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The "terrifying threat from Labour"

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BigWordAtlas · 02/07/2024 13:50

I know that Tory HQ staff often come on here and post, and will be doing even more so at the moment.

I also know that Kier Starmer has done a terrible job in gender critical thinking, and members like him, Rayner and Lammy are currently an absolute shitshow when it comes to the rights and protections of women and children. I'm not looking forward to the battle we'll face after the election to reverse the damage that's been done and to protect those rights, and fully bring down all the MRA policies that have formally or informally kicked in over the last few years.

But does anyone else feel like the absolute barrage on here in the last few days about the Holy Bloody Handmaid Terror that will be Labour's government is a bit... overblown? A bit Tory HQ-flavoured? They're absolutely panicking at the moment and will do any kind of astroturfing they can to chip away at votes, particularly in swing constituencies like mine.

No party is perfect, and Labour is currently far from perfect for me and my children. But realistically, I have to vote Labour where I am if I want to keep a Tory candidate out. I hate their gender ID policies, but this nail-bitten tone of total and complete apocalypse (and yes, I've heard posters use that word in this context) feels unhelpful and not really equipping anyone to improve things after the GE. They made me feel extremely anxious until I just hit a wall with the frantic language, and now I'm feeling much more pragmatic and ready to fight with Labour on this stuff, rather than against them and allowing another party to get in.

So AIBU to feel that most of these posts are at least seeded by Tory HQ, rather than actual Labour voters like me?

<hard hat donned>

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meimei80 · 03/07/2024 11:08

BigWordAtlas · 02/07/2024 14:27

It's a bit simplistic to say socialism 'doesn't work'. It's a massively complex push and pull of various factors as to whether it works or not. The post-war social consensus built a free-at-the-point-of-use health service that has saved millions of lives, as well as thousands of schools, arts centres, libraries, parks and more that were open to everyone.

For many different reasons, we're still in the Thatcherite mentality of 'no such thing as society', everyone is out for themselves and whatever benefits me and my family is all I'll vote for. If anything, we should have learned that it's individualism that doesn't work and socialism is the best bet for all of us, taking the hit of what we can afford to make society fairer and better for as many as possible (the only thing that actually does reduce crime and poor health, and increases revenue, trade, creativity and good health outcomes).

But for now, the main political philosophy of the West is 'everyone else can get fucked if I can't have everything I want yesterday.'

Well put.

DeadbeatYoda · 03/07/2024 10:34

@BigWordAtlas
FWIW I find myself largely in agreement with your points.

Alwaystired94 · 03/07/2024 10:19

cavalier · 03/07/2024 10:17

conservatives have got a lot to sort but Labour omg .. they are a weird bunch
Their transgender mess is an insult to women and the transgender community

There will be no way I would have vote Labour .. Raynor is scary also .. Reeves couldn’t even describe a woman
look it up on Google .. just like Stammer she got in bits fgs … Nick Ferrari LBC radio interview.. Disturbing stuff
it comes to something when I need to think about the party I want absolutely categorically out than I want it and I’m willing to chance the tories again because with Labour we are doomed

And what is scary about Angela Rayner?

Alwaystired94 · 03/07/2024 10:17

cupcaske123 · 03/07/2024 09:38

Well the country is a smoking mess. There's nothing positive to say about their time in office. All they can do is say it will be worse. The cheek of them talking about women's rights when the Trans Trojan horse happened under their watch is astounding. Nevermind the devastation they've caused to women's lives through austerity.

agreed. which is why i hate women stating they are voting for the Tories because of womens rights... it's like ok cut your nose off to spit your face.

cavalier · 03/07/2024 10:17

hamstersarse · 02/07/2024 14:24

Starmer is genuinely terrifying on the trans issue, if that is what we are talking about. He just cannot speak the truth about it. It is way worse than any of BJ's lies.

