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Extensive wrinkles?

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foreverdatchingup · 01/07/2024 15:53

I just had a consultation, I didn’t go for wrinkles. And the doctor said I had extensive fine lines and wrinkles and then made me smile into a mirror to show me …

I’m early 30s I’m not perfect, in fact I’m harsh on myself and even I would never say I have EXTENSIVE wrinkles and fine lines around my eyes. Surely most people get lines when they smile?

I’ve walked away and had a cry

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Itiswhysofew · 01/07/2024 16:03

Aw, I'm not surprised you're upset. That type of speak is not easy to hear.

I think it's just the way they present their verdict, in order to make you go ahead with tweakments. I doubt you've got extensive wrinkles. I think that I have, but I'm told otherwise. Bet if I went to a clinic they'd be telling me the same, but much more, as I'm way older than you.

Don't be down about it. They're experts at selling their services Brew

Gilbertwasawuss · 01/07/2024 16:02

We definitely need a bit more context about what kind of doctor & appointment this was.

But either way, aging faces are beautiful and we are lucky to have each year pass.

I am 31 and I am noticing little eye creases and other changes.
In a society obsessed with hiding any hint of (women) aging, it can feel like an assault on your self esteem.

Full disclosure, I get botox due to very asymmetrical brows and eyes. I love it, but I don't think anyone should feel like they have to. I also don't get it specifically for wrinkles etc

Owl55 · 01/07/2024 15:59

Did he think you may have a medical issue perhaps , very dry skin or something that would indicate you needed investigations?

loriginale · 01/07/2024 15:58

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Lentilweaver · 01/07/2024 15:57

You could try Tretinoin if it really bothers you. Works wonders. Better than Botox.

Though I expect you look just fine.

CalicoPusscat · 01/07/2024 15:55

Aw, it's their job to make people focus on 'flaws' and sell their services.

Am sure you're fine, just keep up the water intake!

Lentilweaver · 01/07/2024 15:54

A consultation for what? Is this doctor invested in selling you Botox? Sounds very unprofessional to me.

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