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To ask who you are voting for?

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I5itm3 · 29/06/2024 20:35

Labour
Tories
Lib Dem
Green
Reform
SNP (Scotland)

And why?

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BeetlejuiceBeetlejuiceBeetlejuice · 01/07/2024 23:54

Conservative. Locally, my MP is wonderful. And I also admire Kemi. I can’t vote for a party who doesn’t know what a woman is, and I don’t want to vote Reform. For me, it’s vital Labour are kept out.

BeachParty · 01/07/2024 23:47

Why should I vote Labour just because everyone else is believing the land of milk and honey is just a tick away?

I don't think anyone is believing that?
Just we've had 14 years of public services getting worse and worse (NHS, community centres shutting down etc)
Just think a "change of scenery" and a hope for a better standard of living is more likely than more of the same shit we've got now?
I do anyway

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 23:45

Churchview · 01/07/2024 23:36

It was the Tories you are calling arseholes @LostTheMarble .

They’re all arseholes. But not voting or spoiling my ballot is only making it easier for Labour. As I said, they will win in my area and will probably get that landslide for the whole country. Realistically we’re only looking at two parties fighting for power, and since my arm is (metaphorically) being twisted I’d sooner have Sunak than Starmer running the country. The Labour mp running for my area has made zero allusions to how they’d help the local area, just repeating all of the party’s soundbites, whilst our current Conservative MP has actually put work into an area of high poverty/low income. Why should I vote Labour just because everyone else is believing the land of milk and honey is just a tick away?

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 23:44

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 23:30

Perhaps. But in 5 years time when Labour have done (at best) nothing, at worst fucked up further and trying to pin it all ‘on the previous government’, I’m pretty sure many a new Labour voter will be wondering where their marbles where when they believed the ‘things can only get better’ line (again, you’d think how things ended with the Blair government would be a bit of a damn clue with Tony 2.0 at the helm). Going to be interesting to see what develops over the next 5 years, I'm sure one of us will be proven to have been a bit mad in the here and now 🙂.

OK. I'd prefer to take my chances with Labour than trust a government that have proven repeatedly to lie, break the law and be incapable of governing. After Truss I can't believe anyone could possibly take them seriously. Especially as Rishi is toast - who knows who they'll pick next?

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cardibach · 01/07/2024 23:44

InALabourStronghold · 01/07/2024 23:24

Imo the red wall crumbled because folk wanted Brexit done. It’s been rebuilt.
Why not accept the challenge to convince me? Go through each point I make and topple it. Have stamp duty, CGT and IHT been discussed in Labour’s manifesto?
Come on! You can do better than be disinterested!

It hasn’t been rebuilt until it elects Labour MPs which it hopefully will on Thursday. I’m beginning to think everything you post is invented. Why do you want me to persuade you of anyth8ng? I don’t want to. I simply pointed out an irrationality in the way you were pretending to decide.
I now think you aren’t in a Labour stronghold and are just stirring. Nothing adds up. I’m out. Have a good evening.

Churchview · 01/07/2024 23:36

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 23:34

And Labour are demonstrably not arseholes? When it comes to defending sex based rights for one, evidently not so. They seem to not have much care for teachers either, just seeing them as replaceable robots who will gain those academic results purely from the power of a Labour government….

It was the Tories you are calling arseholes @LostTheMarble .

BeachParty · 01/07/2024 23:36

@LostTheMarble
The Tories are arseholes but at least it’s ’devil you know’ arseholes

So - you'd rather vote for a party you "know" are arseholes over a party that you think "might" be arseholes given half a chance?!
Make it make sense 😭

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 23:34

Churchview · 01/07/2024 23:31

Until I read this post I had no idea that a person would vote for a party they know to be proven arseholes?

And Labour are demonstrably not arseholes? When it comes to defending sex based rights for one, evidently not so. They seem to not have much care for teachers either, just seeing them as replaceable robots who will gain those academic results purely from the power of a Labour government….

