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AIBU my partner can’t verify my dad’s identity?

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Imgoingtoaskthequestion · 30/06/2024 12:20

My parents want my Dr partner to verify my dad’s identity so he can close a bank account for a deceased family member.

I don’t live with my parents, but my partner and I have a child and a mortgage together. So surely that makes him “related” to my dad?

AIBU to say this goes against the rules of not being either related/living at same address/in a relationship?

OP posts:
TimeGoesBySoSlowlyForThoseWhoWait · 30/06/2024 12:23

ACynicalDad · 30/06/2024 12:21

If the Dr isn’t happy to sign I’d leave it there. There must be someone else.

Weird way of describing the OPs partner as “the doctor”.

@Imgoingtoaskthequestion just tell them your partner has had guidance training on this and they count as relatives, or ask them do they not view him as their son-in-law?

ACynicalDad · 30/06/2024 12:21

If the Dr isn’t happy to sign I’d leave it there. There must be someone else.

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