Lammy literally said the other day that men can grow a cervix

These people are horrifying. Smug, virtuous and possessed by ideology that they know what is best for everyone.

conservatives have got a lot to sort but Labour omg .. they are a weird bunch
Their transgender mess is an insult to women and the transgender community

There will be no way I would have vote Labour .. Raynor is scary also .. Reeves couldn’t even describe a woman
look it up on Google .. just like Stammer she got in bits fgs … Nick Ferrari LBC radio interview.. Disturbing stuff
it comes to something when I need to think about the party I want absolutely categorically out than I want it and I’m willing to chance the tories again because with Labour we are doomed

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 03/07/2024 10:12

hamstersarse · 02/07/2024 14:18

I think anyone earning over £50k will be pretty pissed off with the prospect of a Labour government. They make it clear time and time again that 'rich' people are their target, and by rich they simply mean high tax earners.

For me it will be the lack of incentive to do well because of the tax burden that is terrifying - when will people realise that socialism doesn't work?!

when will people realise that socialism doesn't work?!

Possibly when some of the richest, most successful, happy countries on the planet are not Socialist, and there's some element of truth to the garbage statement that "Socialism doesn't work?!"

How's 45 years of UK Neoliberalism "working" out? From where I'm standing, it's an absolute fucking shitshow.

notanothernana · 03/07/2024 09:54

Oakskn · 02/07/2024 14:02

I started a private school thread under another name. People don’t actually realise or care what’s going on in many private schools (and worse they don’t bother reading it if I write it). I got called Tory HQ. I’m just a random person. I don’t know why I got called Tory HQ - just for disagreeing with a labour policy. Often on this website if you don’t worship the Labour Party, you get called Tory HQ.
FWIW I am terrified of Starmer - I don’t expect anyone to care, but I am allowed my own feelings. Didn’t vote for Bojo either. Still terrified of Starmer. But I’m not Tory HQ. If people want to call someone Tory HQ - essentially that’s troll hunting. They should report to MNHQ if they don’t think it’s a genuine mumsnetter. It one kind of troll hunting that MNHQ seem to allow - because they are pretty left leaning IMO.

You're right, don't care what's going on in private schools.

BrigadierEtienneGerard · 03/07/2024 09:54

So long as they are not the Tories, I couldn't give a monkeys what the next Govt. does.

cupcaske123 · 03/07/2024 09:38

Alwaystired94 · 03/07/2024 09:31

It does seem to be very much "Labour are worse" rather than "this is how we are good"

which all parties have been guilty of this cycle but at least the others actually advertise their policies also. All Conservatives seem to be on SM is talking about Labour.

Well the country is a smoking mess. There's nothing positive to say about their time in office. All they can do is say it will be worse. The cheek of them talking about women's rights when the Trans Trojan horse happened under their watch is astounding. Nevermind the devastation they've caused to women's lives through austerity.

Alwaystired94 · 03/07/2024 09:31

Horseebooks · 03/07/2024 09:29

If you go on conservative twitter (which to me seems totally unhinged but I understand it doesn’t to everyone) then it is quite interesting how they seem to seed themes (‘supermajority’ is the current one) that are basically aimed at causing fear, rather than talking about hope for the future.

labour also have some weird shit on theirs but I would say compared to the conservatives, much less wacky. I mean, the conservatives have a gif of Keirs head as a lightbulb, exploding, it’s fucking weird.

It does seem to be very much "Labour are worse" rather than "this is how we are good"

which all parties have been guilty of this cycle but at least the others actually advertise their policies also. All Conservatives seem to be on SM is talking about Labour.

Horseebooks · 03/07/2024 09:29

If you go on conservative twitter (which to me seems totally unhinged but I understand it doesn’t to everyone) then it is quite interesting how they seem to seed themes (‘supermajority’ is the current one) that are basically aimed at causing fear, rather than talking about hope for the future.

labour also have some weird shit on theirs but I would say compared to the conservatives, much less wacky. I mean, the conservatives have a gif of Keirs head as a lightbulb, exploding, it’s fucking weird.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 03/07/2024 09:23

@Mycatsmudge
I still remember the winter of discontent in 1978 when Labour were in power and over powerful unions and the far left held the country to ransom and chaos ensued.

