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Don't Want To Bring Teens On Holiday

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Casacalida1 · 02/07/2024 08:25

Two DDs are 14 and 16 and I don't want to bring them. I fly out next week and return home the end of August. DH will fly out in August for three weeks. DH thinks I should leave them at home with him. Their behaviour is awful these days and they gang up on me and their younger brother. I just want to relax and not deal with the arguments. DH told them they would fly out with him which of course didn't go well. I really don't want to bring them but I know I will feel guilty leaving them at home and they will probably hate me even more than they do now.

Advice please.

OP posts:
Pigeonqueen · 02/07/2024 08:27

Well that’s a very long time for them to be at home on their own. If it was just a week then fair enough although it sounds like there’s a lot of backstory here….? What’s started it all?

Beamur · 02/07/2024 08:27

Have a break. Your husband is right.