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To go abroad for one day?

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Teacherbee85 · 02/07/2024 19:32

I'm reading about people who do 'extreme day trips' from the UK to abroad.

I've been looking into it and I've found flights that go to various European cities - leaving first thing in the morning and coming back late at night.

I'm so tempted to say fuck it and just book a solo trip.

Any thoughts?

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rookiemere · 03/07/2024 16:48

@Teacherbee85 you may be in the group already but there is Extreme Day Trips from Scotland on FB with lots of suggestions and reports from people who have done it.

Rocknrollstar · 03/07/2024 16:44

DD and I used to go to Paris by Eurostar for the day but gave it up as it was just too tiring..

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 03/07/2024 16:41

It does sound fun - why not?

Personally I enjoy spending the night and waking up somewhere different, but I can totally see the appeal, especially if it’s somewhere you can go by train rather than a flight.

Stripytennis · 03/07/2024 16:38

I also personally could go to ibiza for a day, I wouldn't come back! I would be gutted not to get a few days relaxing in the sun. So personally it would need to be a city break if I was considering it again.

Teacherbee85 · 03/07/2024 15:13

Bjorkdidit · 03/07/2024 12:52

As well as fewer flights, this is another disadvantage in starting from Scotland or Northern England, the flight each way is around an hour longer than if you start in London.

I know you might be thinking about a day at a beach club OP, but you might be better looking at a day in the Nordic Countries for the shorter flight?

It's a good point - I suppose I was just keen to get a break from this miserable Scottish 'summer' 🙃

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Lisbeth50 · 03/07/2024 13:04

I have been to France and Ireland on day trips. Both involved driving and ferry at night though, arriving in time for breakfast.

Bjorkdidit · 03/07/2024 12:52

rookiemere · 03/07/2024 12:32

@Teacherbee85 having seen your flights, I do think if you're planning there and back in a day you would be better to pick shorter flights. I wouldn't fancy being in the air longer than I was on the ground.

As well as fewer flights, this is another disadvantage in starting from Scotland or Northern England, the flight each way is around an hour longer than if you start in London.

I know you might be thinking about a day at a beach club OP, but you might be better looking at a day in the Nordic Countries for the shorter flight?

pinkspeakers · 03/07/2024 12:35

I wouldn't. I'd save my flights for times when I had longer to enjoy the visit.

If the choice is between doing a short trip and a long trip, then obviously the long trip is just as bad environmentally as the short trip. But if the choice is between multiple short trips or one long trip (as it's likely to be for most people with limited time and funds) then it's a very different story.

rookiemere · 03/07/2024 12:32

@Teacherbee85 having seen your flights, I do think if you're planning there and back in a day you would be better to pick shorter flights. I wouldn't fancy being in the air longer than I was on the ground.

MimiMe24 · 03/07/2024 11:51

Did it myself one Christmas to Brussels as got super cheap day return with Eurostar. Although got held up in France for an hour on the train which lessened the time in Brussels, it was so much fun-and packed in so much. It IS a bit of a fever dream though, even looking back on it now. And coming home late the same day all felt a bit surreal (in a good way) but highly recommend it! Do it!!

edit: got the first train out which I THINK was about 5:30/6:00 and the last train back that night. After more delays, got home at something like 1am, but because it was such a fab day, exhaustion didn’t really hit if I’m honest.

Teacherbee85 · 03/07/2024 11:46

Stripytennis · 03/07/2024 11:27

I done it, Paris for a day.

It was exciting and fun but absolutely exhausting.

Don't think I'd bother again, much nicer to stay in a hotel to relax at the end of the day... and that way you get a whole proper evening too.

I think we flew at 5am and flew home at around 5pm... we were literally falling asleep in the taxi to the airport going home 😂

The thought of it being spoiled by exhaustion is the only reservation I have!

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Stripytennis · 03/07/2024 11:27

I done it, Paris for a day.

It was exciting and fun but absolutely exhausting.

Don't think I'd bother again, much nicer to stay in a hotel to relax at the end of the day... and that way you get a whole proper evening too.

I think we flew at 5am and flew home at around 5pm... we were literally falling asleep in the taxi to the airport going home 😂

Zeeze · 03/07/2024 11:18

I’ve done this as a day trip to Paris (I live quite near St Pancras). Not sure if I would venture father afield though and there are often delays - especially with the last plane of the day.

Floralnomad · 03/07/2024 11:15

We’ve done it a fair bit when I used to fly ( I don’t anymore) but we are SE so likely much easier .

Teacherbee85 · 03/07/2024 11:12

Thanks for the continued input!

I'm still searching away, trying to find a balance between being somewhere so long I'm absolutely exhausted, or not having quite enough time somewhere.