That was 46 years ago! Organisations, including political parties and Trade Unions, change hugely in that time frame

cupcaske123 · 03/07/2024 08:57

Mycatsmudge · 03/07/2024 08:54

I read lots of different newspapers for a range of views and opinions including The Guardian, The Times, Daily Mirror,The telegraph, The Sun and The Daily Mail.

I can also make up my own mind.

So why are you worried about 1978? Starmer purged the party of the Left,and you'd know what's been going on if you read a broad range of papers.

Mycatsmudge · 03/07/2024 08:54

newnamethanks · 03/07/2024 08:23

I remember Trade Unions too. I remember what power they had. There is absolutely no comparison to be made between then and now. You should buy a different newspaper.

I read lots of different newspapers for a range of views and opinions including The Guardian, The Times, Daily Mirror,The telegraph, The Sun and The Daily Mail.

I can also make up my own mind.

hamstersarse · 03/07/2024 08:41

I’ve worked in negotiating with trade unions in the very recent past.

I can confirm that they still operate in the same manner. Any strikes you see going on could easily be resolved if it were not for far left unions. I understand and agree with the need for unions but somehow they are like catnip for extreme socialist leaders hellbent on maximum destruction with no regard for the user of whatever service it is.

newnamethanks · 03/07/2024 08:23

I remember Trade Unions too. I remember what power they had. There is absolutely no comparison to be made between then and now. You should buy a different newspaper.

Mycatsmudge · 03/07/2024 08:18

I fear the Keir Starmer has made a Faustian bargain with the hard left within the Labour Party which they have hidden from the electorate until after they are in government. Once there they will dictate what Keir Starmer can do. I still remember the winter of discontent in 1978 when Labour were in power and over powerful unions and the far left held the country to ransom and chaos ensued. My primary school closed for a month because no fuel was delivered to heat it due to strikes. The electricity would go off in the evenings mum would struggle to scrape a meal together and we would sit in the dark.

I spoke to my DPs yesterday about this and they said they remember the winter of discontent well including the mountains of rubbish piling up on the streets because the bin men were striking and how in some places the dead weren’t buried. They also said they felt intimidated in the factories they worked in to go along with the union position even if they didn’t agree because they would be bullied and cancelled otherwise. They are also fearful about what a Labour government beholden to the far left could do now. They said when Tony Blair got elected in 1997 it was in totally different circumstances. Tony Blair didn’t have a far left faction to contend with as Thatcher had reduced the power of the unions and Neil Kinnock had already dealt with the far left within the Labour Party. Blair had also inherited a healthy growing economy with money to spend on public services.

I agree public services and the NHS are in a state but I also believe far left activists within the civil service and NHS have been working to create and maintain chaos so the public will think this is all the Tories doing and I agree the Tories have been asleep at the wheel and not dealt with this. Once the Labour Party gets elected the far left will then pull the strings of their puppet Keir Starmer to dance to their tune
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Winter_of_Discontent

cardibach · 02/07/2024 21:56

Yalta · 02/07/2024 21:22

I am on a zero hours contract

I don’t see why paying more tax is going to get me more

Interested in knowing what this more looks like

What extra public services will I benefit from by having less money in my pocket.
I have adult children, I am on UC but that only amounts to around £320 per month and most of the time I earn more which means I usually get £0 from UC

If I don’t work then a £320 per month “safety net” doesn’t look very much like a safety net

Even if someone has housing benefit etc it might not cover the whole rent and if someone is reliant on coming out with a certain amount and then they are getting less then UC aren’t going to cover all off the short fall.

I think you are out of touch with how these things work

You won’t be asked to pay more tax at those levels. The manifesto is clear on that.

