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Fussy eating in 9 year old DS1

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doyoudoduvets · 03/07/2024 13:42

DS1 (9) is tall, slim and active. A happy boy but he get's hungry quickly (high metabolism like me).

Breakfast - one of the following - pancakes/toast/cereal/glass of fruit juice/croissants

School morning break - he has toast and chocolate milk from the tuck shop

He says school dinners are too small.

He is hungry after school so has a cereal bar and a smoothie (to get some fruit in).

Dinner - he won't eat anything roasted or too brown. He says it's 'burnt' (when it's not). Sausages are fine in the slow cooker as they are soft but he's not a big meat eater. He will pick out the mince in a spag bol as it's too dark. He loves gammon. He prefers food that's lighter in colour.

On holiday, he chose rice, pasta/spaghetti and pasta sauce every day. He loves pasta sauce so I whizz lots of veg into that.

He likes boiled potatoes but not keen on chips. He would live on pasta if he could.

After 5pm dinner, I offer yoghurt but it doesn't fill him up. I get stuck as he doesn't like fruit, rice pudding or custard. He then asks for more food at bedtime (plain toast/porridge/Weetabix).

AIBU to think his diet isn't too bad but he could do with more protein and fat? I get stuck on meal ideas for him. He can't be doing too badly as he has so much energy but it seems a lot about texture?

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BobandRobertaSmith · 03/07/2024 14:00

Is the issue with mince the colour or texture? Could you try pork, chicken or turkey mince recipes? Will he eat fish? What meat in what form will he eat?

What vegetables will he eat? His diet seems very short on veg. It’s not ideal but even if there is only one vegetable he eats, serve it every day for fibre. How about cauli rice (or a small amount mixed into rice)? Whizzing veg into sauces isn’t as good as eating whole veg. I would try serving veg on the side too. He probably won’t eat it but may eventually try it.

doyoudoduvets · 03/07/2024 13:58

Cheese is only grated on the side of his plate. I've tried cubes of cheese after school but no success.

He does like scrambled eggs but he wakes early and wants his cereal as soon as he wakes but won't do hot food that early. I do pancakes every few days to get the eggs in.

He likes hot chicken legs and nuggets but not plain chicken. He says it's too chewy.

I feel like he needs a more substantial snack with protein after school if dinner is at 5pm. He won't have cheese in a sandwich. Any ideas?

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MatildaTheCat · 03/07/2024 13:45

I agree he’s eating a lot of carbs and sugary fruits.

will he eat eggs, cheese, chicken?

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