Churchview · 01/07/2024 23:31

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 22:32

I’ll be voting Conservative. It’s a protest vote, not one I want to make. Labour have cemented their views on women’s rights in the worst way, their manifesto is either unrealistic or straight up guff. The Tories are arseholes but at least it’s ’devil you know’ arseholes. Feels awful going against my long held values, but since Labour are doing that for me anyway might as well go the full swing.

Until I read this post I had no idea that a person would vote for a party they know to be proven arseholes?

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 23:30

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 23:24

Apt username 😂

Perhaps. But in 5 years time when Labour have done (at best) nothing, at worst fucked up further and trying to pin it all ‘on the previous government’, I’m pretty sure many a new Labour voter will be wondering where their marbles where when they believed the ‘things can only get better’ line (again, you’d think how things ended with the Blair government would be a bit of a damn clue with Tony 2.0 at the helm). Going to be interesting to see what develops over the next 5 years, I'm sure one of us will be proven to have been a bit mad in the here and now 🙂.

BeachParty · 01/07/2024 23:26

Livinginaclock · 29/06/2024 21:10

Conservative.
I'm not happy about it, but at least they know what a woman is.
I'm a single issue voter this time, women's rights are my main concern.

You're obviously entitled to vote for who you like, but I honestly don't get this mindset.
I'm a woman, and I think it's absolutely bonkers that anyone would think that voting Conservative is the way to go as they care about women.
No they bloody don't!
I feel a hell of a lot unsafer under them than I ever have under Labour.

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 23:24

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 22:32

I’ll be voting Conservative. It’s a protest vote, not one I want to make. Labour have cemented their views on women’s rights in the worst way, their manifesto is either unrealistic or straight up guff. The Tories are arseholes but at least it’s ’devil you know’ arseholes. Feels awful going against my long held values, but since Labour are doing that for me anyway might as well go the full swing.

Apt username 😂

InALabourStronghold · 01/07/2024 23:24

Imo the red wall crumbled because folk wanted Brexit done. It’s been rebuilt.
Why not accept the challenge to convince me? Go through each point I make and topple it. Have stamp duty, CGT and IHT been discussed in Labour’s manifesto?
Come on! You can do better than be disinterested!

cardibach · 01/07/2024 23:21

InALabourStronghold · 01/07/2024 23:19

If I didn’t want to be convinced I wouldn’t have offered you the opportunity. I’ve expressly told you (twice) I have reservations about Conservatives. There’s more than one way to levy tax from pensioners, you know. My age group - not saying any/all applies to me - faces downsizing (stamp duty), triple lock, CGT, IHT, possibly paying DGCs’ public school fees. Has Starmer promised not to touch these? No, only triple lock, and we all know politicians don’t keep promises. This man needs to levy money and he already wants to apply VAT to public school fees which is causing concern for some.
So go for it, @cardibach. Convince me. Stop me being an odd bod in a Labour stronghold.
Alternatively have no fear. This stronghold will remain Labour. Absolutely it will. I’m in the red wall which is solidly built.

The red wall crumbled last time.
i have no interest in persuading you. I was simply pointing out that deciding on the basis of stuff you think a party will do when they’ve said they won’t is a bit unusual.

BeachParty · 01/07/2024 23:19

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 29/06/2024 21:02

Labour, the only party able to take out Tories locally and I think they’re the best for public services, particularly NHS and care.

Same, as in voting for them and think they're best for NHS and care.
Also because I love our Labour MP and think she does a great job so would like to keep her in too.

InALabourStronghold · 01/07/2024 23:19

If I didn’t want to be convinced I wouldn’t have offered you the opportunity. I’ve expressly told you (twice) I have reservations about Conservatives. There’s more than one way to levy tax from pensioners, you know. My age group - not saying any/all applies to me - faces downsizing (stamp duty), triple lock, CGT, IHT, possibly paying DGCs’ public school fees. Has Starmer promised not to touch these? No, only triple lock, and we all know politicians don’t keep promises. This man needs to levy money and he already wants to apply VAT to public school fees which is causing concern for some.
So go for it, @cardibach. Convince me. Stop me being an odd bod in a Labour stronghold.
Alternatively have no fear. This stronghold will remain Labour. Absolutely it will. I’m in the red wall which is solidly built.

cardibach · 01/07/2024 23:04

InALabourStronghold · 01/07/2024 23:02

@cardibach Even though you can’t recall all the points I’ve made (fair enough), you haven’t acknowledged my response to your challenge. Why, I wonder, nor have you tried to convince me why I should vote Labour other than to keep out Conservatives. I live in a Labour stronghold, remember!

