do with power after they get in.

As for the anti immigrant and racist undertones and signaling of Farage and his ilk —you don’t understand mass marketing, popular culture, or populism.

There are actual neo nazis snd various varities of out and proud fascistsand they all seem to be able to recognize one another. They show up at each others rallies, favorably mention each other, support each others policies, share blueprints for coming into power. This is why Trump, Orban, and Farage all make common cause.

Melisha · 04/07/2024 11:55

I agree that a vote for Farage and Reform UK is a vote for Russian interests. I have no idea why people do not pay more attention to this. There is lots of research to show this.
Russia is waging a war against the UK. It is just not a military war.

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/07/2024 11:53

This article tells you exactly who Farage is and who he works with. Seriously shady people backed by Russia.

He’s not who you think he is. A vote for Reform is categorically and undeniably a vote against Britain and Western Europe’s interests.

https://washingtonmonthly.com/2018/06/18/the-russia-conspiracy-is-unraveling-across-the-pond/

Outliers · 04/07/2024 11:52

It's your life, and democratic right.

Do whatever you want, not sure why anyone should care.

survivingunderarock · 04/07/2024 11:50

Think of the most vulnerable person you know and vote with them in mind.

Staringatthewalljustmeagain · 04/07/2024 11:50

DazedNotConfused1 · 04/07/2024 10:54

Give it a rest 😂 these comments don’t bother me.

Would love to see the face behind your screen. Christ…

CassieMaddox · 04/07/2024 11:49

You aren't voting Reform as a party, you are voting Farage as CEO of Reform LTD which is essentially a dictatorship. So up to you if you want to hand control of your views to him because that's what a Reform vote actually means. It's not about policies or manifestos because it is a company, not a democratic parry. Its about giving Farage power.