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to complain about smear test?

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didistutter56 · 02/07/2024 14:53

I’m in my early 30s so not a seasoned pro regarding smear tests, but this is my 3rd one. I’ve had a child so I know what I’m expecting.

Anyway, I had one last week and it’s been bugging me a bit since. I came into the room, was asked if I’d had a smear test before, replied yes, and told to get on the bed. Removed underwear and had just about got on the bed because the practitioner was back round the curtain, and within seconds she was doing the test - no warning, no conversation, just grabbing hold of me and shoving it in, for lack of a better word!

30 seconds later she’s done, telling me that I’ve bled and talking through how long it’ll be to get the test results. She didn’t leave again for me to put my underwear back on, so I left with it in my bag.

I don’t know if I’m being precious but her bedside manner bugged me - with my last one, the lady was lovely, gave me warning when she was about to start and asked how I was during, whether there was any pain etc.

Would this have bothered you?

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MollyJustMight · 02/07/2024 15:02

I would make a complaint. This is not how women should be treated when having such a personal procedure. It may be an every day thing for the nurse, it isn't for you.

Oldcroneandthreewitches · 02/07/2024 15:01

Absolutely give feed back. She was failing on privacy and dignity. Might come to nothing or it might come to her being told she has to retrain

DaisyCat33 · 02/07/2024 14:59

The underwear thing would have bothered me. They usually allow you to say when you're undressed, and then give you time and privacy to get yourself dressed again. I'd have felt a bit uncomfortable if I had to take my underwear home in my bag.

It's up to you if you wish to make a complaint, depends how uncomfortable you felt, but I do understand your discomfort. It sounds like it wasn't a great experience.

loriginale · 02/07/2024 14:57

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BobbyBiscuits · 02/07/2024 14:56

Not enough to make a complaint. But bedside manners is really important. Some people are sadly completely lacking. If she actually physically hurt you or did the test wrong, then I would complain. But otherwise it's just bad luck unfortunately.