Yalta · 02/07/2024 21:22

LoveSandbanks · 02/07/2024 19:33

What about those on zero hours contracts, those on poverty wages who need them topped up by universal credit. Doesn’t matter how hard you work, if you need top ups with UC you can’t have savings of more than £6,000.

Im using our family income to illustrate that we are within the suggested target of Labour. I don’t believe those on a knife edge will be adversely affected, I think they will benefit by better services.

I am on a zero hours contract

I don’t see why paying more tax is going to get me more

Interested in knowing what this more looks like

What extra public services will I benefit from by having less money in my pocket.
I have adult children, I am on UC but that only amounts to around £320 per month and most of the time I earn more which means I usually get £0 from UC

If I don’t work then a £320 per month “safety net” doesn’t look very much like a safety net

Even if someone has housing benefit etc it might not cover the whole rent and if someone is reliant on coming out with a certain amount and then they are getting less then UC aren’t going to cover all off the short fall.

I think you are out of touch with how these things work

AhNowTed · 02/07/2024 20:53

@BigWordAtlas

"In terms of this, the third space campaign isn’t women’s to run."

I agree, and said so in my post.

A practical solution to a practical problem needs to be reached, without women giving up our single-sex spaces.

Mycatsmudge · 02/07/2024 20:46

AhNowTed · 02/07/2024 19:35

On the subject of trans women, which tends to dominate these threads.

Many trans folk present very convincingly as feminine women.
Some not so much.
Most trans women are totally harmless and just want to live their lives, with respect, in line with the wider population.
A small minority are potentially dangerous, in line with the wider population.

And no, it’s not women’s responsibility to give up their single-sex spaces in order to solve where trans women go to the loo, or get changed, or access healthcare, or indeed go to prison.

HOWEVER it IS society’s issue to solve where trans women do these things, because no one could surely think it’s acceptable, or safe, for feminine trans women to have to use a men’s public toilet, or changing room.

And it can’t be beyond us to find a practical solution, to what is for the most part a practical problem.

But it is difficult. It would involve extra loos and changing rooms, and hospital beds, and money. And legislation to protect women who want female-only healthcare professionals.

That’s the hard bit, and no one, from any political party, has an answer to this yet.

Having said that, I do believe that Labour has woken up, and the penny has dropped. And I would trust them to take this issue seriously, as opposed to empty rhetoric from the Tories.

First of all The Labour Party has to admit this is a problem and tell us loud and clear before the election they will create 3rd spaces for trans people. However, their stance is still TWAW so they can access women only spaces and biological women’s safety will be put at risk because not all those who will obtain a GRC will be harmless

BigWordAtlas · 02/07/2024 20:41

Yalta · 02/07/2024 18:26

People have been living on a knife edge for thousands of years what ever government was in power
I do think messing with that and tipping people into debt for the good of public services is not going to end well

I actually think that if there wasn’t the campaign to get rid of Boris we wouldn’t be in such dire circumstances now (A case of be careful of what you wish for) We wouldn’t have had a prime minister with his hands tied trying to defend himself he would have been getting on with running the country. The whole Covid restrictions were ridiculous.
We wouldn’t have had Liz Truss and the budget which brought so much damage
And we wouldn’t have ended up with a PM who made a good chancellor but was completely out of touch with reality and wasn’t fit to run a country.

Personally I am not voting. I think policies and manifestos aside I think Starmer isn’t a strong enough personality to keep control of those in the Labour Party who have been waiting and hiding their own agenda for when Labour are in power and to stop any of the infighting I see happening
I think no matter how much of a landslide there is in Labours favour I think it will be wasted

The Conservatives are led by someone who not only has no idea of the reality of peoples lives but also has no interest in winning (he has already bought his next home and it isn’t in the UK)

That leaves Reform’s leader Farage
Here is someone who you feel knows what he wants the country to look like, whether you agree or disagree with him and unlike Starmer he I feel is someone who couldn’t give a flying f**k about trying to keep everyone happy. He also has some understanding of what people are going through at the moment

Which then makes you wonder how really F**ked this country is if Nigel Farage is looking like a better leader than the current encumbents of the 2 main parties

Thank you for debating, @Yalta . Unfortunately if you think the error was getting rid of Boris Johnson, and if you also think that Nigel Farage has an “actual
understanding of what people are going through”, I’m not sure we’ve found sufficient common ground to have a useful conversation.

