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To think the people in the baby name forum are on crack!?

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incognitolady · 27/06/2024 23:55

Shag and String were just suggested (in a seemingly serious way) in the boho boy name thread.

What is going on in some people's brains!?

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Butteredtoast55 · 29/06/2024 07:27

Fishfire · 28/06/2024 19:39

And this is exactly why the forum is useful! Particularly with first DC, it's really hard to know what names are actually popular/gathering traction.

I don't even go on that board, I don't know why I'm defending it so much. Just seems like people have a really odd, superior attitude to it.

When I named my first child 30 years ago the midwife said they'd never delivered a child with that name and how unusual it was. By the time he was at school there were three in his class and it's been very high in the popularity lists every since. Luckily we still like the name 😊 You never know what's going to become popular.

I think there's a resurgence due of my parents generation and thereabouts: Barbara, Carol, Elizabeth (Liz/Betty), Sue, John, Michael, Stephen. I'd have said I can't see names like Geoff or Graham coming back but I've seen boys recently called Bert, Roy, numerous Erics and Ernests/ Ernies, several Arthurs and a Kenneth.

We are going through a resurgence of names people may think of as old fashioned like Edith, Elsie, Mabel and Maude. Things work in cycles and, whilst, personally, I really prefer more classic names from all eras rather than general nouns or strangely spelt mashups, it's nice when you hear people's choices and it's something a bit unusual.

CruCru · 28/06/2024 20:29

In fairness, the baby names board is useful to check that you aren’t being crackers in suggesting a name. If pretty much everyone says “God Lord, no, you can’t possibly call a baby Keith” then it is useful to know that.

I love the French names like Ottilie and Aurelie but I understand that, in France, they are quite old fashioned - a bit like Pauline or Barbara here.

I am fairly conservative on names. Not everyone should be called Charlotte or Elizabeth (say) but, if a name really is “out there”, it is worth considering whether the name Toadfish is going to serve the parents or the child more. A name that is fun and interesting for the parents of a two year old may end up being one that a fifteen year old ends up repeatedly mumbling “Yeah, I’m not being funny, it is Toadfish” to people.

AutumnCrow · 28/06/2024 20:19

Laughingravy · 28/06/2024 19:28

I am reliably informed by DP that the glamorous female jet fighter pilots in Captain Scarlett were Destiny, Harmony, Symphony, Melody and Rhapsody.

I remembered that too! <sad>

They were from the US x2, the UK, Japan and France.

Melody Angel also voiced the indomitable Lady Penelope.

Fishfire · 28/06/2024 19:39

Butteredtoast55 · 28/06/2024 18:32

Maverick is very popular now. My midwife friend says the parents say they're choosing it because it's unusual and she doesn't like to tell them she's delivered three already that week.
Likewise Phoenix and Skylar.

And this is exactly why the forum is useful! Particularly with first DC, it's really hard to know what names are actually popular/gathering traction.

I don't even go on that board, I don't know why I'm defending it so much. Just seems like people have a really odd, superior attitude to it.

Laughingravy · 28/06/2024 19:28

NaughtyBoyGeorgeMichaelJacksonBrown · 28/06/2024 18:05

Symphony and Rhapsody remind me of Harmony and Melody from the Queens Nose. I desperately wanted to be called Melody!

I am reliably informed by DP that the glamorous female jet fighter pilots in Captain Scarlett were Destiny, Harmony, Symphony, Melody and Rhapsody.

Butteredtoast55 · 28/06/2024 18:32

PissedOffNeighbour22 · 28/06/2024 07:19

When I was looking around nurseries a couple of years ago there was a kid being an absolute terror. He was being followed round by a member of staff saying 'no Maverick, don't do that'.
Maverick. Why would someone even think that's a good name to consider? Not as awful as Malice though.

Maverick is very popular now. My midwife friend says the parents say they're choosing it because it's unusual and she doesn't like to tell them she's delivered three already that week.
Likewise Phoenix and Skylar.

Thmssngvwlsrnd · 28/06/2024 18:29

GirlOfThe70s · 28/06/2024 07:28

Many years ago I met an American woman who was talking about her children. Her son was called Click. I asked if that was a nickname, and she said, no, his full name is Click.

Is his brother called Collect?

Fishfire · 28/06/2024 18:28

CanadianJohn · 28/06/2024 13:08

PP wrote "Names are important ... "

Maybe. Would the best chess player in the world, Magnus Carlsen, been less successful if his name was "William". Would Donald Trump have been less obnoxious if he's been given a biblical name, like Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John?

Maybe the aforementioned Malice and Maverick were handicapped by their names, but "normal" names... nah, it doesn't matter.

It matters to the child who lives with the name, and the parents who say it constantly for at least the first twelve years or so!

If course names matter.

