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145 replies

Whenwillitgetwarm · 04/07/2024 07:19

Please let today be Independence Day from the Tory regime.

Never forget.

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cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 09:09

TheKeatingFive · 04/07/2024 09:05

Two key areas of misunderstanding here.

Firstly, of course small numbers of people can impact larger numbers of people. 1 man in a woman's prison is going to have significant impact on many women. Ditto domestic violence shelters, rape counselling, etc.

Secondly, getting an GRC is not something that only 0.1% of the population can get. Any man who wants one will be able to go to the GP and say they 'feel like a woman' and that's enough. So the 50% of the population who are not women will be able to legally become women if they want that

Under Labour, in order to qualify for a GRC you need to be diagnosed with dysphoria, wait two years, then see a gender specialist, not a GP.

Predators in prisons happened under the Tories. Trans ideology in schools happened under the Tories.

Wake up.

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 09:09

Sourisblanche · 04/07/2024 09:09

She may have lasted days but her legacy has bankrupted Britain. But please do keep reinforcing the point. We wouldn’t want anyone to forget the damage Liz Truss inflicted.

Blair killed millions. I think given the choice, I would not be picking Blair for a rerun.

Sourisblanche · 04/07/2024 09:09

Nancy1906 · 04/07/2024 09:01

Really,go back to history, Liz Truss was a fool that lasted days, Tony Blair should be tried as a war criminal

She may have lasted days but her legacy has bankrupted Britain. But please do keep reinforcing the point. We wouldn’t want anyone to forget the damage Liz Truss inflicted.

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 09:08

AlisonDonut · 04/07/2024 09:00

I think you mean shills.

However many of us are actual ex Labour Party members. Not Tory shills by a long shot.

I genuinely hope I am wrong and they stop sterilising and mutilating kids. But all signs are pointing towards rolling back in the Cass recommendations and reconvening pumping cancer drugs into kids who play with the wrong toys.

I agree sterilising and mutilating children is horrendous and in years to come will be the subject of police investigation and court cases. Labour are going to make this situation even worse. Vulnerable children need support and counselling, not surgery and labels.

TheKeatingFive · 04/07/2024 09:05

Catza · 04/07/2024 08:23

This is such a red herring though. Less than 0.1% of population identifies as transgender woman. How this absolute minority can impact on your day to day life is absolutely beyond me. The likelihood of you coming across a transgender female in a “female space” is virtually 0. Yet, over the last 14 years Tories decimated woman’s rights left right and centre as women are disproportionally affected by poverty, changes to benefits system, gender pay gap, waning access to healthcare… But it’s not a sexy to-our to talk about, is it? Let’s all pile in onto hypothetical “other” threatening our rights.

Two key areas of misunderstanding here.

Firstly, of course small numbers of people can impact larger numbers of people. 1 man in a woman's prison is going to have significant impact on many women. Ditto domestic violence shelters, rape counselling, etc.

Secondly, getting an GRC is not something that only 0.1% of the population can get. Any man who wants one will be able to go to the GP and say they 'feel like a woman' and that's enough. So the 50% of the population who are not women will be able to legally become women if they want that

TikehauLilly · 04/07/2024 09:04

YANBU I no longer live in a labour area so tactically Lib Dem for me

I don't understand who would vote for the conservatives in their current state (unless your mp really is great) 100% respect different political views but this batch of tories are not to be respected.

some people I know seem to vote as its a staus flag to vote Conservative - very odd.

RubySloth · 04/07/2024 09:02

Ginisatonic · 04/07/2024 07:47

Please do tell us what the answer is.

The answer is 0. 😂

As someone else said on another thread, it's like picking between chlamydia and gonorrhea.

They are practically the same.

Nancy1906 · 04/07/2024 09:01

Sourisblanche · 04/07/2024 08:55

They bloody bankrupted the country and will do it again

They didn’t actually. But Liz Truss certainly did.

Really,go back to history, Liz Truss was a fool that lasted days, Tony Blair should be tried as a war criminal

AlisonDonut · 04/07/2024 09:00

ssd · 04/07/2024 08:51

I agree op.

