I'm seeking advice and understanding from those who have been in similar situations.I've been married for 10 years, and my husband has been caught cheating three times. The latest incident has been especially hurtful. He claims he sought companionship. I discovered about the affair this month and confronted her via social media. She confirmed they dated for six months and were intimate but she ended it in December. My husband denies this, saying she wanted more but he refused, which led to the end of their relationship. The woman says she ended it when she found out he was married after he lied about having marital difficulties. I am currently attending marriage counseling.The main issue is that he refuses to take an STD test, and I have told him that, given what I know, I won't be intimate with him until he does and agrees to certain boundaries. He has refused to comply with these requests, saying we have been initimate since the relationship ended in December and I am being unfair. Pls advise, no judgement pls.