LlynTegid · 28/06/2024 18:14

A registrar of births should have the right to refuse to accept some names. The French went a bit too far when they had an approved list, but I get the sentiment.

Stupid names is child cruelty in a way.

NaughtyBoyGeorgeMichaelJacksonBrown · 28/06/2024 18:05

Symphony and Rhapsody remind me of Harmony and Melody from the Queens Nose. I desperately wanted to be called Melody!

PifandHercule · 28/06/2024 17:36

There is a baby name forum? 😂

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/06/2024 17:02

A TA at our local school once told me a child had started with the name Bam Bam.

Laughingravy · 28/06/2024 16:55

I've hesitated to comment as it could be the parent of this brother and sister may be on here. But they chose these names for their offspring and they are doubtless judged elsewhere. I also have good reason to think they are genuine but it would be outing to say how. In our household we often refer to 'Tarquin and Jocasta' usually referring to spoilt brats or their entitled parents but this has changed recently. And the names?
Tundra and Atlas

CanadianJohn · 28/06/2024 13:08

PP wrote "Names are important ... "

Maybe. Would the best chess player in the world, Magnus Carlsen, been less successful if his name was "William". Would Donald Trump have been less obnoxious if he's been given a biblical name, like Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John?

Maybe the aforementioned Malice and Maverick were handicapped by their names, but "normal" names... nah, it doesn't matter.

Menopaused · 28/06/2024 12:37

KimberleyClark · 28/06/2024 09:20

Saw someone called Rhapsody on a game show once. She had a sister called Symphony.

I wonder if Rhapsody's middle name was Blue and if Symphony was one of 9.

Menopaused · 28/06/2024 12:35

That forum is a trolls haven

Fishfire · 28/06/2024 12:27

PossumintheHouse · 28/06/2024 01:41

I think anybody who posts on the baby names forum asking what to call their child is a bit bonkers. Why the hell would you listen to the opinion of strangers about what to call your child!? It's all on you.

Oh come on. No one is posting 'I'm off to the registry office in ten mins, first reply names my child.'

Names are important and there's a big choice. Why not use the board here as a source of inspiration and suggestions, rather than spending hours trawling through name websites?

It's also an interesting source of reactions to a name you might choose.

FeelingHotHotHotFeelingHotHotHot · 28/06/2024 12:16

5128gap · 28/06/2024 12:12

I do. But as Crevyse is pronounced Crevice I thought they matched well. Do you not think..?

Oh I get it now! 😂

5128gap · 28/06/2024 12:12

FeelingHotHotHotFeelingHotHotHot · 28/06/2024 11:31

You know 'craic' is pronounced 'crack' right? 😆

I do. But as Crevyse is pronounced Crevice I thought they matched well. Do you not think..?

FeelingHotHotHotFeelingHotHotHot · 28/06/2024 11:32

KatyaKabanova · 28/06/2024 07:51

I don't mind hippy names, really. They're often quite gentle and nice. River, Willow and Autumn are all pleasant and not outlandish.

I love those names I'm not gonna lie.

FeelingHotHotHotFeelingHotHotHot · 28/06/2024 11:31

5128gap · 28/06/2024 09:26

Ooh, Craic! That's lovely. I've been looking for something to complement DD1s name (Crevyse) for ages, and I LOVE Irish names!

You know 'craic' is pronounced 'crack' right? 😆

Mightywease · 28/06/2024 11:30

Shyshay · 28/06/2024 06:13

I saw the name 'Brick' suggested on a thread the other day. Brick. Confused

Brick is a character in Tennessee Williams' "Cat in a Hot Tin Roof" so I suppose if you like a bit of febrile Southern states of America drama it's perfect!

Could be worse, there another character in the play called Gooper!!

PassingStranger · 28/06/2024 10:56

Soukmyfalafel · 28/06/2024 08:22

We've gone for nature names too. I didn't think naming a child after something natural was weird. We like nature, so seemed fitting to name our children in that way.

I have heard some really odd names, or overly macho names that made me cringe at first, but you just get used to them and they grow on you. I hated my name as a child as it was different and I got the piss ripped out of me, but I like it now. Doesn't suit me though. I look more like a 'Jane' sort of person 😂 It has never stopped me getting a job either like some people think it does. This was in a time when if you didn't call your kids a name in the top 20 you were odd.

What does a Jane person look like?

sashh · 28/06/2024 10:15

KimberleyClark · 28/06/2024 09:20

Saw someone called Rhapsody on a game show once. She had a sister called Symphony.

Were they conceived on cruise ships?

Crokepark · 28/06/2024 09:50

Muthaofcats · 28/06/2024 00:47

Sorry this is really offensive; my son is called Shag and we think it’s beautiful. My daughters are Derivative and Huaktuh. We love unusual names in our family. Each to their own.

😂