I went on a LOVELY date a few days ago with a man. He was courteous, sweet, we got on so well and he's asked me on a second date already. It felt very natural and like we'd known eachother for ages. I do really like him.
Anyway, I'm a bit concerned that he told me he's still living with his mum at 29. He told me he did have a roomate but they moved in with their girlfriend so now he's back at home and saving for a house. He's a tree surgeon but he works for a company, not self employed. I've got my own place and I'm younger than him.
I'm looking for a man who is financially stable and who can take care of himself so I don't have to mother him basically. Do you think this a red flag that he possibly can't or shall I give him the benefit of the doubt?
What are your thoughts? Would this put you off?