Its laughable the only thing the tory shrills can say is that labour dont know what a woman is. Utterly pathetic. As if the tories are interested in ordinary women!!!

I think you mean shills.

However many of us are actual ex Labour Party members. Not Tory shills by a long shot.

I genuinely hope I am wrong and they stop sterilising and mutilating kids. But all signs are pointing towards rolling back in the Cass recommendations and reconvening pumping cancer drugs into kids who play with the wrong toys.

Underthinker · 04/07/2024 09:00

@Catza
This is such a red herring though. Less than 0.1% of population identifies as transgender woman. How this absolute minority can impact on your day to day life is absolutely beyond me. The likelihood of you coming across a transgender female in a “female space” is virtually 0.

Good apart from the numbers you start with are wrong, your calculations are wrong and your conclusions are wrong.

The census put the trans population as 5 times higher than you stated, and even this is widely believed to be too lower a figure by groups on all sides of the debate, due to inaccuracies in the census.

Secondly the likelihood of you meeting even your incorrect figure of 0.1% in a female space is clearly way higher than zero. If you use such spaces a couple of times a week, it is almost mathematically certain that you will meet someone from any given 0.1% of the population sooner or later.

Thirdly the logic that if a particular woman might never see a male in her spaces means to vote on this is illogical, is obviously flawed. If I think something is unfair, unethical and completely avoidable I will vote against it. Most women will come across males in female spaces and services at some point and many will be unharmed and unphased by it. There will be women however who due to circumstances may come across men frequently and/or be profoundly affected by it, like the nurses who were forced to change with a creepy male, the many sportswoman who have to compete against males, or the victims of trauma who want a female only space to heal and are denied this due to this crappy ideology.

cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 08:59

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That happened under the Tories. Starmer said he doesn't want Trans ideology taught in schools. I think it's abhorrent and can't believe it happened.

Sourisblanche · 04/07/2024 08:55

They bloody bankrupted the country and will do it again

They didn’t actually. But Liz Truss certainly did.

MrsAllYours · 04/07/2024 08:54

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As if. Keep trying.

Nancy1906 · 04/07/2024 08:52

Op please fk off , go back to 1997 and see what labour did: opened up borders thinking only 20k would come in, sold gold reserves, went in cahoots for an illegal war based on hearsay of chemical weapons which was later disproven.
They bloody bankrupted the country and will do it again.

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ssd · 04/07/2024 08:51

I agree op.

Its laughable the only thing the tory shrills can say is that labour dont know what a woman is. Utterly pathetic. As if the tories are interested in ordinary women!!!

HowIrresponsible · 04/07/2024 08:51

4thJuly2024 · 04/07/2024 07:45

Independence Day

Never Forget

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

if you think Labour are the answer, you don't understand the question.

Exactly

It astonishes me how many grown adults live in a cartoon world of black and white / heroes and villans.

So childish

Andthereitis · 04/07/2024 08:50

We'll see what Labour plans to do to solve these problems. They sure as shit haven't told us in their manifesto beyond they're growing the economy.

What that looks like is anyone's guess.i don't think they know.

Whenwillitgetwarm · 04/07/2024 08:49

QueenofHebdenBridge · 04/07/2024 07:55

@Whenwillitgetwarm - there's only one question today and that is "who do you trust to run the country for the next 4-5 years?"

Please do share your deeper understanding of that question with us.

Condescending much?

I will be voting Labour. I’m comfortably off with a DC in private (another in state) but the country won’t survive another 5 years of the current version of these ghouls masquerading as Tory’s. They are not traditional Tory’s, they are disaster capitalist asset strippers who’ve been given the keys to the vault. They don’t care about this country, only how much they can take from it whilst wrapped in the flag to confuse voters.

I’m nowhere near as enthusiastic about current Labour as I was about Blair’s Labour in 1997, but at least Starmer appears to actually care about our country and the British people. I’m also being realistic in that I think although we will see some relatively minor short term improvements, it may take a while for transformational change. We’re in such bad shape at the moment.

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Churchview · 04/07/2024 08:47

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 08:39

Never forget that the left always crash the economy?
Never forget that we have penises apparently?
Never forget the day you used to earn money and keep some of it without the labour government taking most of it?
Never forget how shit labour are?