Have attached a couple of options I've found...

To go abroad for one day?
To go abroad for one day?
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CMOTDibbler · 03/07/2024 11:09

Go for it! I'm in Paris for the day today- I did have something I needed to pick up here, but done now and now I am having a lovely lunch

andthat · 03/07/2024 10:46

Teacherbee85 · 02/07/2024 21:49

Thanks for the encouragement everyone, I think I'm gonna go for it 😀

Thinking either Amsterdam, Ibiza or Barcelona .

I travel once a fortnight for work. If the flights are on time, then it’s a breeze.

However, they are frequently delayed or cancelled. As long as you accept that there is a probability you won’t get the time you were planning, then go for it!

Babyandmexox · 03/07/2024 10:42

Go for it!! Personally I'd rather find a cheap hotel/hostel for one night. People who are saying it's not environmentally friendly - it's not making a difference if them flights are already scheduled regardless of you getting on them; not like your getting on your own personal plane. And if you are, don't 🤣

DancingLions · 03/07/2024 10:38

I'm a smoker, I do this often and bag cheap cigarettes in duty free. Win win!
Yes it's tiring but I'm in my 50s, menopausal and pretty knackered generally, and I manage it.
I'm in London so easy for me to get to a few airports. The places I arrive at, it's usually 15-20 mins to the city centre. Although one thing to be wary of is passport control. If you go somewhere popular at peak time, you could get stuck in a long queue now we can't use the EU gates anymore.

MissAmbrosia · 03/07/2024 10:02

I live in Brussels so we do this a lot. Though in our case there are loads of places you can get to in under 2 hours from home by car or by train. We often pop to NL for lunch or shopping. Germany for xmas markets. Lille is lovely. Don't really bother with Paris, though i have to go there for work.

TonTonMacoute · 03/07/2024 09:53

GHG emissions from the Internet dwarf that from global air traffic, and what do we do with that? Sexting, funny cat videos and arguing with strangers on Internet forums.

If you want to save the planet then go offline and go abroad for the day - but it's not really about saving the planet, it's about keeping us plebs in our place (both literally and metaphorically).

DataPup · 03/07/2024 09:52

Maybe when I was younger I could get on board with this, but these days I couldn't be arsed with dealing with airports for the sake of only one day.

This. I used to love airports when I was younger but hate them now. Not sure if they've got worse or I've just got older and grumpier.

Ponoka7 · 03/07/2024 09:50

4fingerKitKat · 03/07/2024 07:25

I can see why this is tempting I really can but from an environmental perspective it’s kind of grotesque. It’s one thing to fly for a 2 week summer holiday because I don’t really expect people to be such hair-shirt environmentalists that everyone has to forego 2 weeks in the sun (I’ll be flying for my summer holiday this year). But for the most part people seem to be doing these “extreme day trips” just because they can, because it’s cheap, for the sheer hell of it. It’s not as though people are typically choosing to do a day trip instead it’s in addition to other trips. It’s all extra flights.

And it’s a nonsense to say “the flight is going whether I am onboard or not” - you are creating the demand - ok that flight on that particular day will still take off, but long term flights only operate where it’s economic to do so. The person who talked about the environmental impact of producing almond milk earlier - if someone said “if I didn’t drink it, someone else would” - would you accept that argument? It’s exactly the same.

I think there needs to be some massive reform to the way we pay for flying. Someone used the example of using tumble driers earlier so I did some rough maths - a short haul flight emits about as much CO2 as using a tumble drier every day for a year. But using the tumble drier daily could cost £500 and a return short haul flight might be £20? It’s completely insane - we need to pay the carbon cost of flying.

Have you been to the US and seen what they are driving, even in cities like Chicago? Have you researched ommissions globally?
Us doing our home recycling and limiting our flying is going to do nothing.
OP I do day trips around the UK, so it's no different. You get the vibe of a place and then can decide to do longer. Flying from Liverpool, it's cheaper to get a cheap hotel and do an overnight, so research it and if you can make it work, then go for it. It's one if the things thar makes me keep my fitness up, at nearly 60, I don't want to stop travelling. I also think that the more travel, the less shite you buy and don't have meat eating pets etc.

CleanShirt · 03/07/2024 09:46

I went to Paris for the day last month and going to Brussels for the day next week. God bless the Eurostar flash sale!

angelcake20 · 03/07/2024 09:43

I have a hobby where people do this quite a bit and I get infuriated. The environmental impact really cannot be justified for such a short trip (the plane is flying anyway argument is nonsense as it is just a result of many individual decisions, which can be changed). The huge amount of similar business travel frustrates me equally.