Because you don’t want to be convinced. You’ve said you are worrying about Starmer doing something he’s expressly said he won’t, so whatever I say you’ll discount. At that point, the only thing left is to say vote to get/keep the Tory out. If there’s no chance of them getting in (and strongholds don’t always stay that way) then you’ve no worries.

InALabourStronghold · 01/07/2024 23:02

@cardibach Even though you can’t recall all the points I’ve made (fair enough), you haven’t acknowledged my response to your challenge. Why, I wonder, nor have you tried to convince me why I should vote Labour other than to keep out Conservatives. I live in a Labour stronghold, remember!

MrsSkylerWhite · 01/07/2024 22:54

Ereyraa · Today 22:33
greengreyblue · Today 22:11
What if it was your son who had always felt they were in the wrong body?

are you defensive because this is your son?

I don’t know the answer to your question to this poster but, were it my son, hell, of course I would defend him.

Wouldn’t (shouldn’t) we all put our loved ones above strangers?

cardibach · 01/07/2024 22:47

InALabourStronghold · 01/07/2024 19:04

@cardibach
I thin’ you are worrying about nothing. You’ve decided to fret about something there’s zero indication he’s even thinking of.
Are we speaking at cross purposes? Are you alluding to the Labour Party raising taxes? I’ve told you I’m concerned about how additional money will be levied but worrying about Starmer’s stance on single sex rights.
Challenge accepted. Triple lock introduced by Conservatives and Lib Dems in 2010, raising of personal allowance, a period without stamp duty which facilitated a younger generation to get on the housing ladder, 30 hours free child care (though I grant you the loss of Sure Start is reprehensible).
Over to you. Using facts, not opinions, convince me why I should join my fellow constituents and vote Labour.

Funnily enough I don’t remember the points of everyone I discuss with. You were fretting about him coming after pensioners because they aren’t ’working people’ I think. Not sure what the rest has to do with what we were discussing really.
Anyway, vote for whoever gets or keeps the Tories out because they are lying, cheating, law breaking incompetents with contempt for everyone other than their friends and family. We know this from their actions.

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 22:36

DontBiteTheCat · 01/07/2024 22:34

Do you know what Tories have done to women over the last 14 years?

I despair honestly. A vote for the Tories is not a vote for women’s rights.

Edited

The Tories won’t get in. Not in my area anyway. As I said, it’s a protest vote - if there was any other half decent option in my area I’d vote for them. I’m aware of all the things the Tories have done, my mind is made up.

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 22:35

Oh, and I don’t want a party in power who will make it easier for medical eugenics to take advantage of my autistic children struggling with puberty. Because I am a good mother, not a ‘be kind’ fantasist @greengreyblue

DontBiteTheCat · 01/07/2024 22:34

LostTheMarble · 01/07/2024 22:32

I’ll be voting Conservative. It’s a protest vote, not one I want to make. Labour have cemented their views on women’s rights in the worst way, their manifesto is either unrealistic or straight up guff. The Tories are arseholes but at least it’s ’devil you know’ arseholes. Feels awful going against my long held values, but since Labour are doing that for me anyway might as well go the full swing.

Do you know what Tories have done to women over the last 14 years?

I despair honestly. A vote for the Tories is not a vote for women’s rights.

Ereyraa · 01/07/2024 22:33

greengreyblue · 01/07/2024 22:11

What if it was your son who had always felt they were in the wrong body?

are you defensive because this is your son?

protectoroftherealm · 01/07/2024 22:32

greengreyblue · 01/07/2024 22:20

@protectoroftherealm what a horrible mother you would be!

No, I'm actually a really good mother with a son whose entire existence is surrounded by love, support, fact and reality! Thanks though xx