I am not sure we have forgotten the last time they crashed the economy, many of us are still paying the price.

Oh dear. The economy crashed because of the market in the USA.
But you know that don't you.

Never forget how good Labour are.

Between 1997 and 2010 Labour was continuously in government. Here are Labour’s top 50 achievements during those years.

Longest period of sustained low inflation since the 60s.
Low mortgage rates.
Introduced the National Minimum Wage and raised it to £5.52.
Over 14,000 more police in England and Wales.
Cut overall crime by 32 per cent.
Record levels of literacy and numeracy in schools.
Young people achieving some of the best ever results at 14, 16, and 18.
Funding for every pupil in England has doubled.
Employment is at its highest level ever.
Written off up to 100 per cent of debt owed by poorest countries.
85,000 more nurses.
32,000 more doctors.
Brought back matrons to hospital wards.
Devolved power to the Scottish Parliament.
Devolved power to the Welsh Assembly.
Dads now get paternity leave of 2 weeks for the first time.
NHS Direct offering free convenient patient advice.
Gift aid was worth £828 million to charities last year.
Restored city-wide government to London.
Record number of students in higher education.
Child benefit up 26 per cent since 1997.
Delivered 2,200 Sure Start Children’s Centres.
Introduced the Equality and Human Rights Commission.
£200 winter fuel payment to pensioners & up to £300 for over-80s.
On course to exceed our Kyoto target for reducing greenhouse gas emissions.
Restored devolved government to Northern Ireland.
Over 36,000 more teachers in England and 274,000 more support staff and teaching assistants.
All full time workers now have a right to 24 days paid holiday.
A million pensioners lifted out of poverty.
600,000 children lifted out of relative poverty.
Introduced child tax credit giving more money to parents.
Scrapped Section 28 and introduced Civil Partnerships.
Brought over 1 million social homes up to standard.
Inpatient waiting lists down by over half a million since 1997.
Banned fox hunting.
Cleanest rivers, beaches, drinking water and air since before the industrial revolution.
Free TV licences for over-75s.
Banned fur farming and the testing of cosmetics on animals.
Free breast cancer screening for all women aged between 50-70.
Free off peak local bus travel for over-60s.
New Deal – helped over 1.8 million people into work.
Over 3 million child trust funds have been started.
Free eye test for over 60s.
More than doubled the number of apprenticeships.
Free entry to national museums and galleries.
Overseas aid budget more than doubled.
Heart disease deaths down by 150,000 and cancer deaths down by 50,000.
Cut long-term youth unemployment by 75 per cent.
Free nursery places for every three and four-year-olds.
Free fruit for most four to six-year-olds at school.

Beezknees · 04/07/2024 08:43

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 08:39

Never forget that the left always crash the economy?
Never forget that we have penises apparently?
Never forget the day you used to earn money and keep some of it without the labour government taking most of it?
Never forget how shit labour are?

I am not sure we have forgotten the last time they crashed the economy, many of us are still paying the price.

And what have the Conservatives done to help over the past 15 years?

AlisonDonut · 04/07/2024 08:42

Catza · 04/07/2024 08:38

Perhaps I don’t understand how and, unfortunately, you haven’t been able to explain it either.
I also note that you have no concerns about women calling themselves men.

I have concerns for the women. Because they are women.

ETA: To be fair if you don't see how putting men into prisons with women is a concern then you are probably way beyond help.

Gorgonemilezola · 04/07/2024 08:41

'This is such a red herring though. Less than 0.1% of population identifies as transgender woman. How this absolute minority can impact on your day to day life is absolutely beyond me. The likelihood of you coming across a transgender female in a “female space” is virtually 0'

Must just be my dumb luck to have come across men dressed as women in a 'female space' twice in the last 3-4 weeks. Now, I strongly believe that the 2 chancers I ran into were no more genuinely 'trans' than I am, but we're not allowed to say that, and under a Labour govt, we'll not be allowed to say it but with more consequences.

I will be voting Labour because they're the only party locally who will beat the Tories but if there's any nonsense about 'female spaces' being open to blokes in dresses I'll be kicking up the most extraordinary stink.