My partner is neurodiverse and I am slowly learning all that this means. In general he is a very supportive partner.
When I was unhappy and wanted to leave my job, he talked through all the options with me. He said well done when I finally resigned.
When I actually got this job he didn't say congratulations. I reminded him yesterday I was starting the new job today but he replied to other things I was saying and didn't acknowledge it.
This morning family and my best friend have sent me good luck messages but nothing from him. AIBU?
The relationship is good otherwise so doesn't seem like a hill to die on but feels a bit disappointing. I almost think he thinks 'she'll obviously do well' but hasn't verbalised it.