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Ourfuturetheirfuture · 04/07/2024 08:16

We are in a unique and dangerous time in history. We are potentially on the cusp of a world war and climate chaos has started and will get worse. Children are growing up in poverty, public services that we rely on are struggling. There is much that needs attention to give us safety, stability and better life chances.

Today we are choosing who we want to lead us through the dangerous seas ahead and to try and improve our lives.

AIBU to ask you to consider;

Reflecting on your reasons for voting one way or another? Is it driven by feelings or facts? Is it a knee jerk decision based on a headline or a carefully thought choice based on research or somewhere inbetween?

Reminding yourself that the way to solve, minimise or survive the above issues will be complex and slow so anyone promising one quick solution is lying.

Russia are trying to create division and instability and are using SM to do this. Many politicians resort to whipping up fear, anger or other emotions to get you to vote for them. Look out for any information that looks too good to be true or seems to be trying to make you angry - consider fact checking it.

If you are thinking of voting for a party as a protest vote then please reconsider. Your voice is unlikely to be heard and you will still have to live with any consequences. Spoiling your paper is better than voting in a party you don’t really want at the helm.

Checking that it’s your head and not your heart making the decision.

Working class men, and then women, all fought a long hard battle to give everyone the chance to vote. Democracy is a great thing and we all have a duty to use it responsibly, especially now as we all stand at this particularly perilous point in history.

I know IAB a bit U posting this here as it’s not really an AIBU but I’m hoping I’m forgiven. Long time poster (darked on washing, Mexican house thief are in my memory bank). I’m not a Russian bot and I did my postal vote already. I’m a mum and worried about the future. I want the best for us all.

Happy voting day everyone whoever you decide to vote on. I’m so glad we all get a chance to. 😊

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Ourfuturetheirfuture · 04/07/2024 08:29

Laiste · 04/07/2024 08:21

I still haven't made up my mind !

I honestly have no faith in anyone and do feel the weight of responsibility for voting 'well', but just can't feel a pull towards anyone or any party.

Yes. No party quite fit the bill fully for me. I voted for the party that had the best policy for the things that matter most to me, and had a chance of getting in. I had to let some things go. It’s a toughie. I’m glad you feel like I do about the weight of it as sometimes it feels like some politicians and media see it as a game. Good luck with your deliberations.

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VogueDarling · 04/07/2024 08:28

In all honesty things have been much MUCH WORSE

That's not to say oh things are great. But the constant coatastophising is so waring!!!

Everything's a cycle, we have always had misinformation of the media, people get it sooner now via social media
We have had fear of Russia before

These patronising posts need to stop.

PortiasBiscuit · 04/07/2024 08:27

Nope, just vote against Reform.

Ourfuturetheirfuture · 04/07/2024 08:26

MidnightPatrol · 04/07/2024 08:19

I’d argue we probably live in one of the least dangerous times in history tbh.

The world always has its complications.

Yes, I agree at the moment but ‘I see trouble aheeead’ (singing to try and make it light hearted but actually really quite worried).

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Hermittrismegistus · 04/07/2024 08:22

I see very little difference between Cons/lab/libdems.

I'll be voting for the Party of Women.

Laiste · 04/07/2024 08:21

I still haven't made up my mind !

I honestly have no faith in anyone and do feel the weight of responsibility for voting 'well', but just can't feel a pull towards anyone or any party.

MidnightPatrol · 04/07/2024 08:19

I’d argue we probably live in one of the least dangerous times in history tbh.

The world always has its complications.

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