I wish you lots of luck with everything, though.

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BigWordAtlas · 02/07/2024 20:38

AhNowTed · 02/07/2024 19:35

On the subject of trans women, which tends to dominate these threads.

Many trans folk present very convincingly as feminine women.
Some not so much.
Most trans women are totally harmless and just want to live their lives, with respect, in line with the wider population.
A small minority are potentially dangerous, in line with the wider population.

And no, it’s not women’s responsibility to give up their single-sex spaces in order to solve where trans women go to the loo, or get changed, or access healthcare, or indeed go to prison.

HOWEVER it IS society’s issue to solve where trans women do these things, because no one could surely think it’s acceptable, or safe, for feminine trans women to have to use a men’s public toilet, or changing room.

And it can’t be beyond us to find a practical solution, to what is for the most part a practical problem.

But it is difficult. It would involve extra loos and changing rooms, and hospital beds, and money. And legislation to protect women who want female-only healthcare professionals.

That’s the hard bit, and no one, from any political party, has an answer to this yet.

Having said that, I do believe that Labour has woken up, and the penny has dropped. And I would trust them to take this issue seriously, as opposed to empty rhetoric from the Tories.

In terms of this, the third space campaign isn’t women’s to run. As far as I understand, the problem comes about because most vocal TRAs don’t want a third space and aren’t interested in campaigning for one. They want women’s spaces, and they want women to either shut up (at least) or welcome them in and say what excellent women these men are (at best).

It isn’t women’s responsibility to run a campaign that is absolutely nothing to do
with them, much as I’m sure many would lend their support.

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AhNowTed · 02/07/2024 19:35

On the subject of trans women, which tends to dominate these threads.

Many trans folk present very convincingly as feminine women.
Some not so much.
Most trans women are totally harmless and just want to live their lives, with respect, in line with the wider population.
A small minority are potentially dangerous, in line with the wider population.

And no, it’s not women’s responsibility to give up their single-sex spaces in order to solve where trans women go to the loo, or get changed, or access healthcare, or indeed go to prison.

HOWEVER it IS society’s issue to solve where trans women do these things, because no one could surely think it’s acceptable, or safe, for feminine trans women to have to use a men’s public toilet, or changing room.

And it can’t be beyond us to find a practical solution, to what is for the most part a practical problem.

But it is difficult. It would involve extra loos and changing rooms, and hospital beds, and money. And legislation to protect women who want female-only healthcare professionals.

That’s the hard bit, and no one, from any political party, has an answer to this yet.

Having said that, I do believe that Labour has woken up, and the penny has dropped. And I would trust them to take this issue seriously, as opposed to empty rhetoric from the Tories.

LoveSandbanks · 02/07/2024 19:33

Yalta · 02/07/2024 17:33

What about those people who can’t afford to pay more tax. Those that are balancing on a knife edge each month to make ends meet because I can guarantee that it won’t just target those on household incomes of £140,000 or more per year but those with incomes of £40,000 per year and less

Whilst you won’t mind having less in your pay packet can you not understand that others might not be able to afford such things

What about those on zero hours contracts, those on poverty wages who need them topped up by universal credit. Doesn’t matter how hard you work, if you need top ups with UC you can’t have savings of more than £6,000.

Im using our family income to illustrate that we are within the suggested target of Labour. I don’t believe those on a knife edge will be adversely affected, I think they will benefit by better services.